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Serious What made u realize u were an incel

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What was the wake up call
 
I think I always knew
 
when i became a social outcast
 
I became an incel a few
 
There wasnt a wakeup call i just gradually realised
 
constant rejection, being treated like shit, fake "friends"
 
I always knew I was at the bottom of the hierarchy
 
Always knew, only did not have a name for it.
 
when i became a social outcast
I was always ugly but when people stopped sitting with me at lunch and started sitting with their real friends I realised I wasn't going to be winning in life
 
I think I always knew
Same. I always had the suspicion that I was an outcast. Then, I learned about what incels were about a year ago, and realized that I was one.
 
Getting zero female attention
 
Online dictionary
 
I'd always had the feeling for a long time that I was incel-adjacent, at the time I wasn't bluepilled but i also wasn't blackpilled either eventually the depressing state of being alone for such a long time finally got to me which allowed me to finally admit to myself that I was an incel.
 
Foids called me ugly and refused to date, later I was outcast by normies
 
my recessed chin from an overbite and my sunken in eyes. if i didn’t have it i’d be goodlooking i have a good base
i also have no fucking friends and just doomscroll all day. i don’t even play video games at least
 
Being extremely bullied at school.
Got rejected by every girl I ever approached, be it at school or later on.
Barely had friends, let alone real friends in my life.
Currently no friends.
Get gaslighted by my family about my looks.
Girls don't ever show interrest.
 
When I got called a rapist for asking a girl on a date
 
The last time I developed feelings for a girl.
Fucking destroyed me.
 
lot of hs experience in early teenage
and mid and late teenage till today just my looks
 
To hang out with my chad friend in hs and see all the girls looking at him with admiration and trying to talk to him but not me.
 
When they started calling me ugly
 
- No one EVEN befriended / fell in love with me, EVEN in military which they are ""supposed"" to give brotherhood
- Disgusted looks on people
- almost got cops called on me for "harrasement"

At least hey, I've got military experience, right...?
 

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