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What is the cause of not getting treated with basic respect if you ugly

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This is something that I don’t understand, if people think you are ugly why they feel the need to treat you badly, not even with minimum basic respect, they always want to treat you like shit to make you feel worthless, I am not saying all people do this, but way too many people do this, it happened to me a lot and still happening
 
People associate ugliness with bad health and therefore avoid it.
 
They don't see you as a human being, they see you as garbage they need to step around. Women want you to stay far away so that's why they treat you badly, so you don't try to talk to her.
 
They don't see you as a human being, they see you as garbage they need to step around. Women want you to stay far away so that's why they treat you badly, so you don't try to talk to her.
It’s not only women, it’s men as well, if you are ugly or low status other men treat you badly too, I’ve been treated badly by both men and women
 
It’s not only women, it’s men as well, if you are ugly or low status other men treat you badly too, I’ve been treated badly by both men and women
For me it was 100% of women that would treat me badly, and maybe like 50% of men. I ran into some guys that would be respectful even though I'm ugly
 
People associate ugliness with bad health and therefore avoid it.
oke i understand, if you don’t like someone because you think they are ugly that’s your opinion, you’re not forced to associate yourself with someone if you don’t like due to his appereance or any other reason, but at least treat him like a human being with basic respect, don’t go out of your way to treat them badly or with disrespect and make life even harder for them
 
oke i understand, if you don’t like someone because you think they are ugly that’s your opinion, you’re not forced to associate yourself with someone if you don’t like due to his appereance or any other reason, but at least treat him like a human being with basic respect, don’t go out of your way to treat them badly or with disrespect and make life even harder for them
I agree but people honestly instinctively view ugly guys like us as ill and therefore dangerous.


Add on the autism and we give off uncanny valley vibes too.
 
Because we are genetic trash. We are seen as viruses, a threat to the reproductive gene pool.
 
i think its our species safeguard, it ostracizes bad genetics so they dont reproduce, thus making the collective stronger
 
In a society that worships carnality and appearance is the main criterion for everything, normies are afraid of also being ostracized were they to associate with unnattractive undesirables.

You are mistreated because the standard to which they are wired on to base their treatment of others is as shallow as can be. You are dealing with unthinking cattle. Don't let their drivel demoralize you
 
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For me it was 100% of women that would treat me badly, and maybe like 50% of men. I ran into some guys that would be respectful even though I'm ugly
Yes in my experience males try to be "helpful" since they see you as retarded. Hey, at least it's a nice gesture but I don't think it's gonna work. They usually only start bullying you if they are trying to get some foid's attention and this stops working after age 20

Women on the other hand, see me as a virus infiltrating their earth
 
In a society that worships carnality and appearance is the main criterion for everything, normies are afraid of also being ostracized were they to associate with unnattractive undesirables.

You are mistreated because the standard to which they are wired on to base their treatment of others is as shallow as can be. You are dealing with unthinking cattle. Don't let their drivel demoralize you
it don’t bother me anymore that much anymore like it used to be in the past because I am used to it now, but I just think it’s wrong to treat others badly just because you think they are ugly, they act if it’s like you choose that, like no one wants to be ugly or in any bad situation but sometimes this things choose you and you can’t change it, it doesn’t take a genius to think about examples like this, like aren’t they have a brain
 
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In a society that worships carnality and appearance is the main criterion for everything, normies are afraid of also being ostracized were they to associate with unnattractive undesirables.

You are mistreated because the standard to which they are wired on to base their treatment of others is as shallow as can be. You are dealing with unthinking cattle. Don't let their drivel demoralize you
You are right about normies being unthinking cattle; they can't see past surface appearance.
 
I just think it’s wrong to treat others badly just because you think they are ugly, they act if it’s like you choose that, like no one wants to be ugly or in any bad situation but sometimes this things choose you and you can’t change it, like it’s not that difficult to think about examples like this, like aren’t they have brain
You're absolutely right, and yes, they simply don't stop to think about anything, they just do what they're programmed to do.
You have a soul, an inner monologue, capability of introspection. They don't
 
Lookism is worse than slavery and genocide combined
 
It's an authomatic response.
 
This is something that I don’t understand, if people think you are ugly why they feel the need to treat you badly, not even with minimum basic respect, they always want to treat you like shit to make you feel worthless, I am not saying all people do this, but way too many people do this, it happened to me a lot and still happening
Because when we rope they can worry less about our genetics being passed on.
 
oke i understand, if you don’t like someone because you think they are ugly that’s your opinion, you’re not forced to associate yourself with someone if you don’t like due to his appereance or any other reason, but at least treat him like a human being with basic respect, don’t go out of your way to treat them badly or with disrespect and make life even harder for them
We aren't entitled to basic respect as sub 5 men it is over.
 
Your ugliness annoys them
 
This is something that I don’t understand, if people think you are ugly why they feel the need to treat you badly, not even with minimum basic respect, they always want to treat you like shit to make you feel worthless, I am not saying all people do this, but way too many people do this, it happened to me a lot and still happening
Our mind automatically associates good looking people with other good traits due to their charisma, I'm assuming the same happens to ugly people but in reverse. Its tragic, but that's just how life is.
 
slight uncanny valley effect
 

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