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For me, personally. It's not the lack of reproduction, as I really couldn't care less about spawning crotch fruit. It's not the sexlessness, as though it hurts, my hand does the trick to relieve the pain. It's not even the loneliness or the skin hunger, though it bothers me deeply, and they torment me relentlessly.

No, it's the fact that the people in my life don't seem to give a single, flying shit about the relentless pain and unending torment that I deal with on an hourly basis, and have dealt with for more than two miserable decades of my life. My father's oblivious and doesn't seem to even notice, neither of my brothers seem to give any sort of fuck about what I'm going through. My friends, few as they are, seem far more concerned about what I can do for them, than even bothering to ask if I'm okay, and if I'm making it through all the struggles I face. My guardian angel, or whatever suffices for the damn thing, seems to be doing the bare minimum to keep me out of mortal trouble and peril, a regular punch-clock douche who has no passion for his job.

The inceldom, though brutal, relentless, and hell, I can deal with. I have my various copes, my games, my music, my beer and weed, though the former have been infiltrated and destroyed by casuals/posers and liberal idealogues alike, but I thankfully still have old/underground things to enjoy. But the fact that people who expect me to care about them show nothing in return just cuts deeply. I find myself facing a cold, heartless truth: that being, I don't really feel like I give a single fucking shit about any of them, anymore.

Even my own incel community has been laid waste, by banishment from our origins, and the invasion of niggers and curries trolling the main forum spaces, glowies posting bait and thoughtless spam, pedophiles, commies, and liberal scum.

The real problem with inceldom is that I don't just feel alone; I feel abandoned.
 
Not having a girlfriend
 
Even the word to describe one's suffering has been co-opted, memed, misconstrued, and stolen by fakers.
 
For me, personally. It's not the lack of reproduction, as I really couldn't care less about spawning crotch fruit. It's not the sexlessness, as though it hurts, my hand does the trick to relieve the pain. It's not even the loneliness or the skin hunger, though it bothers me deeply, and they torment me relentlessly.

No, it's the fact that the people in my life don't seem to give a single, flying shit about the relentless pain and unending torment that I deal with on an hourly basis, and have dealt with for more than two miserable decades of my life. My father's oblivious and doesn't seem to even notice, neither of my brothers seem to give any sort of fuck about what I'm going through. My friends, few as they are, seem far more concerned about what I can do for them, than even bothering to ask if I'm okay, and if I'm making it through all the struggles I face. My guardian angel, or whatever suffices for the damn thing, seems to be doing the bare minimum to keep me out of mortal trouble and peril, a regular punch-clock douche who has no passion for his job.

The inceldom, though brutal, relentless, and hell, I can deal with. I have my various copes, my games, my music, my beer and weed, though the former have been infiltrated and destroyed by casuals/posers and liberal idealogues alike, but I thankfully still have old/underground things to enjoy. But the fact that people who expect me to care about them show nothing in return just cuts deeply. I find myself facing a cold, heartless truth: that being, I don't really feel like I give a single fucking shit about any of them, anymore.

Even my own incel community has been laid waste, by banishment from our origins, and the invasion of niggers and curries trolling the main forum spaces, glowies posting bait and thoughtless spam, pedophiles, commies, and liberal scum.

The real problem with inceldom is that I don't just feel alone; I feel abandoned.
My parents are the only people who are loyal to me but I can relate to the feeling of abandonment and the worrying about dying alone after rejection after rejection
 
not being loved
 
Even the word to describe one's suffering has been co-opted, memed, misconstrued, and stolen by fakers.
Word, or phrase? I'm thinking "Forever Alone," which has been co-opted and outright abused since before I even joined the incel community back in 2016.
 
My parents are the only people who are loyal to me but I can relate to the feeling of abandonment and the worrying about dying alone after rejection after rejection
You're fortunate. My dad is selfish, and couldn't really give a fuck about what happens to me in the far future.
 
Word, or phrase? I'm thinking "Forever Alone," which has been co-opted and outright abused since before I even joined the incel community back in 2016.
The word incel. Now people who literally have weekly sex abuse the term to describe themselves. see: femcel, kitchencel
 
For me, personally. It's not the lack of reproduction, as I really couldn't care less about spawning crotch fruit. It's not the sexlessness, as though it hurts, my hand does the trick to relieve the pain. It's not even the loneliness or the skin hunger, though it bothers me deeply, and they torment me relentlessly.

No, it's the fact that the people in my life don't seem to give a single, flying shit about the relentless pain and unending torment that I deal with on an hourly basis, and have dealt with for more than two miserable decades of my life. My father's oblivious and doesn't seem to even notice, neither of my brothers seem to give any sort of fuck about what I'm going through. My friends, few as they are, seem far more concerned about what I can do for them, than even bothering to ask if I'm okay, and if I'm making it through all the struggles I face. My guardian angel, or whatever suffices for the damn thing, seems to be doing the bare minimum to keep me out of mortal trouble and peril, a regular punch-clock douche who has no passion for his job.

The inceldom, though brutal, relentless, and hell, I can deal with. I have my various copes, my games, my music, my beer and weed, though the former have been infiltrated and destroyed by casuals/posers and liberal idealogues alike, but I thankfully still have old/underground things to enjoy. But the fact that people who expect me to care about them show nothing in return just cuts deeply. I find myself facing a cold, heartless truth: that being, I don't really feel like I give a single fucking shit about any of them, anymore.

Even my own incel community has been laid waste, by banishment from our origins, and the invasion of niggers and curries trolling the main forum spaces, glowies posting bait and thoughtless spam, pedophiles, commies, and liberal scum.

The real problem with inceldom is that I don't just feel alone; I feel abandoned.
Being alone
 
Being cucked by the universe to watch chads and high tier normies live their scripted happy lives while I and you rot to death each day becoming more angry more bitter and hostile to this cursed world.
 
There's many things that I fucking hate about being an incel but the worst part is that theres nothing I can do about it. Im a rat trapped in a cage. Worst part about being incel is having to sit in your Anger and rage. You have to just deal with it.
 
the worst part is the stigma
 
The word incel. Now people who literally have weekly sex abuse the term to describe themselves. see: femcel, kitchencel
Yeah, that too. I've grown so used to it being compromised, that I forgot it even was, in the first place. It became a fad.
 
There's many things that I fucking hate about being an incel but the worst part is that theres nothing I can do about it. Im a rat trapped in a cage. Worst part about being incel is having to sit in your Anger and rage. You have to just deal with it.
This is it, right here. We've been robbed of agency, and have no say in our destiny. How can a man truly be a man if he cannot control his own destiny?
 
the worst part is the stigma
Yeah, I can see this, too. Can't even talk about our problems with anyone without immediately being labelled a threat, and getting ostracized, fired, or at the very least, a stern talking-to to keep that "shit" to ourselves. It just feeds further into the isolation and loneliness.
 
Being cucked by the universe to watch chads and high tier normies live their scripted happy lives while I and you rot to death each day becoming more angry more bitter and hostile to this cursed world.
I really feel more and more with each passing day that the cosmos, or the gods, or whatever the fuck has a giant fucking stick up its ass, and feels like taking it out on the most vulnerable of us. This is definitely one of those things where we didn't do anything to deserve it, but everyone else will still justify it, anyway.
 
Real, im trying since a year now actively improving socially and it doesn’t work
Take it from me: if you're an aspie, don't bother. I wasted over a decade of my life trying to improve socially, and got almost zilch-all. I got a few so-called "friends" who couldn't be arsed to even hang out for half an hour more than once a year, and that's about it. Honestly, it was better just being left alone, for the table scraps I "earned".
 
Take it from me: if you're an aspie, don't bother. I wasted over a decade of my life trying to improve socially, and got almost zilch-all. I got a few so-called "friends" who couldn't be arsed to even hang out for half an hour more than once a year, and that's about it. Honestly, it was better just being left alone, for the table scraps I "earned".
That’s kinda happening to me rn, I don’t think i have autism but I’m really ND around people and hang out with the "friends" max 2-5 times a year
 
hang out with the "friends" max 2-5 times a year
That's how it was for me a decade ago. I thought I had it made, and was finally making progress. It was better socialization than anything I had received during my childhood, in any case. I very occasionally went to a bar, or a metal show, or over to one of their houses to watch movies every once in a while. About 5 or 6 times a year, for a few years.

Now, it's like I've ceased to exist. Every attempt to hang out met with resistance, and vague promises of "oh, yeah, that'd be cool, hit me up sometime", even though I'm hitting them up to hang out now. Why even bother anymore? Everyone seeks value in their relationships, not just the romantic ones with foids, but everyone. And we don't provide value to them, because we are genetic dead ends, and we disgust them. The people that you initially hang out with, these "friends" of yours, are just the slow ones. They're slow to catch on to the fact that you have poor genetics. But just like what happened with me, they'll figure it out eventually, and if they're trying to save face, they'll give the same vague excuses to back out of being associated with you, without having to say it outright.

That's what it seems from my experience, in any case.
 
That's how it was for me a decade ago. I thought I had it made, and was finally making progress. It was better socialization than anything I had received during my childhood, in any case. I very occasionally went to a bar, or a metal show, or over to one of their houses to watch movies every once in a while. About 5 or 6 times a year, for a few years.

Now, it's like I've ceased to exist. Every attempt to hang out met with resistance, and vague promises of "oh, yeah, that'd be cool, hit me up sometime", even though I'm hitting them up to hang out now. Why even bother anymore? Everyone seeks value in their relationships, not just the romantic ones with foids, but everyone. And we don't provide value to them, because we are genetic dead ends, and we disgust them. The people that you initially hang out with, these "friends" of yours, are just the slow ones. They're slow to catch on to the fact that you have poor genetics. But just like what happened with me, they'll figure it out eventually, and if they're trying to save face, they'll give the same vague excuses to back out of being associated with you, without having to say it outright.

That's what it seems from my experience, in any case.
Yeah that’s just how it is, all of my friends I had before either did some bs to me or just distance themselves for no real reason at all
 
Being cucked by the universe to watch chads and high tier normies live their scripted happy lives while I and you rot to death each day becoming more angry more bitter and hostile to this cursed world.

the worst part is the stigma

no gf no sex
All of these answers are just symptoms of the real problem. There is nothing you can do about it and you just have to deal with it. There is no escape. There's only eternal torture from women and the gynocentric society we live in.

Its essentially like living as a peasant when the bolsheviks were in power. There's nothing you can do, You just have to watch them take your food and then you slowly starve to death. You cant do anything about it.
 
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Being cucked by the universe to watch chads and high tier normies live their scripted happy lives while I and you rot to death each day becoming more angry more bitter and hostile to this cursed world.
There's many things that I fucking hate about being an incel but the worst part is that theres nothing I can do about it. Im a rat trapped in a cage. Worst part about being incel is having to sit in your Anger and rage. You have to just deal with it.
Knowing you have no have no control over it brings me both anger and solace. Because you have no control over it, it may bring a feeling of freedom. But also because you don’t have no control over it, it also brings anger for my cursed existence. I tend to alternate between both of these feelings.
 
All of these answers are just symptoms of the real problem. There is nothing you can do about it and you just have to deal with it. There is no escape. There's only eternal torture from women and the gynocentric society we live in.

Its essentially like living as a peasant when the bolsheviks were in power. There's nothing you can do, You just have to watch them take your food and then you slowly starve to death. You cant do anything about it.
it’s beyond over for us
 
Being alone
Yup im completely and utterly alone there's 95% percent chance I will die alone and im not joking. I have an extremely high chance of dying alone with were my health is at. If I dont ropemaxx I will really die alone im not joking I will be completely alone. No Family No friends and no partner. I have good idea though my health is gonna take me. I think I have cancer or MS or something seriously like that I need see doctor at this stage it's getting that serious. Worse of all is won't just die alone I will die with everyone in old frimd groups and town absoustly hating my guts
 
Yeah that’s just how it is, all of my friends I had before either did some bs to me or just distance themselves for no real reason at all
At least it's not just me. I thought there was a chance I was doing something wrong.
 
All of these answers are just symptoms of the real problem. There is nothing you can do about it and you just have to deal with it. There is no escape. There's only eternal torture from women and the gynocentric society we live in.

Its essentially like living as a peasant when the bolsheviks were in power. There's nothing you can do, You just have to watch them take your food and then you slowly starve to death. You cant do anything about it.
That analogy physically hurts, but it's accurate as hell. Loneliness, sexlessness, and being rejected, outcasted, discarded is a starvation of a kind; it's a starvation of the soul.
 
Being alone. But I hate being around people too
 
At least it's not just me. I thought there was a chance I was doing something wrong.
It's called aging. Past 30 and you'll be lucky to have one friend
 
Knowing you have no have no control over it brings me both anger and solace. Because you have no control over it, it may bring a feeling of freedom. But also because you don’t have no control over it, it also brings anger for my cursed existence. I tend to alternate between both of these feelings.
Same. I was legit thinking about this same thing earlier today.
 
It's called aging. Past 30 and you'll be lucky to have one friend
I've heard that before. Maybe you're right, but I'm not quite ready to go back into absolute isolation again, so soon.
 
I never had irl friends. Had some online but drifted away, we are not that close to confide in each other anymore.

From family, i have my brother and sister and nephew, i dont expect them to care for my emotional state or to encourage me, as they have problems of their own. And especially as they wouldn't understand someone like me who exists only online.

What bothers me the most, its the lack of intimate closeness, like having someone who you could touch and hug and she to do it to you, and not feel awkward, not feel foreign. Someone you could be naked with and not feel ashamed, someone who would be the continuation of you, like two person in one body, to be comfortable with each others body like its mine also. Just having her sleeping next to me, someone you could hug and snuggle with and forget that entire world exists.

Intimate loneliness i guess?
 
What bothers me the most, its the lack of intimate closeness, like having someone who you could touch and hug and she to do it to you, and not feel awkward, not feel foreign. Someone you could be naked with and not feel ashamed, someone who would be the continuation of you, like two person in one body, to be comfortable with each others body like its mine also. Just having her sleeping next to me, someone you could hug and snuggle with and forget that entire world exists.
i often had dreams imagining a person like this. but dreams will never come true. reality is a harsh one. i often contemplate if there was a chance where i can be vulnerable to a person of interest, but then again my distrust towards people and inability to function as a human completely ruins my chances. maybe in another life i can be human enough to be able to trust someone and be worthy of human connection.
 
i often had dreams imagining a person like this. but dreams will never come true. reality is a harsh one. i often contemplate if there was a chance where i can be vulnerable to a person of interest, but then again my distrust towards people and inability to function as a human completely ruins my chances. maybe in another life i can be human enough to be able to trust someone and be worthy of human connection.
We are not humans, we dont get the human experience. Life robbed us blind, leaving us with nothing. I have both the emotional and physical capacity to love and connect but im simply not good enough.
 
I know TFW bro

It's like being a ghost
 
I agree. I stopped desiring a girlfriend as much. Every now and then, the thought will pop up in my mind. But then I'm reminded of female nature sooner or later. My mother and father don't seem to understand what I'm going through at all. Just today, my father told me I "take up space". My mother harasses me constantly to find work. I wish they'd just leave me alone. Can't they see that I'm rotting in my room to cope with my shitty situation? Then again, the average person lacks the ability to understand cause and effect.
 
What bothers me the most, its the lack of intimate closeness, like having someone who you could touch and hug and she to do it to you, and not feel awkward, not feel foreign. Someone you could be naked with and not feel ashamed, someone who would be the continuation of you, like two person in one body, to be comfortable with each others body like its mine also. Just having her sleeping next to me, someone you could hug and snuggle with and forget that entire world exists.
I was thinking about this the other day. The idea feels so foreign. I'll never feel the touch of a woman. Despite it being fairly common. I'll never be loved, hugged, kiss, or even get the ability to take a girl's first time. No one should have to suffer this fate because they didn't have the right bones at birth
 
I was thinking about this the other day. The idea feels so foreign. I'll never feel the touch of a woman. Despite it being fairly common. I'll never be loved, hugged, kiss, or even get the ability to take a girl's first time. No one should have to suffer this fate because they didn't have the right bones at birth
Well, no one from us will, minus some fakecels. Rest of us will die wanting something that will never happen. Fuck this life.
 
This is it, right here. We've been robbed of agency, and have no say in our destiny. How can a man truly be a man if he cannot control his own destiny?
God knows what he has dun to creation,
 
For me its about not even being seen as a normal human, not just by foids but normfags in general. The few times I've tried to talk to people irl, going out of my way to be social they all react the same as soon as they see me. They become wide eyed and speak in single words like they want me to go away asap, some have just straight up ignored me, whilst glaring. All because I look the way I do.

I may as well be an alien.
 
I’m literally born to suffer.


Nothing makes sense in the incel world. It’s like we were all entropy personified and nothing likes for us for no reason. Creation is horrifying
 
For me its about not even being seen as a normal human, not just by foids but normfags in general. The few times I've tried to talk to people irl, going out of my way to be social they all react the same as soon as they see me. They become wide eyed and speak in single words like they want me to go away asap, some have just straight up ignored me, whilst glaring. All because I look the way I do.

I may as well be an alien.
I’m an alien ghost. Even on here I piss people off it’s the very atoms I have:shock:
 
Being cucked by the universe to watch chads and high tier normies live their scripted happy lives while I and you rot to death each day becoming more angry more bitter and hostile to this cursed world.
Is this world a simulation ngl
 
Personally, what pains me the most is to think about all the things I have missed out on, and am currently missing out on; time which could have been expended on meaningful activities and making unforgettable memories — experiencing love, affection, intimacy, and connection — instead spent stewing in misery and longing for what is so clear, yet so far out of reach. It fills me with despair when I imagine gestures as simple as holding the hand of a girl that I love; simple moments that I will never be able to enjoy.
 

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