Serious What happened when you realised you're ugly?

[VST]

What did you do when you realised you're ugly? How did you cope? Did you self-improve in any way or did you got straight into LDAR mode?

 

[Akkadian]

Tried improving, then took the holy blackpill then uncovered the true revelations

 

[AR15]

LDAR

 

[CurryArabCel]

I gymcoped hard. Sportcoped too. I coped every way possible and still do but the feeling that I will never amount to anything hasn't left my mind.

 

[Gremlincel]

i dieded

 

[tehgymcel420]

I accepted that I would live a life of celibacy.

 

[DyingInside]

Was in denial at first then I fully accepted it and now I just LDAR

 

[Kointo1]

I've always known I'm ugly, so I lost weight and that didn't help.

 

[incel4life]

When we see our faces, we tend to see the good features to protect our ego, whereas other people look at our faces from a more unbiased perspective. The turning point for me was when I read on SlutHate that compact midface, prominent cheekbones, and facial symmetry are traits that good looking people have and then realizing that I didn't have any of these traits after objectively analyzing my face.

 

[SnorkLord]

I've literally always known I was ugly. People reminded me. My parents couldn't even lie past a certain age when I could articulate and challenge them past their lies of compliments. I still thank them for caring about me enough to lie. I looked up ugly people who did well for themselves and I decided I'd try to be like any of them. It failed. Over and over again. I then gave up and began LDAR. I've gotten on the self improvement train, and I've somehow gotten less attractive since dropping from morbidly obese to normal weight and shaving off my autistic facial hair.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

I realized I was really ugly in 10th grade. All my friends were getting girls and constantly talking about them. Whenever they chatted about the girls they were talking to I'd go silent. They called me gay and mocked me. Eventually they stopped talking to me altogether. I tried joining the army, didn't work. Gymceled since i was 19 (25 now) you guessed it, didn't work. I've tried approaching in bars/clubs, joining groups, online dating, etc. Nothing has worked. I once had an impressive body from gymceling, but now I've quit because it's a waste. Everyone looks at me as if I'm a freak. Going to college is suicidefuel as an oldcel. Idk. Don't think I'll make it to 30 tbh. No point in living anymore when everything I'll ever do or accomplish will be seen as overcompensating because I'm an ugly male.

 

[Stoiccel]

I've always known I'm ugly, so I lost weight and that didn't help.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

i stopped watching people on youtube who were on relationships & successful / also unsubscribed to people who showed how to do pua because its pointless..