"Involuntarily celibate" or "incel" just means unable to have sex or relationships even though we want those things. We don't feel owed those things: this is a critical point that I hope you get. There is no entitlement. I repeat there is no entitlement.
- What are people "owed" or entitled to? Nothing except what they've rightfully earned (like wages for their work).
- Why can't we have sex or relationships despite wanting those things? Because we're too damn ugly.
- Whose fault is it that we're ugly? Nobody's fault, just bad genetic luck.
- Can we improve ourselves with fitness and fashion and humor and character development? Not enough.
- Will these improvements to our maximum potential be good enough? No.
- Is everyone born with a guarantee that their maximum potential through self improvement will be good enough to find someone? No.
- Are we interested in hearing the same well-intentioned but ultimately futile self-improvement advice over and over again? No.
- Do we promote violence and pose a threat to society any more than other groups of human beings, and is it fair to paint us with a broad brush based on the actions of a tiny extreme minority? No.
- Is this forum meant to be a place where romantically successful people can bully us, gawk at us or offer well-meaning but unsolicited and hopeless advice? No.
- Is this forum meant to be a place where we can find comedic relief and socialize with others like us who understand our situation to improve our quality of life? Yes.
