Well it depends. There are probably several categories on non-incel incels (and not all of them are strictly blue pill):
- they are truly delusional, and don't believe it's over. This is the real blue pill. "one day I'll get a girl, I just know it" - call them blue pillers.
- they refuse to speak the truth (that it's over) because society hates low value males, and they fear the societal repercussions of drawing attention to themselves. Call them cowards.
- they believe that woke-maxing is the path to ascension. They imagine some foid is going to say, "wow I saw you post on reddit that incels are mysogyknees! You're not like other guys, I love you!" Call them male feminists.
- they've been taught in school to hate men, and they do. They believe a world in which they are unhappy is a just world. Not sure what to call them. "Emo" maybe?
- they've accepted the truth, but they don't want to associate themselves with the label "incel" because it's too black pill around here. And it honestly kind of is, a lot of times. So they're trying to just move on and find happiness and not think about it. Maybe call them monks.