Imo is spoiledness starting from parents, continued by school system, job system and simps, ending with entire system of soyciety excusing every single thing they do, even criminal offenses and portraying them as victims. They get huge praise just for existing, like taking a video of herself and getting treated as an war hero for simply taking care of her own needs. They are spoiled rotten treated entire life as toddlers. They never learn how to be a decent human being, they have no reason. Literaly every single problem they have in life is either self orchestrated or made up and others will always help them.
If entire system treated them differently and taught them differently they would be different. Like wants always stay. Heck i want to bang big butt stacies and have billion dollars, but im raised with full knowledge thats impossible for me so i dont think much about it. So it becomes a fantasy. If men took back control over foids and taught them how to be good daughters, sisters, wives, situation would be better.