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Blackpill What are your symtpoms of autism as related to your inceldom?

Nordicel94

Nordicel94

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I've suspected a few times that I'm autistic but I didn't really show any signs as a child and when I do online tests I'm negative. I think I just have extreme social anxiety.

For those of you with autism, how have symptoms of autism unfolded throughout your life and what touchstones do you think have affected your current state of inceldom the most?

I'm trying to understand what seems to be a very common diagnosis here.
 
dont have any, im as neurotypical as it gets
 
My poor understanding of social cues
 
I understand social cues well, I don’t think I’m 100% autistic. I do have autism traits like hyper fixating on anime and video games, I have childish interests despite being in my 20’s. I also have weird rules like I have to eat at exactly 3pm
 
Extreme anxiety and being extreme introvert, cant socialize, cant hold even the most basic conversation. I dont think those two are necessarily autism.
 
Extreme anxiety and being extreme introvert, cant socialize, cant hold even the most basic conversation. I dont think those two are necessarily autism.
That sounds like it could just be extreme social anxiety
 
I only have Asperger's which is high functioning autism
 
If your dad was really old does that mean your grandfather from dad's side was dead ?
yeah he died ages ago from smoking related issues. The whole side of my dads family smoked like trains
 
Can't look at people to their eyes when talking irl. Akward, tend to get obsessed with stuff i like, stuttering, speech issues, learning issues, anxiety.

NTpill is crucial. you get a bad dice roll on that and you're fucked, im latino so its even worse because of the extreme social and party culture all NT latinos share.
 
I have symptoms similar to autism.

If you're a bullied low classcel it's inevitable you at least appear to have autism
 
high inhib and nonexistent social skills
 
I have no social skills, I'm extremely high inhib/introverted and I have a narrow range of interests. I also have weird mannerisms. I'm monotone and I can't maintain eye contact. I've been told I act robotic.
 
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I'm not diagnosed, but it cannot be coincidence that I ONLY am able to connect with people who are either diagnosed autists or suspect they have autism.

Paradoxically, as a child I had more of what you would consider autism symptoms (I did not want to be touched, I had a strange interest for auto brands, dyspraxia) but at the same time also friends. Now I don't have any of the "good" symptoms of autism like being able to sense small smells, hear fine sounds etc. Just "bad" ones like extremely bad social skills, always annoying people and sometimes hyperfixating on stuff. But it's not a complete hyperfixation. So for example often I only do something after work, like three hours of porn organising/downloading or three hours of playing a repetitive video game, but I don't do it during or instead of work. And it's also only within a routine. So typically on weekdays but not on the weekend. And maybe stimming, but I think many people do things like it because I just noticed that after writing a sentence, I repeatedly made a certain hand movement from one hand in the other hand where essentially I tap the nails of one hand against the other hand. How common is this for you? It is already stimming associated with autism or is it normal behaviour to curb nervousness? Now I just have 1.5 online friends.

For inceldom, it always prevents me from getting closer to woman. I squandered my only chance I ever had because I did not know how to properly initiate a relationship. Someone went on a date with me and I did not even get a kiss, but also because I had no clue on how to even get there. Probably she wasn't that interested anyway, but even if she was I would not have known how to proceed. Ok, and I know it sounds awful, but on the one hand I badly want sex but on the other hand I am also really afraid of it. I could escortcel, it's legal here, and I don't do it because I am afraid. Afraid of STDs, afraid of everything. I am not skilled in anything and I would not be able to perform.

I would need an autistic girlfriend but they are usual either asexual or already together with someone NT or an autistic Chad. With anyone non-autistic I could probably not have a functional relationship even if we both would try and were attracted to each other (which would never happen).
 
autism is bullshit like other mental illness. You can slay whores and be autistic (if you are chad)
 
>extreme social anxiety
>eye contact is difficult
>tend to find normie topics boring thus making it harder to create social ties
>awkward and slightly eccentric behaviour
 
- high inhib
- I have trouble listening to people
- I got anger issues

Idk, if I'm autistic or not. Probably more towards ADHD
 

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