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What are the dumbest copes you've tried?

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For me it includes

Doing stretches I found on youtube to try grow taller
Doing "facial exercises" I also found on youtube to try make my face look better
Cold showers (complete waste of mental energy)

Desperation leads to a lot of delusion
 
cold showers, going outside during winter in little clothing, mewing, facial exercises, gym
 
I remember when i was 15 i would do sprinting because i saw bullshit videos about how sprinting can increase HGH to increase height

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writing a CV to find a job biggest mentally ill cope i have ever seen
 
Going to therapy, being obsessed with an e-girl out of desperation as a 17 year old, trying to "put myself out there" as a young teen.
 
-Mewing
-Facial exercises
-Thinking NoFap would improve my looks(more defined face+"glowing")
-Thinking a beard would get me laid
-Thinking gym would make me swole(it didn't)
 
I remember when i was 15 i would do sprinting because i saw bullshit videos about how sprinting can increase HGH to increase height

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Yeah I remember the same thing and also fasting
 
oh I also tried AA. people base their entire lives around this process. I tried it but now I just think its stupid
 
-Thinking NoFap would improve my looks(more defined face+"glowing")
i remember that one Australian guy's video about nofap blew up, and his biggest reasoning behind quitting jacking off was to get his face to "glow"
his stories about his addiction weren't even that bad.
 
i remember that one Australian guy's video about nofap blew up, and his biggest reasoning behind quitting jacking off was to get his face to "glow"
his stories about his addiction weren't even that bad.
Do you remember the video name? I wanna see if I've seen it before
 
Forgot about nofap I used to cope hard with it
it gives u more free time, discipline, and alleviates some guilt (if ur religious or if u can't tank the post-nut clarity) but that's literally it. No charisma boost, no notable hormone changes, no clearer skin, and no significant brain fog removal (unless u nutted in the double digits daily).
 
Forgot about nofap I used to cope hard with it
To be fair, they do have somewhat of a point since there's a fuck ton of research proving porn fucks up your brain in a few ways, like decreasing grey-matter

"We found a significant negative association between reported pornography hours per week and gray matter volume in the right caudate"


"Grey matter is an essential type of tissue in your brain and spinal cord. It plays a significant role in mental functions, memory, emotions and movement. Several conditions can affect your grey matter, including stroke, Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s disease."
 
Went to sleep starving because a youtube comment said it increases HGH to make you taller or some bs. I think i even used to think God would bring me a girl as a younger teen
 
it gives u more free time, discipline, and alleviates some guilt (if ur religious or if u can't tank the post-nut clarity) but that's literally it. No charisma boost, no notable hormone changes, no clearer skin, and no significant brain fog removal (unless u nutted in the double digits daily).
I'd say the brain foid aspect is more linked to this:

To be fair, they do have somewhat of a point since there's a fuck ton of research proving porn fucks up your brain in a few ways, like decreasing grey-matter

"We found a significant negative association between reported pornography hours per week and gray matter volume in the right caudate"


"Grey matter is an essential type of tissue in your brain and spinal cord. It plays a significant role in mental functions, memory, emotions and movement. Several conditions can affect your grey matter, including stroke, Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s disease."
so not really fapping but rather porno usage
Easily the dumbest aspect of nofap that grifters push
Yeah it's utter bullshit

The guys pushing it likely took pics in the morning or at night for when they "fapped" and then showed a pic of them tanned with a haircut striking a pose to show the "glow up" they had from it:feelsclown:
 
it gives u more free time, discipline, and alleviates some guilt (if ur religious or if u can't tank the post-nut clarity) but that's literally it. No charisma boost, no notable hormone changes, no clearer skin, and no significant brain fog removal (unless u nutted in the double digits daily).
To be fair, they do have somewhat of a point since there's a fuck ton of research proving porn fucks up your brain in a few ways, like decreasing grey-matter

"We found a significant negative association between reported pornography hours per week and gray matter volume in the right caudate"


"Grey matter is an essential type of tissue in your brain and spinal cord. It plays a significant role in mental functions, memory, emotions and movement. Several conditions can affect your grey matter, including stroke, Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s disease."
Yeah I wouldn't say it's completely useless or anything but the grifters who advertise it as some life changing thing are way off the mark.
 
Yeah I wouldn't say it's completely useless or anything but the grifters who advertise it as some life changing thing are way off the mark.
I'd say porn is the main issue here in all honesty

At some point, you will have to release it all if you can't get sex ofc.
 
For me it includes

Doing stretches I found on youtube to try grow taller
Doing "facial exercises" I also found on youtube to try make my face look better
Cold showers (complete waste of mental energy)

Desperation leads to a lot of delusion
Same thing, looksmaxing is bullshit.
 
Yeah I wouldn't say it's completely useless or anything but the grifters who advertise it as some life changing thing are way off the mark.
The NoFap community is notorious for gaslighting men who are romantically unsuccessful or who are unmotivated in general. They'll dodge the real cause (looks, hypergamy, gynocentric society, shit economy etc) and tell them all their life's problems are due to how much they touch their pee pees (cope/effect).
 
I'd say porn is the main issue here in all honesty

At some point, you will have to release it all if you can't get sex ofc.
Yeah like that article even specifically mentions that it's pornography hours a week rather than specifically masturbating. Just using your imagination is probably the most healthy way to do it and I've done it before it's just a lot harder and a lot less stimulating
 
The NoFap community is notorious for gaslighting men who are romantically unsuccessful or who are unmotivated in general. They'll dodge the real cause (looks, hypergamy, gynocentric society, shit economy etc) and tell them all their life's problems are due to how much they touch their pee pees (cope/effect).
I see this all the time from twitter tradcucks blaming the rise in the numbers of sexless men on porn.
 
I'd say porn is the main issue here in all honesty

At some point, you will have to release it all if you can't get sex ofc.
is that just a correlation study and not a longitudinal study that tracks changes in an individual's brain as they goon to porn over a long period of time? if it's just correlational than no shit ppl with low IQ are more likely to consume more porn.
 
When i was younger i belived females dont like me because i smell bad , started buying shit tones of desodorants and going to shower 3 times a day :bigbrain: :feelsPop:
 
cold showers, going outside during winter in little clothing, mewing, facial exercises, gym
Cold showers are one of the worst things for your body. Glad I saw the light and was smart enough to stop doing it, as it’s pure torture with no benefits
 
For me it includes

Doing stretches I found on youtube to try grow taller
Doing "facial exercises" I also found on youtube to try make my face look better
Cold showers (complete waste of mental energy)

Desperation leads to a lot of delusion
Talking to women
 
When i was younger i belived females dont like me because i smell bad , started buying shit tones of desodorants and going to shower 3 times a day :bigbrain: :feelsPop:
At least you didn't try cope with fragrances like I've seen a lot of people do
 
Cold showers are one of the worst things for your body. Glad I saw the light and was smart enough to stop doing it, as it’s pure torture with no benefits
They're just a complete waste of energy. Better to invest your willpower into other things
 
They're just a complete waste of energy. Better to invest your willpower into other things
Or not use any willpower at all
 
cold showers, going outside during winter in little clothing, mewing, facial exercises, gym
Going outside with little clothing literally worked for me in terms of resistance. I lost it though but it 10000% worked
 

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