What are the best things to do to disconnect completely from people that you know—both family and friends?

[Diomedes_1112]

I’m a highly sensitive person (male), and I can’t handle living around my family (or anyone around me) anymore. I feel like killing myself at this point because my anxiety is far too severe.

Fortunately, I’ll get a job soon and earn a small enough income to move out. What I’m especially enthused about is to try to leave my incel state.

Anyway, does anyone know what I should do to completely disconnect myself from all people who know me? I’m planning to delete all of my social media accounts, change my phone number, and eventually move out to an anonymous location unknown to anyone who knows me. What else would help me?

 

[Count Yorga]

You gave the answer in your question.

 

[Diomedes_1112]

You gave the answer in your question.

Yeah. I was just wondering if I missed anything.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

I did the same thing after I started to have health problems. Four years now and counting. Don't really have any tips how to do it though

 

[Diomedes_1112]

I did the same thing after I started to have health problems. Four years now and counting. Don't really have any tips how to do it though

You’re still living away from all who knew you?

 

[Count Yorga]

Yeah. I was just wondering if I missed anything.

You mentioned the most important things.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

You’re still living away from all who knew you?

I haven't seen a family member in 4+ years. Except my grandpa, I went to see him after he got a stroke.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Depends if you have real friends or not...

 

[Diomedes_1112]

I haven't seen a family member in 4+ years. Except my grandpa, I went to see him after he got a stroke.

Oh I see. Do you know if family members go searching for you or even report you missing?

That’s what I’m personally concerned about. What if my family reports me missing, and people from wherever I happen to be working at find out?

 

[Diomedes_1112]

Depends if you have real friends or not...

Yeah I see.

what I’m personally concerned about: What if my family or friends reports me missing, and people from wherever I happen to be working at find out? Is there any way around this? Or to prevent this?

 

[Med Amine]

probably living alone is the best thing you can do to not have any connection with your family

for friends, you're the one who decides whether you want friends or not so you can just cut ties with them if you don't want to bother wasting time in friendships

 

[Diomedes_1112]

probably living alone is the best thing you can do to not have any connection with your family

for friends, you're the one who decides whether you want friends or not so you can just cut ties with them if you don't want to bother wasting time in friendships

Yeah. I see. Thanks.

What if my family or friends reports me missing, and people from wherever I happen to be working at find out? Is there any way around this? Or to prevent this?

 

[Med Amine]

What if my family or friends reports me missing

if you're old enough then you can just tell them that you're gonna start living alone.
that also depends if you have a job or not so that you support yourself financially

 

[Diomedes_1112]

if you're old enough then you can just tell them that you're gonna start living alone.
that also depends if you have a job or not so that you support yourself financially

I know.

Do you know if it’s possible to attend a college while remaining anonymous to those who know you?

 

[NorthernWind]

Highly sensitive male is automatically subhuman since men aren't supposed to be 'damsels in distress'.
I'm subhuman myself and no one cares about men who cannot live up to the standards of manliness.
It's failed live from the start.

 

[Therapywasaaste]

I don't know. I can't find a way for my mom to leave me alone.

 

[Diomedes_1112]

Highly sensitive male is automatically subhuman since men aren't supposed to be 'damsels in distress'.
I'm subhuman myself and no one cares about men who cannot live up to the standards of manliness.
It's failed live from the start.

I don’t know what condition or problem you have, but I feel you.

If there is a god who created me, I hate him. I’ve never been about to live up to a manly standard for to several reasons, but especially because of my high sensitivity. Just like you said, I feel like I’ve been a failure from the start.

 

[Diomedes_1112]

Highly sensitive male is automatically subhuman since men aren't supposed to be 'damsels in distress'.
I'm subhuman myself and no one cares about men who cannot live up to the standards of manliness.
It's failed live from the start.

Isn’t there any possible to way to overcome high sensitivity?

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Yeah I see.

what I’m personally concerned about: What if my family or friends reports me missing, and people from wherever I happen to be working at find out? Is there any way around this? Or to prevent this?

In my country there is a law so you have to report someone who is missing for some time. But leaving without explaining why is kinda weird.

 

[NorthernWind]

Isn’t there any possible to way to overcome high sensitivity?

I think it's innate.

 

[Diomedes_1112]

I think it's innate.

Well, there should be some methods to manage it successfully maybe. Maybe hypnosis.