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Serious What are body language signs that she is attracted to you?

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I don't know if there are CLEAR signs. There's a high chance she's just a friendly person.
I've experienced some signs that she is really uninterested, such as crossing her legs, shaking her legs, moving upper body away and unable to hold eye contact. What signs of disgust/disinterest have you experienced in her body language? If you're nt and good at reading body language, what are good signs of interest?
 

Thanks. I have seen these videos. I'm asking on here because usually incels are good observers and can see signs that are not always stated in such videos. Once I saw a guy (not good looking) having a date with a cute girl while bowling. She tilted her head, looked at him and smiled. That was a CLEAR sign.
 
>What signs of disgust/disinterest have you experienced in her body language?

Unwillingness to maintain eye contact is the big one I notice nowadays, though my interactions with foids are far and few between. Angling their bodies away from you is subtle one, but is very common now that I think about. Just general disinterest. If a girl is into you, they'll pay a lot of attention towards you and test your boundaries. Lots of eye contact, facing towards you, standing close to you, run on nervous talking, touching you or initiating contact, etc.

Edit: I also want to add that it is a often a package deal. If a girl just does one of these things once off hand, you shouldn't read into it, but if they're doing multiple and continuously, then you have every right to read the behavior as interest.
 
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-she will try to stay close to you
-she will try to touch you
-she will try to talk to you

tbh it's pretty easy to know. If you are having doubts its probably because she is not really interested.
 
If she sucks your dick
If she sucks your dick
 
i honestly don't know. i haven't tried anything from 18-23.
 
>What signs of disgust/disinterest have you experienced in her body language?

Unwillingness to maintain eye contact is the big one I notice nowadays, though my interactions with foids are far and few between. Angling their bodies away from you is subtle one, but is very common now that I think about. Just general disinterest. If a girl is into you, they'll pay a lot of attention towards you and test your boundaries. Lots of eye contact, facing towards you, standing close to you, run on nervous talking, touching you or initiating contact, etc.

Edit: I also want to add that it is a often a package deal. If a girl just does one of these things once off hand, you shouldn't read into it, but if they're doing multiple and continuously, then you have every right to read the behavior as interest.
It's really hard for me. Sometimes I notice signs but then I see my reflection on my phone or just take a look into my mirror and realize it probably all was a joke. I don't come across as secure, maybe women like fake flirting and then laughing at him when he actually thinks she's being serious. Maybe they are that crazy lol.
 
It's really hard for me. Sometimes I notice signs but then I see my reflection on my phone or just take a look into my mirror and realize it probably all was a joke. I don't come across as secure, maybe women like fake flirting and then laughing at him when he actually thinks she's being serious. Maybe they are that crazy lol.

Yea, that is why I added that second part to my post about the package deal and persistency. Those points are really important as guys tend to see one or things that may or may not bi IOI's and then obsess over it. From my experience and my observations, how I think about it is foids will "insert themselves into your life" if they are interested. Some will approach and open you, not outright pickup attempt, but will open the social set. Even those to high inhib to do that will make a lot of eye contact, smiles AND always place themselves somewhere in your field of vision. Often fussing with their hair and clothes a lot as their self-conscious about looking their best.

The question isn't whether a woman is flirting with you, but is she constantly flirting with you.
 
-she will try to stay close to you
-she will try to touch you
-she will try to talk to you

tbh it's pretty easy to know. If you are having doubts its probably because she is not really interested.
Sure that Nr. 3 is a sign of attraction?
 
Yea, that is why I added that second part to my post about the package deal and persistency. Those points are really important as guys tend to see one or things that may or may not bi IOI's and then obsess over it. From my experience and my observations, how I think about it is foids will "insert themselves into your life" if they are interested. Some will approach and open you, not outright pickup attempt, but will open the social set. Even those to high inhib to do that will make a lot of eye contact, smiles AND always place themselves somewhere in your field of vision. Often fussing with their hair and clothes a lot as their self-conscious about looking their best.

The question isn't whether a woman is flirting with you, but is she constantly flirting with you.
Okay. I'm usually socially awkward as hell, but in the past few weeks my social awkwardness has diminished significantly. Are there any ways to find out if she's just making fun of me or not?
Edit: without me directly asking (too pussy for that)
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.

All the rest are bs, and promoted by PUA scammers to make you more pathetic.

Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.

Also, the moment when you search google for "attraction signs" and "relationship advice" you should know that it's already over for you.

Chads don't need globally distributed super-computing search engines to shag pussy.
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.

All the rest are bs, and promoted by PUA scammers to make you more pathetic.

Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.

Also, the moment when you search google for "attraction signs" and "relationship advice" you should know that it's already over for you.

Chads don't need globally distributed super-computing search engines to shag pussy.
:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
Easy bro, as soon as she opens her legs
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.

All the rest are bs, and promoted by PUA scammers to make you more pathetic.

Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.

Also, the moment when you search google for "attraction signs" and "relationship advice" you should know that it's already over for you.

Chads don't need globally distributed super-computing search engines to shag pussy.
Easy bro, as soon as she opens her legs
 
Females often see me with ''i'm going to fucking kill you'' eyes, like bitch i'm not even interacting with another human beings but they still want me dead, just leave me alone for fuck sake
 
Obviously there needs to be something else before this happens
Yeh bro what would happen is that as soon as you initiate a conversation with her she would legit be close to your body and grabbing your dick before you even ask her name.
 
If she doesnt run away screaming upon first sight of my subhuman face I usually assume that shes very attracted
 
Playing with her hair, constantly trying to talk with you, asking help for different things from you, complimenting you, looking you straight into the eye... Oh, I wish someone did this to me. I'd be the happiest man on earth.
 
Didnt see this thread. Ill repost this.
Warning: pure suifuel

Being antisocial has one benefit or downside depending on how you look at it. Im very aware of other peoples body language since it can sometimes be interesting how other people interact. Or how normal people interact. There is very obvious signs when a girl is attracted to a chad.
-Their head is slightly lower while they barely smile almost as embarrassed
-They twirl their fingers through their hair more noticeably around the ears
-the sudden pitch shift in their voice
-constant glances and shifting away
Those are the big ones, but there is a bunch more. Do it yourself, when you see chad in front of you in a line about to approach the foid at the help desk watch how her body reacts.
But this is also complete and utterly suicidefuel so i suggest you don't
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.
Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.
It could also just be you yourself being in denial since you couldn't imagine anyone ever wanting to date you.
 
It could also just be you yourself being in denial since you couldn't imagine anyone ever wanting to date you.

Yea that's why I am an incel. Since looks like you are not in denial, do you sometime imagine bitches wanting to date you?
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.

All the rest are bs, and promoted by PUA scammers to make you more pathetic.

Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.

Also, the moment when you search google for "attraction signs" and "relationship advice" you should know that it's already over for you.

Chads don't need globally distributed super-computing search engines to shag pussy.
this
 
my ex bunkmate would say when her nipples are hard

or if she talks to you first in a social setting
 
Allowing you to stick your penis inside her.

But seriously, if you have to think about body-language, you're over thinking it, she isn't into you.
 
are you 7+ ?
Then girls will be attracted to you
 
Didnt see this thread. Ill repost this.
Warning: pure suifuel

Being antisocial has one benefit or downside depending on how you look at it. Im very aware of other peoples body language since it can sometimes be interesting how other people interact. Or how normal people interact. There is very obvious signs when a girl is attracted to a chad.
-Their head is slightly lower while they barely smile almost as embarrassed
-They twirl their fingers through their hair more noticeably around the ears
-the sudden pitch shift in their voice
-constant glances and shifting away
Those are the big ones, but there is a bunch more. Do it yourself, when you see chad in front of you in a line about to approach the foid at the help desk watch how her body reacts.
But this is also complete and utterly suicidefuel so i suggest you don't

What a load of BS. Once I was in a group project where one chad shagged a bitch within 75 mins just after they got introduced to each other for the first time. IOIs are just a bunch of PUA marketing craps.
 
She starts to undress in front of you.
 
my ex bunkmate would say when her nipples are hard

or if she talks to you first in a social setting

If a bitch talks about her hard nipples is a more than clear sign she wants to ride your dick. You are clearly bullshitting.
 
If a bitch talks about her hard nipples is a more than clear sign she wants to ride your dick. You are clearly bullshitting.
well idk because when its cold nipples get hard.. but i've never been with a woman so i wouldn't know
 
Playing with her hair, constantly trying to talk with you, asking help for different things from you, complimenting you, looking you straight into the eye... Oh, I wish someone did this to me. I'd be the happiest man on earth.
 
I already change my focus. now I am in projects. In a moment in the fucking university I'm going to place a bottle with muriatic acid and aluminum. because women simply do not consider me a person. So what I should do is systematically generate fear in this fucking university. they will pay for it and the best thing goes unnoticed. besides a ball that when burned made a lot of smoke to also disturb. Inhuman women. I know that not all people are like that but most of them are like that
 
Didnt see this thread. Ill repost this.
Warning: pure suifuel

Being antisocial has one benefit or downside depending on how you look at it. Im very aware of other peoples body language since it can sometimes be interesting how other people interact. Or how normal people interact. There is very obvious signs when a girl is attracted to a chad.
-Their head is slightly lower while they barely smile almost as embarrassed
-They twirl their fingers through their hair more noticeably around the ears
-the sudden pitch shift in their voice
-constant glances and shifting away
Those are the big ones, but there is a bunch more. Do it yourself, when you see chad in front of you in a line about to approach the foid at the help desk watch how her body reacts.
But this is also complete and utterly suicidefuel so i suggest you don't
I'm gonna observe how they interact with chads. It's not that much suicidefuel unless I really like the girl.
Do you think her touching your fingers "accidentally" when she grabs something you're giving her is an accident or a sign? Just asking, not that it happened to me. Body language is interesting.
 
I'm gonna observe how they interact with chads. It's not that much suicidefuel unless I really like the girl.
Do you think her touching your fingers "accidentally" when she grabs something you're giving her is an accident or a sign? Just asking, not that it happened to me. Body language is interesting.
Signals are bullshit. Females can do every signal possible and she still will say she doesn't like you.
 
Your dick in her vagina is the only sign.

All the rest are bs, and promoted by PUA scammers to make you more pathetic.

Btw, if you are not 100% sure she is attracted to you means she is not attracted to you, simple.

Also, the moment when you search google for "attraction signs" and "relationship advice" you should know that it's already over for you.

Chads don't need globally distributed super-computing search engines to shag pussy.
Fuck being a non Chad
 
Yea that's why I am an incel. Since looks like you are not in denial, do you sometime imagine bitches wanting to date you?
Nope also very in denial no matter what. I was just kinda projecting.
But this doesn't stops me from acting on it. If I don't feel like it but objectively speaking these would be signs a girl would give off to signal that she's into it, I'd still make a move even if it's only to be rejected.
 
P in V is the only IOI
 
I don't know if there are CLEAR signs. There's a high chance she's just a friendly person.
I've experienced some signs that she is really uninterested, such as crossing her legs, shaking her legs, moving upper body away and unable to hold eye contact. What signs of disgust/disinterest have you experienced in her body language? If you're nt and good at reading body language, what are good signs of interest?
If she's constantly staring at you and gives warm smiles, as well as playing with her hair. Anything less than that is not an IOI and you shouldn't pursue.
 
PM your face and i can tell if she wants you or not.
 
when legs go different directions
 
"Muh IOIs"

Approach, or fuck off.
 
"Muh IOIs"

Approach, or fuck off.
Wrong. Women make it fully clear even to the most inhibited of autists of they will allow themselves to be approached by and who they won't. Incels should not approach unless they receive IOIs, or they risk being humiliated, or at worst, reported for sexual harassment.
 
Wrong. Women make it fully clear even to the most inhibited of autists of they will allow themselves to be approached by and who they won't. Incels should not approach unless they receive IOIs, or they risk being humiliated, or at worst, reported for sexual harassment.
Okay enjoy staying a permavirgin.
 
Okay enjoy staying a permavirgin.
Nothing I can do. I can try surgery, but my eye area is the most fucked up part and that's hard and expensive to fix. No amount of approaching will save me.
 
PM your face and i can tell if she wants you or not.


You'd say No because I'm a 3/10. And I've thought a lot about it yesterday, so I've come to the conclusion that all of the signs were not real signs, because she's a naturally very open, extraverted and friendly person. As far as I know I'm the only guy she initiates conversations with so that gave me a LITTLE hope. I gotta stop being delusional now or I will get humiliated later.
 
You'd say No because I'm a 3/10. And I've thought a lot about it yesterday, so I've come to the conclusion that all of the signs were not real signs, because she's a naturally very open, extraverted and friendly person. As far as I know I'm the only guy she initiates conversations with so that gave me a LITTLE hope. I gotta stop being delusional now or I will get humiliated later.

i was in the exact same boat a few months ago. you might even be able to find the IOI thread if you dig deep enough. she is either virtue signalling, trying to make you an orbiter or genuinely pities you.
 

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