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What age did you realize it was over and how?

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About 15 is when I started noticing that not all guys are treated the same. By 18 I was fully blackpilled
 
The first time I truly felt it was over was at age 13, despite having been in denial about it for a while after that.

I did listen to songs like Snowfall by Approaching Nirvana with Laura Brehm and the lyrics were so hopeful and sweet, just wish they were as real and prophetic as I want them to be.
 
About 15 is when I started noticing that not all guys are treated the same. By 18 I was fully blackpilled
for me it was 13 i didnt know about blackpill or incel but i knew i would never get a gf becuase of my looks
 
When I was 10 and a girl didn't want to be my friend and ran away. I was blackpilled pretty early on before even know what bp is as it was the early 2000s and I had no internet
 
Not my fault I didn't know about this forum sooner
I'm sure he just means that it might not be worth it since it's quite rare to see someone stick around for longer than a month or so. Don't take it personally.
 
I think I first noticed when I was sixteen or so. Although, if I was more knowledgeable back in my elementary school days, I probably could have noticed then. This statement is probably going to be pretty unpopular with some people on here, but I'm rather sure that you can tell if a kid is going to grow up into an incel or not. There isn't a single point in any of our lives where we weren't being pushed down or harassed in some way. We've always been miserable.

I've always been the shortest kid, so it's not a surprise that I grew up into a short man in general.
 
at age 11 or 12, i started to realize that i was background to my “friends” then i realized if i cant have friends how to hell am i going to get a girlfriend.
 
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I'm sure he just means that it might not be worth it since it's quite rare to see someone stick around for longer than a month or so. Don't take it personally.
Ye fairs
 
At 3 years old I was already an outcast, but I fully gave up around 21 years old
 
at 7 or 8 years old
I was a total outcast by 12
 
Kinda late, like at 20,i just didn't think about girls too much I spent most of my youth playing Civ 6/5 and 4 ,though my experiences should have informed me
 
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It wasn't until middle school for me atleast when I noticed
I gained consciousness at around 3 years old, during my first year in preschool. The first thing I thought about was that I wanted to have fun with the other kids, so I tried my best to get along with them, but they usually rejected me, or it was awkward. I didn't know what I was doing wrong, I still don't know 20 years later, but it was clear I could not fit in. I kept trying but could not make any significant long-lasting friendship, let alone get a gf, until I gave up at around 21 years old.

Weirdly enough I'm not diagnosed with autism, my parents were blind and refused to see the reality of my inexistant social life.

It is what it is...
 
knew it was over since i was a little boy
 
Over in terms of relationships?
Maybe 16/17

But i've been ostracised since I was 3 years old.
 
13, girls said eww to me a lot and I was bullied by everyone
 

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