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Discussion What advice do you have to any youngcels? (Under 18-20.)

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Assuming of course, there are teens and adults somewhat lurking here who may or not be an incel in denial. I see you :feelssus:

What would you say to them if they were doubting their attractiveness? What happens if they were ugly, decent, or just trying to LARP as an incel when another issue is into play, instead?
 
Give up already and accept it's over
 
There is really nothing you can do at this point if you are done growing
 
Take care of yourself because nobody else will
 
Every girl already has a boyfriend so don't bother
 
Try to stay focused and motivated to get a degree or learn a trade so you don't end up an ugly wageslave doing humiliating work for low pay getting bossed around by low-IQ normies.
 
Whenever your stressed, always make sure to fall back on your copes. Anything to prevent yourself from killing yourself.
 
As long as women are free you will suffer and society will degrade.
 
Cope or looksmaxx. :feelsokman:
 
None. I hate the young, When you're old, the young are all chads to you. I want them all castrated and put in camps.
 
Go outside, touch grass, take cold showers, work on your personality, treat women respectfully they're people too.
 
Go outside, touch grass, take cold showers, work on your personality, treat women respectfully they're people too.

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Take care of yourself because nobody else will
And find things you can enjoy in life because nobody else will invite you to do anything enjoyable
 
care about your physical health.
 
care about your physical health.
Yeah, probably the best here. Nobody is saying to get a six pack, but just having a decent amount of exercise is always nice.
 
Become an engineer
 
Go gym and do regular exercise even if you despise that shit, and start investing in a S&P500 or MSCI World index fund doing DCA with the money that you save from your shit job and ascetic lifestyle. At 50 if you make it you'll be rich, maybe even sooner and you will be able to fuck whores on a daily basis or wherever. Also read some books of stoicism (Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus) and some other things of your intest before going to sleep
 
Try and try as much as you can. People can call me bluepilled and retarded but 18 is too young to give up. Leave this site and try looksmaxxing and improving yourself for a few years, and if after that you are still in the same spot this forum will be here just the same for you.
 
Always look out for yourself, no body else will. You're alone in this world and you're the main character of your own story. If you're not getting any female attention by the age 20 it's likely over for you so don't waste your time on them. Exercise and eat right, try to stay away from goyslop. It's ok to live a little and eat shitty sometimes but don't make it part of your consistent diet. Learn a discipline that takes lots of knowledge and experience. If you are ever given the opportunity to do the right thing, then do the right thing. Don't get addicted to drugs and save as much money as you can. Have a healthy relationship with porn and prostitutes (in videogame). This is what I would tell my 18 year old self
 
Just rope
There's no solution for true inceldom
 
Try self-improvement scam to see how ovER you are.
 
Pretty much this
Yoyo boyo
 
looksmax gymmax. basically do all the copes that ensures you can't ascend
 
Assuming of course, there are teens and adults somewhat lurking here who may or not be an incel in denial. I see you :feelssus:

What would you say to them if they were doubting their attractiveness? What happens if they were ugly, decent, or just trying to LARP as an incel when another issue is into play, instead?
Just let them figure it out. No point in helping them out
 
Try and try as much as you can. People can call me bluepilled and retarded but 18 is too young to give up. Leave this site and try looksmaxxing and improving yourself for a few years, and if after that you are still in the same spot this forum will be here just the same for you.
As an 18yo, this is my mentality. I personally believe we hit the wall at 25, at that point everything begins to become more and more difficult and in all likelihood your fucked. My advice would be the same tbh, no matter what we have to try otherwise how can it be involuntary without atleast trying?
 
Assuming of course, there are teens and adults somewhat lurking here who may or not be an incel in denial. I see you :feelssus:

What would you say to them if they were doubting their attractiveness? What happens if they were ugly, decent, or just trying to LARP as an incel when another issue is into play, instead?
End it all, and rope. It won't get better, and it dosen't get better,
 
don't become a (real) drug addict. it's more hopeless even than being incel.
 
lift, you must lift, it is the one thing an incel can change even at his lowest
get a good job so you don't have to grind as much for jews
always say yes to an invitation to do something or go somewhere, these invitations dry up as you get older
grind dating apps and try to make a good profile, actually invest time and smile in your photos, it seems hopeless and maybe it is but a dating app is also a mirror for your own life, start filling in the gaps to be more attractive, persistence is key here, you never see the rejection so it is a very low stakes environment to improve yourself

as someone else said here, these forums will always be there but your youth won't be. i pray for every incel to ascend, i am not a crab in a bucket
 
If at first you don't succeed give up.
 
Assuming of course, there are teens and adults somewhat lurking here who may or not be an incel in denial. I see you :feelssus:

What would you say to them if they were doubting their attractiveness? What happens if they were ugly, decent, or just trying to LARP as an incel when another issue is into play, instead?
I see you too :feelsUgh:
 

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