what about your social life, do you have it? 22+

[dr-problematic]

Do you have any real friends? Whom you chat through out week, going to places / events with, friend who support you, whom you can easily talk about anything and those who dont judge you?

What's your social life like?

 

[Zyros]

I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

 

[justforlulzandkeks]

no, and I get uncomfortable when meeting new people so I can't really make any
it's why it's over for me and suicide is the only option

 

[mariaimdrunk]

I used to have some acquaintances that I could joke around with, but not anymore. Most (if not all) friends are temporary; they will get married and have children, which means less time to shoot the shit with some incel. Not having any friends still hurts though.

 

[torujo]

no, truecel here

 

[non_factor]

I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

Do your friends know that you post on incels?If not,aren't you afraid they'll find out?

 

[dr-problematic]

I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

for purposes of potential attempt to break out, separate ur friends into categories, where did u meet/make them? work/college/childhood?

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no, truecel here

u r 19, get ur shit together

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I used to have some acquaintances that I could joke around with, but not anymore.  Most (if not all) friends are temporary; they will get married and have children, which means less time to shoot the shit with some incel.  Not having any friends still hurts though.

not having friends is more painful than not having gf

 

[Akarin]

after I finished school I stopped contacting with any of my friends beause they were normies and I was so furious that time I needed to be left alone

and now I'm left alone

 

[dr-problematic]

no, and I get uncomfortable when meeting new people so I can't really make any
it's why it's over for me and suicide is the only option

prepare to ldar

 

[blickpall]

My two closest friends are volcel/incel or borderline incel (one dude gets laid once in a blue moon with some fail/10 girl because he is white and speaks Chinese). That is our social circle more or less, and the only things we do together is play video games. My other closest friend whom I've known for over 20 years is very busy nowadays and travels across the country, and has an LTR with a great girl - doesn't have much time to hang out with me, maybe grab drinks once every couple of months. I'm very happy for him.

Outside of these connections, I feel like every person I talk to casually once in a while assumes that I have an engaging social life because they see me at parties, I go to uni, etc. but the reality is that I'm a borderline hermit who has only 3-4 people I'm actually close with in this world.

 

[dr-problematic]

after I finished school I stopped contacting with any of my friends beause they were normies and I was so furious that time I needed to be left alone

and now I'm left alone

making friends at 19 is as easy as in kindergarden, trust me on that

 

[NeverSubmit]

I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

I don't believe you if that was the case you would be soicalizing not posting on here

 

[dr-problematic]

My two closest friends are volcel/incel or borderline incel (one dude gets laid once in a blue moon with some fail/10 girl because he is white and speaks Chinese). That is our social circle more or less, and the only things we do together is play video games. My other closest friend whom I've known for over 20 years is very busy nowadays and travels across the country, and has an LTR with a great girl - doesn't have much time to hang out with me, maybe grab drinks once every couple of months. I'm very happy for him.

Outside of these connections, I feel like every person I talk to casually once in a while assumes that I have an engaging social life because they see me at parties, I go to uni, etc. but the reality is that I'm a borderline hermit who has only 3-4 people I'm actually close with in this world.

by the sound of it u have normie tier life

whom do u go to parties with?

 

[Akarin]

making friends at 19 is as easy as in kindergarden, trust me on that

how is that easy? do you go outside and talk to people on the street? I have literally ZERO social circles and no way to meet other people

 

[dr-problematic]

how is that easy? do you go outside and talk to people on the street? I have literally ZERO social circles and no way to meet other people

its easy because of age and expectations bar from other people towards you

at 19 u dont have to have shit to be liked or respected

if u r 30 without stable job with good income, living in own place, driving car and going out every weekend with friends, having had gfs you are fucked

so start to do something or in next 4 years you'll realize how retarded u were now

 

[blickpall]

by the sound of it u have normie tier life

whom do u go to parties with?

I don't think that's very normie.

I go to parties with one of those friends, the one who is probably least incel but still pretty much incel. Sometimes alone, because I have casual acquaintances from volunteering in setting up parties over the past half-decade, so when I go there we talk and drink but I never talk to them outside of parties and setting up volunteering, pretty much.

 

[Zyros]

Do your friends know that you post on incels?If not,aren't you afraid they'll find out?

no they dont. who would tell that to irl people lol.

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for purposes of potential attempt to break out, separate ur friends into categories, where did u meet/make them? work/college/childhood?

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u r 19, get ur shit together

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not having friends is more painful than not having gf

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a bit of every life stage

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I don't believe you if that was the case you would be soicalizing not posting on here

these two things are not mutually exclusive.

 

[Incel_Dikshit]

A few friends, once they got gf’s they litteraly ditched me and never asked me to chill.
I asked myself a couple of time but they came with stupid excuses.


The funny thing is that they keep saying that i need a gf and that they wanna help but actually never help.
So i dont bother them anymore i dont want to be that guy who keeps asking them to do fun things.

These couple of months i go to the gym with my dad or go with my mom to the city. Sometimes i go with my litle sister to the bios.
Its more family now since everyone is to busy with their gf’s.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

I don't talk to anyone besides my sisters, parents, and if I'm buying something lol (that's the least social interaction I get). When your around uni, yeah you do have some chances to talk to others... I think some Incels have it worser than me, especially those that are hermitceling.

 

[NutNotBusted]

i have some acquaintances. i mean, i go to uni, i have someone to talk to and having lunch, i go to the gym, i know some people. However i did not go out with these people outside doing these activities. Nobody is interested in going out with me beside these activities.

 

[dr-problematic]

i have some acquaintances. i mean, i go to uni, i have someone to talk to and having lunch, i go to the gym, i know some people. However i did not go out with these people outside doing these activities. Nobody is interested in going out with me beside these activities.

yea well, u dont have real friends then, but those acquitances are extremely important still. make sure not to lose those ties.

 

[i_a_m_i]

I haven't had friends since middle school. My IRL social interaction consists of going to the store and talking to my family.

 

[dr-problematic]

I haven't had friends since middle school. My IRL social interaction consists of going to the store and talking to my family.

well, its over for us then, idk if u realized alrdy or truly felt it inside, but im not bullshitting or joking here

our life is literally lost at this point, u cant come back frm having no social connections.

 

[NutNotBusted]

yea well, u dont have real friends then, but those acquitances are extremely important still. make sure not to lose those ties.

I am very lonely. i do not know if i can stand this loneliness anymore to be honest.
Friends like you say are very rare.

 

[KValt]

yes to everything but its only a few guys for the last 2 parts. I have female friends but none that satisfy the last 2 categories

 

[Deleted member 306]

I have nothing

 

[dr-problematic]

I am very lonely. i do not know if i can stand this loneliness anymore to be honest.
Friends like you say are very rare.

social connections are one of the most valuable factors in this life. they cant be baught, they can only be created / made. 

as the saying goes 'no man is an island'. u cant survive alone and u cant progress and reach pinnacle of ur potential alone.

too bad parents didnt tell me that at young age.

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I have nothing

cope u have normie social life, im sure u r gona celebrate xmas and new years outside partyin

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yes to everything but its only a few guys for the last 2 parts. I have female friends but none that satisfy the last 2 categories

norman

 

[Deleted member 306]

social connections are one of the most valuable factors in this life. they cant be baught, they can only be created / made. 

as the saying goes 'no man is an island'. u cant survive alone and u cant progress and reach pinnacle of ur potential alone.

too bad parents didnt tell me that at young age.

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cope u have normie social life, im sure u r gona celebrate xmas and new years outside partyin

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norman

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I haven't left the house for 1 week

 

[Deleted member 1783]

I drift between groups of acquaintances but they always end up hanging out with each other and never inviting me places (they all post the same stupid snap story of them all together excluding me), and some of them just use me for free shit, like having small parties where they ask me to get them a $35 bottle of grey goose and never pay me back. stupid fuckers.

I also find socializing and making small talk very uncomfortable especially when sober, I went to someone's house and they said "You should watch Sherlock Holmes, it's really good," Puts it on, then proceeds to stare at phone the whole time while ignoring me. fml

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I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

You said you try to mask your lack of NTness, how do you do that? I feel like i'm constantly excluded from social situations just because I'm so awkward

also how have people reacted to blackpills irl?

 

[dr-problematic]

I drift between groups of acquaintances but they always end up hanging out with each other and never inviting me places (they all post the same stupid snap story of them all together excluding me), and some of them just use me for free shit, like having small parties where they ask me to get them a $35 bottle of grey goose and never pay me back. stupid fuckers.

I also find socializing and making small talk very uncomfortable especially when sober, I went to someone's house and they said "You should watch Sherlock Holmes, it's really good," Puts it on, then proceeds to stare at phone the whole time while ignoring me. fml

better to be alone than with such people

 

[Harvey_Weinstein_Hero]

I have normie tier social life, but I hide my extreme lack of NTness pretty well, even tho I sometimes drop blackpills and shit.

You drop black pills In public?

 

[Gymcel]

25, 0 friends no social circle. But not because I can't have one or I'm ugly/autistic etc. I just want to rot and be alone. I left all of my social circles and friends 2 years ago, told them to stop calling me and that I'm not going out with them anymore. They think I'm insane now. I just wanna rot in peace. I hate people, I'm bored of chit chat small talk and can't stand it anymore as an oldcel so I quit social life as a volcel.

 

[Deleted member 1783]

better to be alone than with such people

indeed

 

[dr-problematic]

25, 0 friends no social circle. But not because I can't have one or I'm ugly/autistic etc. I just want to rot and be alone. I left all of my social circles and friends 2 years ago, told them to stop calling me and that I'm not going out with them anymore. They think I'm insane now. I just wanna rot in peace. I hate people, I'm bored of chit chat small talk and can't stand it anymore as an oldcel so I quit social life as a volcel.

cope or u have mental ilnesses

 

[Zyros]

You drop black pills In public?

Yes specially when I am drunk

 

[Deleted member 1783]

Yes specially when I am drunk

LOL what'd you say

 

[Gymcel]

cope or u have mental ilnesses

Not cope, I had sluts, gymbros, party circles, gabber circles etc. I just stopped I couldn't handle it anymore, I can't stand people anymore. I have probably developed a mental illness from drugs or APD/Schizo.

 

[Zyros]

LOL what'd you say

Well it ranges from saying "if they do not approach me kts over" to expressing how much I want to either be God or for all life tl become extinct.

 

[dr-problematic]

Not cope, I had sluts, gymbros, party circles, gabber circles etc. I just stopped I couldn't handle it anymore, I can't stand people anymore. I have probably developed a mental illness from drugs or APD/Schizo.

what the fuck is gabber, and yeah apparently u did develop it

im kinda volcel myself tho, i couldt stand shit most 'normal' people did or were talkin about

 

[Gymcel]

what the fuck is gabber, and yeah apparently u did develop it

im kinda volcel myself tho, i couldt stand shit most 'normal' people did or were talkin about

Eu thing, party hooligan bald dudes, usually racist that live for Hardcore (Techno) music like Masters of Hardcore label. Not to be confused with Metal hardcore. It l's a EU thing from Netherlands so USAcels won't get it.

 

[AddictedToPorn]

I'm 22 and have literally no social connenctions, I was never invited to go out or to a party. I don't get along with people, because I'm not interrested in them as a human being, I just use people who benefit me.

 

[Deleted member 1783]

Well it ranges from saying "if they do not approach me kts over" to expressing how much I want to either be God or for all life tl become extinct.

oh man. what did the other person say

 

[dr-problematic]

Eu thing, party hooligan bald dudes, usually racist that live for Hardcore (Techno) music like Masters of Hardcore label. Not to be confused with Metal hardcore. It l's a EU thing from Netherlands so USAcels won't get it.

im from eastern europe and dudes whom u linked are usually considered low iq chavs / tokkies here.

 

[Zyros]

oh man. what did the other person say

Sometimes they say Im mad. Sometimes they say they dont understamd me but what I say is so deep. Sometimes they agree.

 

[dr-problematic]

I'm 22 and have literally no social connenctions, I was never invited to go out or to a party. I don't get along with people, because I'm not interrested in them as a human being, I just use people who benefit me.

got some bad news for ya then

Spoiler

prepare to ldar

 

[Gymcel]

im from eastern europe and dudes whom u linked are usually considered low iq chavs / tokkies here.

Ye, most of gabbers are. But it's a fun lifestyle. It can be very taxing mentally if you're not low iq so drugs burn you out sooner or later, but I still love the music.

 

[Panda]

i have a few best friends from middle school but i havent seen them in a long time. we group chat every few months

 

[Captvic]

Only friends I have are work friends and i don't see them outside of work

 

[dr-problematic]

Only friends I have are work friends and i don't see them outside of work

does it burn inside from solitude and loneliness?

 

[KValt]

social connections are one of the most valuable factors in this life. they cant be baught, they can only be created / made. 

as the saying goes 'no man is an island'. u cant survive alone and u cant progress and reach pinnacle of ur potential alone.

too bad parents didnt tell me that at young age.

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cope u have normie social life, im sure u r gona celebrate xmas and new years outside partyin

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norman

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I’m a kiss less virgin who has never seen a naked woman. I have a 2.5 inch fully erect dick. I don’t think I’m a normie. I just got very good at building and controlling my image to overcompensate for my subhumanity.