Serious We were driving and my mother told me, quote, "I hope you don't watch porn, it's bad for your brain. They did scans and it's proven it's bad for you."

[TheGrayWolf]

... I told her it's normal and I used to but I don't do it anymore (which is a lie, but I do do it less) to which she replied "I hope so". Her tone was always neutral here.
(I'm 26.)

HOWEVER SHE DIDN'T SUGGEST OR MENTION IN ANY WAY THAT IT'S BAD FOR "HEALTHY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP" WHICH IS A COMMON ARGUMENT AGAINST PORN. I THINK SHE KNOWS IT'S OVER FOR ME ANYWAY.

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

just dont have urges theory

 

[TheGrayWolf]

just dont have urges theory

 

[DenHaag]

Yeah it’s bad. So is being alone.

just dont have urges theory

I still hope someday I can reach that whitepilled promised land of nirvana

 

[NihilisticSoul]

Im a total coomer

 

[Rapist]

Mogs me for admitting to your mom that you watch porn.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Im a total coomer

same but maybe it's better to coom to your imagination or certain social media posts

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Mogs me for admitting to your mom that you watch porn.

it started like this. In December I had a problem with my computer (part of screen broke) and my mother told me to bring it to get it fixed. I said no I don't want to, and she asked why, I said I have private stuff on there, and she said, they've seen it all. She also said back then "don't watch porn, it's bad for your brain" (but didn't mention anything about relationships). Now I said, "I don't watch it anymore and it's normal anyway".

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Yeah it’s bad. So is being alone.

I still hope someday I can reach that whitepilled promised land of nirvana

me too man, me too

 

[Robb97]

Living with your mom as an adult is cucked. If they are extremely overbearing like my parents and from the sounds of it your mother is too.
There is too much personal stuff that they know of, which is fine if they have your back and treat you with respect. Or if they're a bit low iq or just don't get involved in your stuff as much, then it's fine as well. But if they treat you like a child then you have to leave them to keep your own dignity.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Living with your mom as an adult is cucked. If they are extremely overbearing like my parents and from the sounds of it your mother is too.
There is too much personal stuff that they know of, which is fine if they have your back and treat you with respect. Or if they're a bit low iq or just don't get involved in your stuff as much, then it's fine as well. But if they treat you like a child then you have to leave them to keep your own dignity.

that's all true but I have extreme social anxiety can't get a proper job (or would need to work 45 hrs per week) bc of my disability and social security payments wouldn't be enough. My life is better in my mother's house that anywhere else. so while cucked, it's still more comfortable for me and better overall

 

[Robb97]

that's all true but I have extreme social anxiety can't get a proper job (or would need to work 45 hrs per week) bc of my disability and social security payments wouldn't be enough. My life is better in my mother's house that anywhere else. so while cucked, it's still more comfortable for me and better overall

You probably won't like Rechtsrock, but that remindeds me of the lyrics in this song

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWWxpocmnKM

 

[TheGrayWolf]

You probably won't like Rechtsrock, but that remindeds me of the lyrics in this song

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWWxpocmnKM

I see what you mean

 

[MillionBashStream97]

If I didn't watch porn, I would be in jail in about a month for raping a random foid.

Trust me, for whatever harm that porn can do, it makes up for what is making me NOT do.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Women that complain about pornography but won't do anything to help desperate men that need sex are hypocrites. "Don't watch it, it's bad for you. Just fight against your urges as an incel."

Ever heard of 'staircase wit'? If not, me neither, until today. I should have asked/said her why she never mentions how it's bad for relationships (I think the real answer to this is simply bc she knows I'll never have a relationship)

 

[IncelLover99]

Women that complain about pornography but won't do anything to help desperate men that need sex are hypocrites. "Don't watch it, it's bad for you. Just fight against your urges as an incel."

It's like they're teasing us

 

[TheGrayWolf]

If I didn't watch porn, I would be in jail in about a month for raping a random foid.

Trust me, for whatever harm that porn can do, it makes up for what is making me NOT do.

Fair enough and makes sense. I regret not asking my mother the gotcha question and making her uncomfortable, why she didn't mention that porn is bad for relationships (the real answer: she knows I'll never have a relationship or free casual sex, but ofc she wouldn't have admitted that). I don't like my (limited) intelligence being insulted like this (she's basically inferring I'll never have a gf, which while true is still rude)

 

[MillionBashStream97]

(she's basically inferring I'll never have a gf, which while true is still rude)

Read all that you said, just wanted to say that as much it is, especially coming from your mother, I waaaaaay prefer this then the obnoxious way my aunts talk about me, like I'm a Chadlite that girls must be drooling over. It's so fucking annoying and makes me feel worse.

I would MUCH rather have someone as blackpilled as your mother.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Read all that you said, just wanted to say that as much it is, especially coming from your mother, I waaaaaay prefer this then the obnoxious way my aunts talk about me, like I'm a Chadlite that girls must be drooling over. It's so fucking annoying and makes me feel worse.

I would MUCH rather have someone as blackpilled as your mother.

damn yes that sounds annoying. My aunt who's dead now used to imply that I'm ugly (by saying how good- looking my cousin is - which is true. He's a 6'3" chad)

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Read all that you said, just wanted to say that as much it is, especially coming from your mother, I waaaaaay prefer this then the obnoxious way my aunts talk about me, like I'm a Chadlite that girls must be drooling over. It's so fucking annoying and makes me feel worse.

I would MUCH rather have someone as blackpilled as your mother.

but still, BOTH of these bluepilled and blackpilled comments make you feel like shit. I wish she just wouldn't say anything

 

[Puppeter]

give me pussy then low iq female

 

[TheGrayWolf]

give me pussy then low iq female

you get it man! Tell that to my mum

 

[Puppeter]

you get it man! Tell that to my mum

foids i swear

 

[MillionBashStream97]

but still, BOTH of these bluepilled and blackpilled comments make you feel like shit. I wish she just wouldn't say anything

Yeah, that's fair. You internally already know the truth, but being reminded of it by your mother of all people, can be hurtful...

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Read all that you said, just wanted to say that as much it is, especially coming from your mother, I waaaaaay prefer this then the obnoxious way my aunts talk about me, like I'm a Chadlite that girls must be drooling over. It's so fucking annoying and makes me feel worse.

I would MUCH rather have someone as blackpilled as your mother.

Now I remember what I wanted to ask you.

Do you think your aunts (and potentially others) really think this:

like I'm a Chadlite that girls must be drooling over.

... or are they just lying idiots?

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Now I remember what I wanted to ask you.

Do you think your aunts (and potentially others) really think this:


... or are they just lying idiots?

There's the charitable answer, and there's the cynical answer.

The charitable one, is that since they are older (40s- early 50s), me or anyone being young (I'm 26, don't feel young at all, but whatever), makes them already good looking, in comparison to where they are in their life.

Being young is a enviable and/or desirable trait for many older people. So to them, you are a Chadlite. Even though the people your age could give a shit less about you.

The ONLY compliments I EVER got on my appearance came from women in their 50s-60s, every single time. When I was 17, 17 year old girls didn't even look at me. 20, 23, so on.

Anyway, and the cynical answer, is yeah, they know they are lying. They are just trying to make me feel better or whatever, which again, doesn't work.

I don't care about compliments from used up old women, at all (None of them are MILFs, by the way, before some retard makes that assumption).
When I see a 26 year old woman complimenting me, then that will get my attention.

 

[gymletethnicel]

Im a total coomer

Same, my mother knows. I have the right to coom as an incel.