Was this a weird text (srs question)

[bcroger]

1 month ago, Asked a guy I knew if he wanted to grab a beer that week and he said that he was out of town. I saw the same guy at the grocery store the next day.

That said, he seemed like a nice guy. We had a decent conversation. Would see him some other times at the grocery store and we would talk.

I also knew 2 other workers are the grocery store. Both females. They are friendly, and I would talk to them sometimes. That guy is friends with these two females. I think that 1 of them may be his girlfriend, I am not sure.

Anyways I randomly texted him "tell Katy and Jenna that I said hi btw!" (referring to the two other friendly co workers) roughly one month after he rejected my invitation to grab a beer.

I noticed that he never responded to my text. Was it a creepy text, like he thought that I was trying to get with the co workers/his friends? Am I over thinking this whole thing? Thoughts?

 

[Paladin]

Was this out of nowhere or in the middle of a conversation?

 

[Corvus]

Yes, that’s incredibly creepy. I learned that lesson long ago.

Dont ever show your face in that store again

 

[bcroger]

Was this out of nowhere or in the middle of a conversation?

Out of nowhere. I talked to him before though.

 

[Paladin]

Out of nowhere. I talked to him before though.

Yeah that would definitely come off weird.

 

[Left4DeadBPDvictim]

Ig I can see the question as being a little odd if you said it out of nowhere but I don't think it's that bad

 

[bcroger]

Yeah that would definitely come off weird.

I think that you are over thinking things or may be paranoid " "tell Katy and Jenna that I said hi btw!" doesn't seem like its sexual in nature at all.

But yeah, I learned by lesson though. Better just not to say these things, esp. as an incel. I would say it was a mistake by the fact that he never replied. Seems like you are trying to make me feel worse/more embarrassed about it than need be though.

I hoppe its not a big deal.

 

[Sloth]

I think it could be weird

 

[bcroger]

I think it could be weird

Is it THAT bad? Like should I stop going to the store because of what I said?

 

[bcroger]

Yes, that’s incredibly creepy. I learned that lesson long ago.

Dont ever show your face in that store again

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Why are you so mean?

 

[Paladin]

Is it THAT bad? Like should I stop going to the store because of what I said?

It's not that bad but it would come off kinda weird. You can still go to the store obviously and I doubt anyone cares about it now

 

[Corvus]

Why are you so mean?

How am I being mean? Im just telling you what I learned from experience bro. It was creepy, but theyll likely forget about it soon.

 

[bcroger]

It's not that bad but it would come off kinda weird. You can still go to the store obviously and I doubt anyone cares about it now

Thanks bro. That makes me feel a lot better.

 

[Sloth]

Is it THAT bad? Like should I stop going to the store because of what I said?

You can still go to the store

 

[bcroger]

How am I being mean? Im just telling you what I learned from experience bro. It was creepy, but theyll likely forget about it soon.

Its just a small issue though right, not a huge one? Like should I stop going to the store?

 

[bcroger]

You can still go to the store

Thanks bro!

 

[Sloth]

Thanks bro!

No problem

 

[bcroger]

Ig I can see the question as being a little odd if you said it out of nowhere but I don't think it's that bad

Thanks man.