Was I wrong to do this?

[RegularManlet]

Today my mother invited a friend over to our house.

I mostly dislike having visitors, I prefer to rot in peace and usually do not relate to the visitors since they are all bluepilled and older than me, I feel like they will just judge me for being alone and in my room.

These specific visitors today

One of them was my mothers friend a foid in her late 50's

The second visitor was the foids son who is 25 so only a few years older than me, I hung out with him one time maybe 5-7 years ago since we both liked a certain sport. But now he has actually gotten married and had a kid.

So the third visitor was his newborn baby.

So I was faced with a dillema.

I always tell myself I want friends, and I had hung out with this guy years ago and it was alright so I thought I should go out and greet them.

On the other hand this guy mogged me in every way you can think of, life mog, height mog, money mog etc.

I figured given he is a married sexhaver with a son I realistically could not be friends with him at all because of the different life stages on top of the mogging, I thought they would just see me and pity me, and they would probably just talk badly about me on their drive home.

Ultimately I decided to stay in my room, my mother quickly came into my room while they were over and asked if I wanted to see them and I told her no and she was dissapointed.

So do you guys think I did the right thing, I really doubt that I could be friends with this guy it probably would have just been an embarassing mog, I used the time to studymaxx instead in my room.
But I want to hold myself accountable for my actions with unbiased opinions from users here.

 

[incelsexaddict]

You should have ingratiated yourself with them so that they make you the daughter's godfather and in 12 years you can take her hand in marriage.

 

[Raidriar3015]

I really have no idea. My best guess is that you probably made the right decision. Every friend I've had was a fake friend. I'd assume it'd end the same in this scenario too.

 

[FrothySolutions]

I dunno about "right" or "wrong," but you were honest with yourself about your jealousy. Probably not productive to just ignore that issue.

 

[Izayacel]

Dont let Peer pressure get to you "

If you think It was right It propably was

 

[RegularManlet]

You should have ingratiated yourself with them so that they make you the daughter's godfather and in 12 years you can take her hand in marriage.

Kek the baby was a foid too lol

I really have no idea. My best guess is that you probably made the right decision. Every friend I've had was a fake friend. I'd assume it'd end the same in this scenario too.

I think I did make the right decision, this forum can be a bit of an echo chamber but I still think you can have intelligent conversations on here about if I am holding myself back or not, I don't want me using this forum to be shooting myself in the foot. In this scenario idk if he would be a fake friend I just would not have made it to that point, I cannot relate to a married man with a kid I think, my mother still made me feel guilty for not leaving my room.

I dunno about "right" or "wrong," but you were honest with yourself about your jealousy. Probably not productive to just ignore that issue.

What do you mean by the last part, do you have some sort of suggestion or something to do? I don't really feel that jealous from what I know of this guy he is a good guy, his mother is not that nice though she is your typical fake nice foid.

 

[RegularManlet]

Dont let Peer pressure get to you "

If you think It was right It propably was

Well I am not looking for peer pressure but unbiased objective opinions from fellow brocels, obviously I have the best overall knowledge of the visitors and myself to make the decision but a second opinion from someone outside of the situation is good too and it is good to try check yourself too.

When looking at others situations I will occasionally find myself thinking something like "if you think it was right it probably was" since I have the most information to make a decision with

 

[Gokubro]

LDAR is the only correct option for us.

 

[RegularManlet]

LDAR is the only correct option for us.

That was apart of my thought process, that I should just LDAR as usual.

 

[gymletethnicel]

LDAR is the only correct option for us.

 

[suicidecase]

You should have ingratiated yourself with them so that they make you the daughter's godfather and in 12 years you can take her hand in marriage.

A viable plan 150 years ago.

I was just watching a doc about Edgar Allen Poe, one of the original incels, and he married his 13 year old cousin.

 

[Raidriar3015]

I think I did make the right decision, this forum can be a bit of an echo chamber but I still think you can have intelligent conversations on here about if I am holding myself back or not, I don't want me using this forum to be shooting myself in the foot. In this scenario idk if he would be a fake friend I just would not have made it to that point, I cannot relate to a married man with a kid I think, my mother still made me feel guilty for not leaving my room.

Makes sense. Another point is that married guys with kids are very busy people.

A viable plan 150 years ago.

I was just watching a doc about Edgar Allen Poe, one of the original incels, and he married his 13 year old cousin.

JFL "13 year old cousin" reminds me of @Aspergcel

 

[idfklma]

Nah why question it? Why go downstars just 2 get mogged? Fuck that

 

[Fat Link]

Today my mother invited a friend over to our house.

I mostly dislike having visitors, I prefer to rot in peace and usually do not relate to the visitors since they are all bluepilled and older than me, I feel like they will just judge me for being alone and in my room.

These specific visitors today

One of them was my mothers friend a foid in her late 50's

The second visitor was the foids son who is 25 so only a few years older than me, I hung out with him one time maybe 5-7 years ago since we both liked a certain sport. But now he has actually gotten married and had a kid.

So the third visitor was his newborn baby.

So I was faced with a dillema.

I always tell myself I want friends, and I had hung out with this guy years ago and it was alright so I thought I should go out and greet them.

On the other hand this guy mogged me in every way you can think of, life mog, height mog, money mog etc.

I figured given he is a married sexhaver with a son I realistically could not be friends with him at all because of the different life stages on top of the mogging, I thought they would just see me and pity me, and they would probably just talk badly about me on their drive home.

Ultimately I decided to stay in my room, my mother quickly came into my room while they were over and asked if I wanted to see them and I told her no and she was dissapointed.

So do you guys think I did the right thing, I really doubt that I could be friends with this guy it probably would have just been an embarassing mog, I used the time to studymaxx instead in my room.
But I want to hold myself accountable for my actions with unbiased opinions from users here.

You weren’t wrong.

My last remaining best friend has essentially abandoned me after his recent marriage and having a kid with his woman so other than exchanging a few pleasantries with this dude and mildly catching up with eachother it is unlikely he’d re-establish any true friendship ties with you as such Chads are simply too busy living their lives which is to say slaving away like dogs making those sheckels to support their Foid and spawn.

 

[RegularManlet]

Nah why question it? Why go downstars just 2 get mogged? Fuck that

You weren’t wrong.

My last remaining best friend has essentially abandoned me after his recent marriage and having a kid with his woman so other than exchanging a few pleasantries with this dude and mildly catching up with eachother it is unlikely he’d re-establish any true friendship ties with you as such Chads are simply too busy living their lives which is to say slaving away like dogs making those sheckels to support their Foid and spawn.

Thank you for your opinions and to everyone else that responded thank you as well, I just felt really fucking autistic in the moment while I was trapped studycucking in my room.

 

[rhodie]

who voted 'been social'

 

[RegularManlet]

A viable plan 150 years ago.

I was just watching a doc about Edgar Allen Poe, one of the original incels, and he married his 13 year old cousin.

who voted 'been social'

I think he wanted to me get in good with the father to end up marrying his baby or something read the quote above yours

 

[Celasius]

I figured given he is a married sexhaver with a son I realistically could not be friends with him at all because of the different life stages on top of the mogging, I thought they would just see me and pity me, and they would probably just talk badly about me on their drive home

That is correct. Why would you bother making an effort for someone you have nothing in common with? You did the right thing.

 

[RegularManlet]

That is correct. Why would you bother making an effort for someone you have nothing in common with? You did the right thing.

I figured so but he seemed cool 5 years ago or whatever, his story is actually interesting.

He met a girl in high school they were both 16 but his mother did not allow him to date because she wanted him to get good grades, they finished high school and then dated at 18 married had a kid.
JFL at the moron mother, they probably secretly dated behind her back anyway because idk if a foid would be loyal like that for 2 years to come back to him.

 

[Celasius]

I figured so but he seemed cool 5 years ago or whatever, his story is actually interesting.

That was 5 years ago, not now. Friendships are mostly temporary. I wouldn’t worry about it, brocel.

He met a girl in high school they were both 16

Suifuel.

 

[suicidecase]

I think he wanted to me get in good with the father to end up marrying his baby or something read the quote above yours

That is actually my vote. Not for that reason though, friends are a beautiful thing.

 

[FrothySolutions]

What do you mean by the last part, do you have some sort of suggestion or something to do? I don't really feel that jealous from what I know of this guy he is a good guy, his mother is not that nice though she is your typical fake nice foid.

You're like "Oh, he mogs me, we're not gonna have anything in common" and so forth. You need to deal with those feelings.

 

[RegularManlet]

You're like "Oh, he mogs me, we're not gonna have anything in common" and so forth. You need to deal with those feelings.

What would I have in common with a married person with a baby though, that is so alien to me.
It's a fact, it's not an emotional response really and I don't see how its some feeling I can deal with to improve my situatiion, if you have a suggestion please share it but im just confused rn.

 

[FrothySolutions]

What would I have in common with a married person with a baby though, that is so alien to me.
It's a fact, it's not an emotional response really and I don't see how its some feeling I can deal with to improve my situatiion, if you have a suggestion please share it but im just confused rn.

Him having a child doesn't make him unrelatable to you. He's still a person, talk to him as you would another person instead of making fatherhood his whole existence.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

The people voting that you did the right thing are fucking retarded. Avoiding social situations on purpose will make you even sadder and more depressed. Even if he mogs you, you would get another blackpill moment. But if it went well, you will feel better about yourself. Avoiding almost always leads to worse outcomes in the end.

 

[yung loner]

He would've started inquiring on your personal life and then pity you, it's happened to me before with other same age family members. At least your mom let you stay inside, I've been dragged out of my room to be forced into awkward conversations that die out quick

 

[TheCatMan]

I did the same thing once during a dinner. I came out and got a plate of food when everyone left.

 

[TheCatMan]

He would've started inquiring on your personal life and then pity you, it's happened to me before with other same age family members. At least your mom let you stay inside, I've been dragged out of my room to be forced into awkward conversations that die out quick

 

[RegularManlet]

Him having a child doesn't make him unrelatable to you. He's still a person, talk to him as you would another person instead of making fatherhood his whole existence.

I have decided next time that I am going to go force myself to talk to whoever visits next for the heck of it, still he probably would have mostly talked about his kid.

The people voting that you did the right thing are fucking retarded. Avoiding social situations on purpose will make you even sadder and more depressed. Even if he mogs you, you would get another blackpill moment. But if it went well, you will feel better about yourself. Avoiding almost always leads to worse outcomes in the end.

I decided I will force myself to talk to the next person that visits

He would've started inquiring on your personal life and then pity you, it's happened to me before with other same age family members. At least your mom let you stay inside, I've been dragged out of my room to be forced into awkward conversations that die out quick

Thats what I was thinking, I knew him once 5 or 7 years ago so idk if he would be nice or try to rub in the mogging, I swear normies always ask "oh so what are you up to now" or some bullshit like that, I would just LARP but i cant infront of my mother.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Could be worse, I was 20 and had been NEETing for two years in a row, disheveled and mentally broken, my mother sends up her winehoe friends son who was some 14-15 year old kid up to my room, I tell him to get the fuck out, he starts sniveling, his older brother says he is going to kick my ass, I go and take a long 45 minute shower until everyone left, this happened regularly and my mother did it because she knew it pissed me off interacting with normies, she got a good laugh out of sending strangers and freaks up to me and me yelling at them.

Tales from the rotting cell that was my former room.

 

[yung loner]

Thats what I was thinking, I knew him once 5 or 7 years ago so idk if he would be nice or try to rub in the mogging, I swear normies always ask "oh so what are you up to now" or some bullshit like that, I would just LARP but i cant infront of my mother.

Even if he tries to be nice there will still be that feeling of vulnerability and embarrassment afterwards that you can't forget. LARPing doesn't hold up for long, they will start asking for further details

 

[RegularManlet]

Him having a child doesn't make him unrelatable to you. He's still a person, talk to him as you would another person instead of making fatherhood his whole existence.

The people voting that you did the right thing are fucking retarded. Avoiding social situations on purpose will make you even sadder and more depressed. Even if he mogs you, you would get another blackpill moment. But if it went well, you will feel better about yourself. Avoiding almost always leads to worse outcomes in the end.

I had some visitors a couple hours ago, I made sure to greet them and talk to them, by doing this I did not feel autistic but they usually are more interested in talking to my parents than me so I end up just standing around like a background character mostly, I did get some protein powder out of it though since the guy knows im a gymcel

Could be worse, I was 20 and had been NEETing for two years in a row, disheveled and mentally broken, my mother sends up her winehoe friends son who was some 14-15 year old kid up to my room, I tell him to get the fuck out, he starts sniveling, his older brother says he is going to kick my ass, I go and take a long 45 minute shower until everyone left, this happened regularly and my mother did it because she knew it pissed me off interacting with normies, she got a good laugh out of sending strangers and freaks up to me and me yelling at them.

Tales from the rotting cell that was my former room

Sounds stupid fucking annoying at least no one gets sent to my room, maybe I can try to shower technique next time

 

[Fifita]

Giving cold shoulder to somebody who thinks of you like a piece of Dog Shit they just stepped on is the correct option .

 

[RegularManlet]

Giving cold shoulder to somebody who thinks of you like a piece of Dog Shit they just stepped on is the correct option .

I have no idea what the guy thinks of me, his mother probably sees me as a loser since her son mogs me even though he is a few years older than me.

 

[Fifita]

I have no idea what the guy thinks of me, his mother probably sees me as a loser since her son mogs me even though he is a few years older than me.

That older son sound like a little rattlesnake . Keep your distance from this family of vipers .

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I had some visitors a couple hours ago, I made sure to greet them and talk to them, by doing this I did not feel autistic but they usually are more interested in talking to my parents than me so I end up just standing around like a background character mostly, I did get some protein powder out of it though since the guy knows im a gymcel

What’s your bench press at?

 

[RegularManlet]

What’s your bench press at?

66lbs, thats for alot of reps though idk what one rep max would be, i have weak genetics for strength, it should still improve over time though

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

66lbs, thats for alot of reps though idk what one rep max would be, i have weak genetics for strength, it should still improve over time though

so you have the bar with 10lbs on each side?

 

[RegularManlet]

so you have the bar with 10lbs on each side?

Well I go by kg, but the bar is about 20lbs and then 23 lbs on each side I guess

 

[RegularManlet]

You just refused to interact with them. Nothing wrong with that.

It felt autistic in the moment and I was trapped in my room and my mother wanted me to go out and talk to them and see the baby but I did not which annoyed my mother.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Well I go by kg, but the bar is about 20lbs and then 23 lbs on each side I guess

Aren’t bars around 45lbs?

 

[RegularManlet]

Aren’t bars around 45lbs?

Idk I only know the one at my gym is 20lbs, it seems to work just fine.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Idk I only know the one at my gym is 20lbs, it seems to work just fine.

I’ve never heard of a 20lbs one, wtf. How do you know it’s 20lbs? Maybe it’s 20kg, and you are mixing it.

 

[RegularManlet]

I’ve never heard of a 20lbs one, wtf. How do you know it’s 20lbs? Maybe it’s 20kg, and you are mixing it.

It's 9kg, the gym I go to is kind of shit maybe but its good because less people go to it. The gym is super close to where I live.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

It's 9kg, the gym I go to is kind of shit maybe but its good because less people go to it. The gym is super close to where I live.

Fair enough. I can’t even find one like that on google. How long have you been training? When I started I was doing 35lbs cause the 45 barbell was too much for me.

 

[RegularManlet]

Fair enough. I can’t even find one like that on google. How long have you been training? When I started I was doing 35lbs cause the 45 barbell was too much for me.

I was a new years resolutionist recently taken a month long break of not being consistent but going back soon so I guess 10 months.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

I really have no idea

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I was a new years resolutionist recently taken a month long break of not being consistent but going back soon so I guess 10 months.

What weight did you start with?

 

[Wilmoty_95]

I imagine they would have talked about you negatively irrespective of whether you went out and greeted them anyway brocel.

I'm not sure what they are like in person, though.

Depends whether you still want to be friends with him. If not, I wouldn't really care how I came across.

 

[RegularManlet]

What weight did you start with?

I forget, on bench I guess 16kg maybe idk

I imagine they would have talked about you negatively irrespective of whether you went out and greeted them anyway brocel.

I'm not sure what they are like in person, though.

Depends whether you still want to be friends with him. If not, I wouldn't really care how I came across.

The mother probably would have talked badly about me I imagine, I knew him once like 5 years ago idk if I could be friends with a newly wed that has a child who probably already has his own friends