Serious Was anyone else actually molested? Seriously?

[NEETAndTidy]

Yes I'm serious.
I was molested by a FEMALE cousin between 7-9
Yes seriously.

First time I've ever uttered those words honestly
Hope this isnt bragging.

Never reported it.

Feel free to open up brothers.

FUCK WHY AM I ADMITTING THIS HERE

 

[Anger]

Elaborate.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Elaborate.

Not publically. Can PM me if you really wanna know man

 

[Anger]

Not publically. Can PM me if you really wanna know man

OK

 

[Gardencel]

I was molested at a young age.

You're not alone. That kind of thing seriously fucks you up. It took me a long time to stop being afraid of being touched, and its still hard not to feel disgusting.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I was molested at a young age.

You're not alone. That kind of thing seriously fucks you up. It took me a long time to stop being afraid of being touched, and its still hard not to feel disgusting.

I've literally never said it before. Even in private. Idk what made me wanna say it tbh

 

[Deleted member 677]

Nope. I'm real sorry for what you had to go through, though.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

I seriously hope not, reading stuff like this makes me afraid because i can relate to the fear of intimacy

 

[Gardencel]

I've literally never said it before. Even in private. Idk what made me wanna say it tbh

Hell I don't even like admitting I was either. Mine was from a childhood friend and adults, but I can't imagine family. I'm sorry man, you're not alone though.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I seriously hope not, reading stuff like this makes me afraid because i can relate to the fear of intimacy

I'm being completely honest.

Nope. I'm real sorry for what you had to go through, though.

Thanks. Idk its fucked me up emotionally

Hell I don't even like admitting I was either. Mine was from a childhood friend and adults, but I can't imagine family. I'm sorry man, you're not alone though.

Sorry man. Can PM me if you want

 

[metal]

LOL are you serious?

 

[Grapefruit]

I was passed around a lot as a kid. Completely ruined me inside and is the legit reason I'm here today. I'll never recover.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

LOL are you serious?

Yes. Completely.

I was passed around a lot as a kid. Completely ruined me inside and is the legit reason I'm here today. I'll never recover.

Same. I cant function properly. It fucked up my development or something.
Aside from my aspergers I think it caused many of my mental problems

 

[Gardencel]

I was passed around a lot as a kid. Completely ruined me inside and is the legit reason I'm here today. I'll never recover.

Same. I cant function properly. It fucked up my development or something.
Aside from my aspergers I think it caused many of my mental problems

I can guarantee it's the reason I'm here too. If I wasn't on mobile I'd fetch some articles, but traumatic events, especially those occurring during childhood, can change the way your brain works. It physically changes you, and many suffer from stress/depression/anxiety/PTSD/personality disorders/etc for the rest of their lives.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3181836/

Here's one I got but there's many more.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I can guarantee it's the reason I'm here too. If I wasn't on mobile I'd fetch some articles, but traumatic events, especially those occurring during childhood, can change the way your brain works. It physically changes you, and many suffer from stress/depressed/anxiety/PTSD/personality disorders/etc for the rest of their lives.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3181836/

Here's one I got but there's many more.

I'm sure that's why I am now I am today

 

[Dungcel]

Hope this isnt bragging.

How could this be bragging, man? You were literally sexually assaulted as a child and that's really no laughing matter. Glad you can actually open up about it.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

How could this be bragging, man? You were literally sexually assaulted as a child and that's really no laughing matter. Glad you can actually open up about it.

Humor is a cope for me.

 

[Dungcel]

Humor is a cope for me.

I understand, you deal with it the way you have to but it's an incredibly large step to talk about it. Congratulations, and I really hope you continue to get better.
I'd offer you any help I could give but honestly I have no idea what to say to someone in your situation, all I can say is I'm with you bro.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I understand, you deal with it the way you have to but it's an incredibly large step to talk about it. Congratulations, and I really hope you continue to get better.
I'd offer you any help I could give but honestly I have no idea what to say to someone in your situation, all I can say is I'm with you bro.

Thanks.

 

[Dungcel]

Thanks.

 

[TheyCallMeACreep]

Yep, when I was about 10 I think. I don't really remember much from back in the day. It was by my mother's boyfriend's brother who did it. I don't really mind talking about it because it doesn't feel like it happened to me or that it did happen although I have memories of it.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Yep, when I was about 10 I think. I don't really remember much from back in the day. It was by my mother's boyfriend's brother who did it. I don't really mind talking about it because it doesn't feel like it happened to me or that it did happen although I have memories of it.

I feel you brother

 

[xanox]

How can you be an incel and someone women want to have sex with? If she molested you it means she thought you were hot.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

How can you be an incel and someone women want to have sex with? If she molested you it means she thought you were hot.

 

[TheyCallMeACreep]

I feel you brother

I have a question, did you realise what happened right away or did it take you some time to process it?

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I have a question, did you realise what happened right away or did it take you some time to process it?

I'm honestly not sure. It's been on the back of my mind for 2 decades nearly

 

[TheyCallMeACreep]

I'm honestly not sure. It's been on the back of my mind for 2 decades nearly

Yeah, that's a long time. Either way I don't really get it either

 

[janoycresva]

How old was the cousin? Sick people in this world, usually it's a male

 

[metal]

a so curious story..

 

[NEETAndTidy]

How old was the cousin? Sick people in this world, usually it's a male

SEVERAL years older than me

 

[Gardencel]

How old was the cousin? Sick people in this world, usually it's a male

Mine was female too actually. If you're curious you can PM me.

A lot of female assaulters never really get caught or reported because a lot of people simply don't think girls can be sexually violent. There's also the view ingrained in a lot of people that men simply don't get assaulted, and that there's no way a man can be raped/molested/abused. A lot of male children/teens simply go quiet because their abuse isn't actually seen as abuse. It happens more often then you'd think.

 

[lastchancel]

was molested by a male teen when i was 9, told no one, he has a girl and a life now, i'm not reporting it, i can't.

 

[Akira]

Yes. I was in elementary school when I was sexually assaulted by a family member. I can’t remember my exact age, but I can remember exactly what happened and where. Weird.

 

[ElfCake]

What did she do?

 

[Newbite]

I was molested by a female relative from 5 onwards

Always blame that whore for impairing my ability to interact with women

I was molested at a young age.

You're not alone. That kind of thing seriously fucks you up. It took me a long time to stop being afraid of being touched, and its still hard not to feel disgusting.

Legit. Growing up i used to always violently tear myself away if a woman touched me. Once a foid doctor just harmlessly patted my knees without thinking and i scowled and moved away. Didnt realise it at the time but now i do.

 

[Modus Coperandi]

Damn It's disgusting to think about this but it happened to me, too.
I wish it was a foid. Seriously. This would make things so much better.
It were two cousins who were ~5 years older than me.
Fuck these gay motherfuckers. I can't believe both of them have a better life than me now. One is married, the other has a ltr.
Life fucking sucks. T I M E T O R O P E

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Is it bragging, if I would answer and people cry volcel?

It's okay man. I was even laughed at by my classmates.

I was molested at a young age.

You're not alone. That kind of thing seriously fucks you up. It took me a long time to stop being afraid of being touched, and its still hard not to feel disgusting.

I have the same with the touching. Sometimes I wonder If this is a PTSD- and not an autism sympom, WTF.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

Yes.

 

[TheNEET]

afaik no
I feel sorry for you

 

[Akira]

I have the same with the touching. Sometimes I wonder If this is a PTSD- and not an autism sympom, WTF.

I have the same reaction with touching too. It makes me insanely uncomfortable and want to pull away. Fuck childhood trauma.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I'd love to see cucktears try to make fun of us over this thread tbh

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I'd love to see cucktears try to make fun of us over this thread tbh

It would be lifefuel for them. Its justice for you writing misogynist posts on an obscure forum in the internet over 10 years later.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

It would be lifefuel for them. Its justice for you writing misogynist posts on an obscure forum in the internet over 10 years later.

Tbh youre probably right.

 

[Akkadian]

Damn just be victim theory

 

[ElfCake]

Damn just be victim theory

TFW no female pedophiles hit on you.

 

[Swagwaffle]

cope with the rope

 

[Grotesque]

Ha, like anyone ever wanted to touch me.

 

[Mongolianwizard]

As I found out yesterday, my niece...

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Ha, like anyone ever wanted to touch me.

I was a cute kid I guess.

 

[Deleted member 60]

sorry to hear it bro.

when I was in elementary school some 8th graders randomly pulled my pants down and groped me when I was using a urinal. Didn't use a urinal for almost 20 years since then.

One of the guys was a lightskin Tyrone who eventually got expelled for assaulting another kid in the stall. I think he raped the boy tbh.