I'm convinced all (or most of) this "bluepill" BS from women is a trap, designed to weed out pussies and losers. It's the same for all this talk about women wanting a "sensitive" man.
If you cry over anything, or admit you went to therapy, or act like a traditional simp, she'll be like "yep, LOSER! And probably GAAYYAAAAYYY!!!" I've been there, many of us bear those scars.
I used to act like that loser prick in the movies who gets the girl by being virtuous, moral, and super-interested in her. Yeah... for all the youngsters, that's a trap. And after they reject you, they'll laugh about you to others.