Blackpill Validation is really fucking important to success. Confidence isn't just some small thing you can fake.

[Deleted member 23656]

You know why Chad is so confident? It's because he's always validated no matter what he does. Validation is very important. When you are validated you keep doing what you are doing because of the positive response you get. Likewise when the response is negative, you tend to stop what you are doing.

That's why Chad can act like a prick and still keep doing it because he still gets a positive response. You try doing it and see if people will give you the same response.

However validation isn't just a Chad thing, it's very important for determining whether you will be a winner or loser.

What do people who go to places like Harvard, Oxbridge, IIT etc have over normies apart from being fucking smart?

It's the fact they are confident because they have been validated. People tell them you are set on the path of success, you can be a winner. You are made to be someone important

When you have that confidence, you can take bigger risks like starting your own firm. You have the confidence to go to a meeting with C level executives as a fresh graduate who just entered McKinsey or Goldman Sachs. You have the confidence to tell these big shots your proposal strategy.

Can I imagine anyone here at 22 fresh out of college telling some CEO what his next strategy should be for his company? Of course not! None of you believe you can do it and even if you did, no one would have confidence to trust you with it.

So fuck anyone who talks confidence as some tiny thing you fake. Real confidence is built from a lifetime of validation!

 

[Personalityinkwell]

"Fake it until you make it",

or until the bullying gets to be too much and you give up

 

[Atavistic Autist]

Depression is literally caused by low social status, and the lack of confidence that comes with it is an evolved mechanism to prevent yourself from being foolhardy (acting beyond your means) and dying in the process.

Whenever self-help gurus and "confidence-men" (literally) talk about "just be confident," they are merely projecting their own psychopathy onto you:

 

[Anonymous MG]

I feel like when people demean things like validation as a small and insignificant thing it's a real disservice to those in low social positions who lack confidence as you said, positive reinforcement is even recognized as important to the development of a healthy child for fuck's sake.

Not many can trick themselves into believing self-confidence, it's irregular and not the way confidence is supposed to function, endless validation is a measure Biology put in to secure the mental state and attitude of the fittest to breed among humans. If you need "self-confidence" to feel good about yourself, it's already over for you pewpew.

 

[Deleted member 20064]

"Just be confident, bro"
-The guy that took the virginity of 5 different girls in this teen years

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

using money negates validation, as not man is validated oas person or sex object, but just used as tool

 

[Ap0calypse]

girls fucking hate it when unattractive guys are confident. IT is beyond schizophrenic, they actually think lying about how the world works, actually changes how the world works.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I agree

 

[SMPcel]

Looks is all that matters

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Looks is all that matters

 

[Bakura806]

Confidence comes from your genes, win the genetic lottery and everyone will treat you like royalty
The only reason CHAD can behave in the barbaric manner he does is because he knows people will like him no matter what, due to his good looks.

 

[guaucel]

confidence = (((opium of the people)))

 

[Neggr]

"Fake it until you make it",

or until the bullying gets to be too much and you give up

the latter usually happens, if you see how rigged the capitalist society and dating market is you just dont wanna participate anymore unless your genetics give you a mental sanity of a terra chad

 

[Yerberito]

I agree

Same