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Unpopular opinion: porn makes the pain of being an incel 10x worse

Jackdenswell

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Think about it. You literally lay your eyes on the thing you want the most ever, and you can't get even one percent of the pleasure of the people in the video. You make yourself horny and aware of whay you're missing out on, it's literally like putting yourself in hell and glancing at the people in heaven through a small window. Watching porn as a normie sex haver= you relive sex experiences and you think people enjoying sex is a good thing, you don't envy then.
Watching porn as an incel: you make yourself horny and lonely and aware of the bliss normies experience on a daily basis and see they live in a whole different dimension rather than running away from those painful thoughts. How can an incel ever cope with seeing people actually fuck while he only gets his right hand? Protip: he can't. Porn is pain.
 
Tho fapping is even worse(it makes u depressed, rots your brain wastes time energy its not productivity its not carpe diem. I remember once on sasu how sub incels whined when i called out thm for being a fapper since its cause of such losers why females get more power and irony is these guys wonder why they depressed lol or another one with some sub incel on reddit who called me the loner one cause i called out the sissies who against NoFap). Its beta crap, like religions or sayings how the past of the it is irrelevant (esp for serious rl)!

And i always wonder how is self humiliation pleasurable? I guess some males are into self degradation, same goes for males who simp for non v females. Its like dafuq dude. Btw NoFap day 2 going strong!
 
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Tho fapping is even worse(it makes u depressed, rots your brain wastes time energy its not productivity its not carpe diem. I remember once on sasu how sub incels whined when i called out thm for being a fapper since its cause of such losers why females get more power and irony is these guys wonder why they depressed lol or another one with some sub incel on reddit who called me the loner one cause i called out the sissies who against NoFap). Its beta crap, like religions or sayings how the past of the it is irrelevant (esp for serious rl)!

And i always wonder how is self humiliation pleasurable? I guess some males are into self degradation, same goes for males who simp for non v females. Its like dafuq dude. Btw NoFap day 2 going strong!
You got that right with the self humiliation. It's also the flooding of prolactin and estrogen combined with the humiliation of knowing you abused yourself like you would abuse a whore or a homosexual. Masturbation is a very sad and graphic sight, grim. Think about it. You're young, strongest and fullest of energy you will ever be, and you choose numbness, sedation and fatigue just for a few minutes of bliss. Life is a test and if you coom and drink, you failed it.
 
You got that right with the self humiliation. It's also the flooding of prolactin and estrogen combined with the humiliation of knowing you abused yourself like you would abuse a whore or a homosexual. Masturbation is a very sad and graphic sight, grim. Think about it. You're young, strongest and fullest of energy you will ever be, and you choose numbness, sedation and fatigue just for a few minutes of bliss. Life is a test and if you coom and drink, you failed it.
Thats why NoFap is a lifestyle (currently taking some meds i bought in the drug stor they said they supposed to calm me down and 2 too its going good no erections no desire since i had periods when i would relapse daily smts more than once a day it sucked).
 
jerking off to porn is like sitting in a virtual cuckchair
 
Not for me, you must be weak minded if just some porn brings you down that much. Maybe you're a teen that's new to the blackpill, but I'm used to it all.
 
Not for me, you must be weak minded if just some porn brings you down that much. Maybe you're a teen that's new to the blackpill, but I'm used to it all.
Nah this pain only hit me after I hit 21 because I tried to self insert/ imagine myself fucking and it broke my heart that I am still a virgin and will always be a virgin. The sight of porn or imagining women fucking breaks my heart ever since. And my point is that many people think exactly like me and they dont know the escape: stop fucking teasing yourself. Horniness is not a pleasant feeling. It's a strong ass fucking itch
 
jerking off to porn is like sitting in a virtual cuckchair
Aint that the truth. This is how I see it: if you got nothing to do with women and sex, you need to act according to nature. Stop trying to cling onto something not in your lane. There's something different in your nature, you weren't made to breed. If you believe even in a slight objective truth you believe and understand this. I feel that incels who dont go full celibate are like someone drowining trying very hard to cling onto the boat but never reaching it. Maybe it's better to just float toward celibate island at least you wont be drowning
 
I enjoy it how can i relive my biological desire without porn?
 
Watching porn is a cuckold experience. that's how your brain reacts to it.You won't satisfy yourself this way and all you can achieve is to become an even bigger cuckold or worse.
 
I enjoy it how can i relive my biological desire without porn?

Watching porn is a cuckold experience. that's how your brain reacts to it.You won't satisfy yourself this way and all you can achieve is to become an even bigger cuckold or worse.
Yeah I don't doubt that it's hot and everything else, but I doubt that as a grown man it's okay to please yourself like that. I think after a certain age it's cringe. Sure it makes sense when you're a teenager, in fact when I nofapped when I was 15/16/17 I came prematurely even in the classroom tens of times, or on the street even just from seeing big female ass in tight pants. But being a grown man enjoying 2 people fucking while you get NOTHING in real life, just loneliness, it's sad and in my opinion extremely against nature. I think the body accepts wether you're an incel or not once you turn 20, and if you stop looking at/after women, you stop being attracted to them and the sex drive dies. I experienced this and so did many more. But you need the balls/courage to stop the porn and masturbation. Your body accepts its incel fate and shuts down the sex drive.
 
Think about it. You literally lay your eyes on the thing you want the most ever
That also happens every summer when 90% of the female population starts walking around with in outfits that expose half of their tits and most of their body, and it also happens in the rest of the year whenever I see a good-looking girl. I'm going to be laying eyes on what I want the most anyway, so why not use porn videos to get off?

I'll be honest, I genuinely struggle to see how the anti-porn and NoFap stuff isn't a psy-op by tradcons and feminists who hate the thought of ugly men even having sexual feelings, which vulnerable incels fall into because their internalized misandry has convinced them that their sexual urges are evil, that feeling sexual pleasure is evil, and that by not doing said "evil thing" their lives will become better. Every single guy I know IRL who does NoFap seriously is a sexhaver. For them, it doesn't matter, they just have their girlfriends and Tinder hook-ups to cum into, but as an incel, you are completely cucking yourself with that shit, since you are either making feminists happy by turning yourself into the asexual eunuch they want ugly men to be, or resigning to only have sex with prostitutes, and thus paying a woman what she would give to better-looking men for free.

Maybe some people's lives genuinely get better doing that, but I could never do that myself.

Masturbation is a very sad and graphic sight, grim. Think about it. You're young, strongest and fullest of energy you will ever be, and you choose numbness, sedation and fatigue just for a few minutes of bliss. Life is a test and if you coom and drink, you failed it.
Yeah, that's another thing, and now that I think about it, this type of stuff is a pretty strong hint of how much anti-porn stuff is spread and made up by feminists. "Numbness, sedation and fatigue" are something I've never experienced after porn. Like, genuinely, and I don't know where that stuff is coming from. Whenever I'm done with that, I just go back to doing what I was doing before and feel exactly the same as I've done then. Same with the "you'll get desentized to it and need to find worse and worse stuff," shit. Literally the exact same stuff that turned me on a decade ago would turn me on if I bothered to find it today.

However, the "numbness and sadness" following male masturbation does make sense, if it was something thought up by a woman. Male and female bodies differ when it comes to orgasm mainly in the fact that men need to rest after orgasming and before they can continue having sex and regain an erection after orgasm, while women don't have that problem and can just continue right away, if with more sensitive pussies than before:feelshaha:. For example, I've seen a couple of discussions online where women complained of how quickly their boyfriends cum after they start sex by giving them BJs, and people there openly talked about it being because they don't fully grasp that, while them being eaten out would just make them more horny and ready for sex, a guy getting a BJ is something that shortens the sex because the guy will need time to recover after climaxing.

So, if you are a woman who is disgusted by the thought of ugly men being sexual in any way whatsoever, and you don't want them to even masturbate, and you hear that men experience a bigger "down" than women after climaxing, it would be quite easy for you, who has never experienced a male orgasm yourself, to start spreading the idea that men feel hollow, empty, and sad after it, not understanding that it applies solely to needing time to recover sexually and not because you are depressed or drained in any other way. The best part is, it doesn't even need to be a malicious misinterpretation, but just a genuine misunderstanding of how men function.
 
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Nah this pain only hit me after I hit 21 because I tried to self insert/ imagine myself fucking and it broke my heart that I am still a virgin and will always be a virgin. The sight of porn or imagining women fucking breaks my heart ever since. And my point is that many people think exactly like me and they dont know the escape: stop fucking teasing yourself. Horniness is not a pleasant feeling. It's a strong ass fucking itch
Ic, well, it may only help a bit but you can just have thought wanks, or if you do watch porn, look at hentai, or other animated stuff instead of real people.
 
Nofap year 13. I had an addiction (doing it about 4-5x/day) and every time I relapsed, I'd eventually end up progressively going from once every few days back to the usual frequency. I spent about 2-3 years trying to kick the habit, furthest I'd gone was about 2 months before I finally succeeded. After year 2, I barely feel anything if I see a tit on a mainstream film, although I rarely watch any new movies these days. Golden Age cinema mogs hard.
 
I just want to coom I don't care about the people in it
 
To do that you have to care about feeling like a cuck over people you aren’t even involved with having sex, which is a normie way of thinking.

And it’s impossible to avoid that feeling anyway. Someone else is fucking your oneitis. Every day you see and interact with girls who’ll fuck other guys over you. Etc etc. Let alone PDAs or interracial couples (they deliberately try to provoke incels with PDAs).

As long as you’re an incel you’ll always be ‘cucked’ in a sense because you’re missing out on something every other man gets to have
 
As long as you’re an incel you’ll always be ‘cucked’ in a sense because you’re missing out on something every other man gets to have
it feels like life is cucked
 
it feels like life is cucked
I think getting cucked is an inevitability of manhood. Even the most assertive Chad can end up with an adulterous woman. Even the strongest alpha male can get beaten up by a gang of curries and have his daughter raped bloody in front of him
 
I think getting cucked is an inevitability of manhood. Even the most assertive Chad can end up with an adulterous woman. Even the strongest alpha male can get beaten up by a gang of curries and have his daughter raped bloody in front of him
I fucking hate when people talk in hypotheticals. I know Jon Jones can beat my ass, that doesnt make it a real fact that he kicked my ass. I know I can get fucked up or my wife can get fucked by another man, that doesnt make it automatically true. A good thing about growing up is getting over how shitty reality is by realising most of the "shit" comes from our imagination
 
I fucking hate when people talk in hypotheticals. I know Jon Jones can beat my ass, that doesnt make it a real fact that he kicked my ass. I know I can get fucked up or my wife can get fucked by another man, that doesnt make it automatically true. A good thing about growing up is getting over how shitty reality is by realising most of the "shit" comes from our imagination
TBH I am way too paranoid and daydream addicted
 
TBH I am way too paranoid and daydream addicted
Unironically read the Kybalion or the Bible. I was like you aswell. Everything is a thought. Nothing matters. Yet there's still order behind things.
 
I don't watch professional porn anymore. I just masturbate to videos of amateur girls stripping on my phone. I like jerk off instruction, cumming to the girls face.
 
Is this unpopular? I absolutely refuse to watch real porn. Softcore, hentai, daydream, ai. The mog is too brutal. The only other form of porn that made me want to rope was eroges
 
you overthink the consequences of fapping, and not the chemical pleasure you get from it

This is why its important to listen to country music to increase ignorance
 
you overthink the consequences of fapping, and not the chemical pleasure you get from it

This is why its important to listen to country music to increase ignorance
Well the consequences are real, the fatigue and the prolactin depression are not even arguable anymore everyone knows the price it's just that it feels too good to care, people still drink even if it gets them hungover. What just crossed my mind is how big of hypocrites we incels are. We hate sluts and the concept of a woman being a whore and we indulge in porn like there's no tomorrow. I hope people are aware if there were no sluts there'd be no porn. Except for the dark option of them being human trafficked.
 
Well the consequences are real, the fatigue and the prolactin depression are not even arguable anymore everyone knows the price it's just that it feels too good to care, people still drink even if it gets them hungover. What just crossed my mind is how big of hypocrites we incels are. We hate sluts and the concept of a woman being a whore and we indulge in porn like there's no tomorrow. I hope people are aware if there were no sluts there'd be no porn. Except for the dark option of them being human trafficked.
we have AI and hentai though
 
This is how I see it: if you got nothing to do with women and sex, you need to act according to nature. Stop trying to cling onto something not in your lane. There's something different in your nature, you weren't made to breed.
Interesting perspective. I will be trying a longer no fap to try to fight depression.
 

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