Serious University or job - which is better?

[Curious0]

I always wanted to go to University since I would need this academic degree to attain my dream career. It would take me at least six years. Six years without any income. Six years of having to stay ugly.
On the one hand, I would have achieved my goal and the job would fulfill me. On the other hand, I cannot feel confident in my skin during these years and I don't know if I could stay disciplined and motivated if I had to look into the mirror every morning with the result of me hating myself. If I got a job, even a low status and low paying one, I could afford surgeries in my early twenties. I especially aim for a leg lengthening surgery, which is very expensive.

If I went the academic way, I would only be able to afford surgeries in my early thirties, where life is pretty much over anyways. However, I would have a fulfilling job.
If I went the wageslave way, I would be able to afford a leg lengthening surgery in my mid twenties and I could feel confident in my skin, which would result in me being more driven to succeed in all other areas of life. Also, I could still start going to university at 29 or so anyways.

I really don't know what to do.
Which way did you choose to go and why?

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

NEETmax tbh

 

[Insomniac]

LDAR

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

University, the quicker you get the surgery the better.

 

[Curious0]

University, the quicker you get the surgery the better.

I would get the surgery earlier if I went wageslaving right after school.

 

[NorthAfricanIncel]

I always wanted to go to University since I would need this academic degree to attain my dream career. It would take me at least six years. Six years without any income. Six years of having to stay ugly.
On the one hand, I would have achieved my goal and the job would fulfill me. On the other hand, I cannot feel confident in my skin during these years and I don't know if I could stay disciplined and motivated if I had to look into the mirror every morning with the result of me hating myself. If I got a job, even a low status and low paying one, I could afford surgeries in my early twenties. I especially aim for a leg lengthening surgery, which is very expensive.

If I went the academic way, I would only be able to afford surgeries in my early thirties, where life is pretty much over anyways. However, I would have a fulfilling job.
If I went the wageslave way, I would be able to afford a leg lengthening surgery in my mid twenties and I could feel confident in my skin, which would result in me being more driven to succeed in all other areas of life. Also, I could still start going to university at 29 or so anyways.

I really don't know what to do.
Which way did you choose to go and why?

university is the only last chance you have to socialize with foids

 

[Agent_Coper]

NEETmax tbh

 

[Curious0]

university is the only last chance you have to socialize with foids

I wouldn't be able to socialize with them as a short baby faced guy. I will only be able to be confident with girls when I am tall.
Let's be real here: I didn't socialize with them for 12 years of school, how likely is it that I will do it now, especially since girls are more arrogant the older they are?

If I got accepted to uni, it would mean that I get to study my absolute dream subject and that I would get a decent job afterwards, which brings security and probably confidence due to increased status. This is definitely a plus. However, I would be so close to giving up everything and just decide to LDAR when I get mogged by other guys in university. I know myself too well.
It's all about looks. Imagine being a rich famous cardiologist. You leave your own office which brings in thousands of dollars per week. In front of your office there's a homeless guy. He stands up and is one head taller than you. You achieved so much in your life, but you will still feel inferior to a guy who has achieved nothing in his life just because of looks.

I feel like I can only focus on my goals once I feel comfortable in my own skin.

 

[NorthAfricanIncel]

I wouldn't be able to socialize with them as a short baby faced guy. I will only be able to be confident with girls when I am tall.
Let's be real here: I didn't socialize with them for 12 years of school, how likely is it that I will do it now, especially since girls are more arrogant the older they are?

If I got accepted to uni, it would mean that I get to study my absolute dream subject and that I would get a decent job afterwards, which brings security and probably confidence due to increased status. This is definitely a plus. However, I would be so close to giving up everything and just decide to LDAR when I get mogged by other guys in university. I know myself too well.
It's all about looks. Imagine being a rich famous cardiologist. You leave your own office which brings in thousands of dollars per week. In front of your office there's a homeless guy. He stands up and is one head taller than you. You achieved so much in your life, but you will still feel inferior to a guy who has achieved nothing in his life just because of looks.

I feel like I can only focus on my goals once I feel comfortable in my own skin.

have you looked into limb lengthening surgeries ? only prob is they're super expensive. If your face is ok despite being baby-looking then a boost in heigth could help you. there is still a feint ligth for you

 

[Eternaldarkness]

University.

 

[Insalsa]

Uni

 

[SupremeG]

It depends on your age. If you're already above 25, it's over. The surgery might be useless in your 30s and you cannot win your youth back after Uni.

 

[Curious0]

have you looked into limb lengthening surgeries ? only prob is they're super expensive. If your face is ok despite being baby-looking then a boost in heigth could help you. there is still a feint ligth for you

Yes I have. I want to get one, it's basically the IDEAL surgery for me. The only problem are my short legs (when it comes to my lack of confidence) I obviously have other flaws but they do not bother me. Only height makes me depressed. If I don't get accepted to University, I will get a job anyways and save as much as I can to be able to afford the surgery.

It depends on your age. If you're already above 25, it's over. The surgery might be useless in your 30s and you cannot win your youth back after Uni.

No, I'll be 19 when I get out of school in June 2019.

 

[starystulejarz]

NEETmax tbh

 

[Zielony4]

Go to uni and get a job and intern positions through that. Sorry if you said it and I missed but what major were you going to study in school?

 

[Rice Cel]

Join the stemcel club boyo

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Limb lengthening is way too risky and not worth it. Just go to university and find yourself a gold-digger.

 

[StaroRavager]

Death

 

[Gorecel]

go ER

 

[Blacktarpill]

University, the quicker you get the surgery the better.

 

[Villain]

Limb lengthening is way too risky and not worth it. Just go to university and find yourself a gold-digger.

or escorts.. LL can make u paralyze + a lot of infections

 

[Indari]

fuck uni become an electrician

 

[Curious0]

Go to uni and get a job and intern positions through that. Sorry if you said it and I missed but what major were you going to study in school?

The education system is different here so I'm not really going for a major in that sense? I'm not familiar with the american education system to be honest. I will directly apply to an university to study medicine. It's very unlikely that they will accept me though.

fuck uni become an electrician

Not a bad idea actually. It would be a good opportunity to have a rather decent income at an early age right out of school, which in turn would enable me to save a lot of money that I'd really need for plastic surgeries. I wish I was interested in that, but unfortunately the topics an electrician has to deal with absolutely repulse and bore me.

 

[Cuyen]

Jews did it

 

[Captain Cuck]

I just went to uni and got my masters in chemical engineering. Now I'm working for minimum wage at a warehouse. Go to uni at your own risk, you could easily end up like me.

 

[grayjedi90]

I always wanted to go to University since I would need this academic degree to attain my dream career. It would take me at least six years. Six years without any income. Six years of having to stay ugly.
On the one hand, I would have achieved my goal and the job would fulfill me. On the other hand, I cannot feel confident in my skin during these years and I don't know if I could stay disciplined and motivated if I had to look into the mirror every morning with the result of me hating myself. If I got a job, even a low status and low paying one, I could afford surgeries in my early twenties. I especially aim for a leg lengthening surgery, which is very expensive.

If I went the academic way, I would only be able to afford surgeries in my early thirties, where life is pretty much over anyways. However, I would have a fulfilling job.
If I went the wageslave way, I would be able to afford a leg lengthening surgery in my mid twenties and I could feel confident in my skin, which would result in me being more driven to succeed in all other areas of life. Also, I could still start going to university at 29 or so anyways.

I really don't know what to do.
Which way did you choose to go and why?

Depends on how smart or intelligent you are. If you are intelligent enough go study stem or some other subjects that will get you a high paying career. Otherwise go into trades and you will be able to get a decent job.

 

[Indari]

Not a bad idea actually. It would be a good opportunity to have a rather decent income at an early age right out of school, which in turn would enable me to save a lot of money that I'd really need for plastic surgeries. I wish I was interested in that, but unfortunately the topics an electrician has to deal with absolutely repulse and bore me.

there's nothing better. every job that makes good money is boring unless you're talented and can be some kind of artist

 

[Curious0]

Limb lengthening is way too risky and not worth it. Just go to university and find yourself a gold-digger.

or escorts.. LL can make u paralyze + a lot of infections

My aspiration is to attain a high self-worth, to feel dominant, to feel like a man. No amount of money and sex that I paid for will help me achieve that. The advantages of getting the surgery outweigh the disadvantages by a large margin.
My biggest issue is hating my appearance. Even if the hypergamous nature of women vanished tomorrow, which miraculously would make women attracted to every incel, I would not be content. I would not be content, because I hate the reflection I see in the mirror. I hate being physically inferior to other men due to my height.
I'd obviously rather be a tall virgin Chad than a short guy that slayed girls every day.

 

[Indari]

I just went to uni and got my masters in chemical engineering. Now I'm working for minimum wage at a warehouse. Go to uni at your own risk, you could easily end up like me.

100% wouldve happened to me in a parallel universe where i managed to get through it. uni is for normies

 

[nekomimimodo]

I work and go to uni at the same time, you can do that too if you get a part time job, but be aware that it will consume a lot of your time and will probably take more time to graduate since you won't have as much free time to focus on your studies. I'm personally a year behind.
If you want to choose only one then you have to evalute the pros and cons
University pros: Probably last time you'll have to truly socialize and try to get girls. If you do well it can land you a good job.
cons: if you're ugly and bad in social situations you might end completly isolated, which is pure suifuel especially if you live in a dorm and everyone is out there partying and getting laid but you.
Work pro: money. As an incel is incredibly easy to save, if you plan to surgerymaxx then if you don't waste you might even save up in less than a year.
It also gives you a routine and an excuse to leave the house.
Work cons: depending on your job it can leave you drained and in 90% of cases socializing will be mandatory so you'll have to pray that your co-workers won't be assholes.

 

[Curious0]

Depends on how smart or intelligent you are. If you are intelligent enough go study stem or some other subjects that will get you a high paying career. Otherwise go into trades and you will be able to get a decent job.

The only subject that I would want to study is medicine. I always said to myself that if the plan doesn't work out as planned, I'll just get a job and collect Wartesemester until I am allowed to study.

there's nothing better. every job that makes good money is boring unless you're talented and can be some kind of artist

I'll actually have a look at that since I have to apply for jobs as soon as possible for my backup plan.

 

[Indari]

I'll actually have a look at that since I have to apply for jobs as soon as possible for my backup plan.

i got a job with no effort

 

[Deleted member 14577]

The chadest move you can pull is starting your business but that's risky. If you're not sure about uni, try a cheap one and see if you like it. Maybe you even ascend there.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

My aspiration is to attain a high self-worth, to feel dominant, to feel like a man. No amount of money and sex that I paid for will help me achieve that. The advantages of getting the surgery outweigh the disadvantages by a large margin.
My biggest issue is hating my appearance. Even if the hypergamous nature of women vanished tomorrow, which miraculously would make women attracted to every incel, I would not be content. I would not be content, because I hate the reflection I see in the mirror. I hate being physically inferior to other men due to my height.
I'd obviously rather be a tall virgin Chad than a short guy that slayed girls every day.

If you would rather be a virgin Chad than a slayer then why would you identify as incel? The whole point of being incel is being too ugly for women, not because we want to be Chad with all the validation that comes with it.

 

[Curious0]

If you would rather be a virgin Chad than a slayer then why would you identify as incel? The whole point of being incel is being too ugly for women, not because we want to be Chad with all the validation that comes with it.

No, it's about being too ugly for society in general which obviously includes women because they are the most superficial.
Why does inceldom bother you if you can just pay a girl 10€ and fuck her. It's not all about sex, that's why. It's actually about validation and sex is only part of it.
Weighing out whether the advantages of being a virgin chad are superior to thr advantages of actually fucking a girl, I definitely come to the conclusion that being the virgin Chad is preferrable since he gets to experience validation and satisfaction in higher quantities. Hours of validation are better than minutes of pleasure.
This however is only a completely logical, understandable conclusion.
It does not mean that being a virgin doesn't bother me at all.

i got a job with no effort

I just googled it and apparently it is a very low paying job actually.
I also need to consider that I do not really want to move away for a job as that would mean that half my income would be wasted for rent.
There aren't many jobs in my area except of very low paying jobs such as cashier etc.

 

[Indari]

I just googled it and apparently it is a very low paying job actually.
I also need to consider that I do not really want to move away for a job as that would mean that half my income would be wasted for rent.
There aren't many jobs in my area except of very low paying jobs such as cashier etc.

low paying at the start vs uni negative paying. there isn't an ibew in your area?

 

[Grotesque]

NEETmax tbh

 

[TheGoodGuy]

 

[fOreVER]

Brother, you are in a difficult situation and here’s the mother of all solution: join the fight and establish shariah law across the globe and you will forget all these ramus NCT maxilla speech and penetrate your halal 9 yesr old waifu daily

 

[K.Y.Vocel]

Schooling is an investment on yourself so if you believe you can study hard and make connections while in school go for it, BUT do not fucking go just to go unless it's free then go and waste the governments money, BUT i suggest job maxxing to teach you ethics of working hard and earning money is the most amazing feeling ever, you can do so much more with it , sex dolls, traveling , cars , etc.