highinhibition
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You were not prepared enough:
It is obvious that if you go to a prostitute as an impotent man only with the reasons to only lose it or you only do it because you see it as some kind of chore it wont give you what you hoped for.
Sticking your dick in a wet pussy could give you brain-changing pleasure that is also crucial for the development of your brain, maybe you hoped that if you visit prostitutes your life will change: it will make you more NT, it will aleviate your depression and sadness, it will calm you down etc. All those things will happen but only if you are prepared i.e. arroused and you crave pussy like a normal man.
Having these unrealistic standards about JB prime virgin pussies is an effect of porn consumption (and declining libido as you age).
NoFap Timeline
I also think that you should always make yourself clear that nothing will change in regards to your attractiveness, you will be as attractive to foids as you are right now, it does not matter how much you want them or how you interact with them, the ammount of matches you will get on dating apps will be the same and looks are the most important thing. Dont do nofap with the expectation that someone would be interested in you, try to avoid women as much as possible in real life because the negative encounters will only stress you unnecessarily.
Also nofap wont change your brain so that you become more funcional, this brain change will only happen if you had satisfying sex
Therefore continue to read blackpill posts here and dont become delusional
personal experience:
dont cum if you cant - use all the time you bought - it is her job to make you cum and altough she wants you out of the room she can not kick you out untill you finished or your time is out (bcuz otherwise you can go to the owner of the establishment/agency and protest- and if there is no owner you can just force her) -
that was my mistake I had bad sex with a prostitute with an unerrected penis: she gave a blowjob for 3 minutes - and then proceeded to (more like tried to) fuck me for 5 minutes more, bcuz my dick was not getting hard she started to jerk me off for 2 minutes which I interpretated as a sign of kicking me out - I then felt guilty opened a porn on my phone and finished myself in 2 minutes and left (altough I bought 30 minutes)-
so most of the time it is not the prostitute's fault that the experience was bad-
it is true that if she seems unenthusiastic that this could cause you too lose some of your arrousal - but only because you were conditioned by fapping to porn for 10,000 hours to put her arrousal above yours - and most of the times prostitutes dont care if a normie fucks them or if an incel fucks them (chad obv does not have to go to brothels)- its just a job for them - meaning everybody gets more or less same treatment
most of the time you are unhappy after the encounter because you felt guilty that you couldn t cum or because you acted like a faggot who couldnt get any pleasure out of a real woman and then blame the prostitute like I did, saying stuff like "I got scammed- she kicked me out"
You should go to as many prostitutes as you can and learn to connect sex with flesh and not with pixels and an unclean environment where you can be too private (i.e. to neglecting/gross with yourself)
Being in private with a woman and using her as your toilet to satisfy your needs is as basic as eating and shitting but like you learnt from your parents when you were a kid how to shit "go to a toilet,pull down pants, sit down, use toilet, flush, use paper,pull up pants, wash your hands" or how to eat "go to supermarket, prepare food, wash your hands, sit on a table, use cutlery, eat, wash your hands again, wash dishes", you also have to learn how to have sex like a normal person.
You dont go to the toilet if you dont have to shit, you dont shit on the street, you dont move around naked in your own house, you flush, you wash your hands - all of this has a reason
Some incels have problems to do basic things like eating or hygiene because of a lack of social conditioning and this is what makes living like a normal person also so hard.
The root of all of this is lack of sex :
But we have either lost or were never exposed to opportunites to condition ourselves naturally and thats why we have to do it artificially with nofap which is unpleasant without a doubt but not impossible and in the realms of one's own responsibility, ideally whenever you have urges you must go to prostitutes and fuck them, this is the pathetic thing you can get hard alone in your room and laptop bbut if a real woman is infront of you you cant hence repeat, fail and learn
Remember what the reward is:
Brain change, higher functionality, NT, no depression, unbelievable pleasure/orgasms
- You didn't crave real sex because you are addicted porn - No. 1 reason
- It could take anywhere from 20-30 weeks for NoFap to fix ED
- NoFap does not mean no Sex in fact the more sex the better
- Alternatively buy supplements to enhance your libido
It is obvious that if you go to a prostitute as an impotent man only with the reasons to only lose it or you only do it because you see it as some kind of chore it wont give you what you hoped for.
Sticking your dick in a wet pussy could give you brain-changing pleasure that is also crucial for the development of your brain, maybe you hoped that if you visit prostitutes your life will change: it will make you more NT, it will aleviate your depression and sadness, it will calm you down etc. All those things will happen but only if you are prepared i.e. arroused and you crave pussy like a normal man.
Having these unrealistic standards about JB prime virgin pussies is an effect of porn consumption (and declining libido as you age).
NoFap Timeline
- Right now you can get only hard if a 14 year old prime JB would be next to you acting like a 2D girl
- After 1 week you can get hard to 3D stacies irl, actually hard - not only arroused/agitated
- After 2 weeks you can get hard to Beckies
- After a month even a landwhale will cause you an errection
- After three months you will be able to fuck everything that has a hole, including overweight, middle aged roasties i.e. prostitutes
I also think that you should always make yourself clear that nothing will change in regards to your attractiveness, you will be as attractive to foids as you are right now, it does not matter how much you want them or how you interact with them, the ammount of matches you will get on dating apps will be the same and looks are the most important thing. Dont do nofap with the expectation that someone would be interested in you, try to avoid women as much as possible in real life because the negative encounters will only stress you unnecessarily.
Also nofap wont change your brain so that you become more funcional, this brain change will only happen if you had satisfying sex
Therefore continue to read blackpill posts here and dont become delusional
personal experience:
dont cum if you cant - use all the time you bought - it is her job to make you cum and altough she wants you out of the room she can not kick you out untill you finished or your time is out (bcuz otherwise you can go to the owner of the establishment/agency and protest- and if there is no owner you can just force her) -
that was my mistake I had bad sex with a prostitute with an unerrected penis: she gave a blowjob for 3 minutes - and then proceeded to (more like tried to) fuck me for 5 minutes more, bcuz my dick was not getting hard she started to jerk me off for 2 minutes which I interpretated as a sign of kicking me out - I then felt guilty opened a porn on my phone and finished myself in 2 minutes and left (altough I bought 30 minutes)-
so most of the time it is not the prostitute's fault that the experience was bad-
it is true that if she seems unenthusiastic that this could cause you too lose some of your arrousal - but only because you were conditioned by fapping to porn for 10,000 hours to put her arrousal above yours - and most of the times prostitutes dont care if a normie fucks them or if an incel fucks them (chad obv does not have to go to brothels)- its just a job for them - meaning everybody gets more or less same treatment
most of the time you are unhappy after the encounter because you felt guilty that you couldn t cum or because you acted like a faggot who couldnt get any pleasure out of a real woman and then blame the prostitute like I did, saying stuff like "I got scammed- she kicked me out"
You should go to as many prostitutes as you can and learn to connect sex with flesh and not with pixels and an unclean environment where you can be too private (i.e. to neglecting/gross with yourself)
Being in private with a woman and using her as your toilet to satisfy your needs is as basic as eating and shitting but like you learnt from your parents when you were a kid how to shit "go to a toilet,pull down pants, sit down, use toilet, flush, use paper,pull up pants, wash your hands" or how to eat "go to supermarket, prepare food, wash your hands, sit on a table, use cutlery, eat, wash your hands again, wash dishes", you also have to learn how to have sex like a normal person.
You dont go to the toilet if you dont have to shit, you dont shit on the street, you dont move around naked in your own house, you flush, you wash your hands - all of this has a reason
Some incels have problems to do basic things like eating or hygiene because of a lack of social conditioning and this is what makes living like a normal person also so hard.
The root of all of this is lack of sex :
But we have either lost or were never exposed to opportunites to condition ourselves naturally and thats why we have to do it artificially with nofap which is unpleasant without a doubt but not impossible and in the realms of one's own responsibility, ideally whenever you have urges you must go to prostitutes and fuck them, this is the pathetic thing you can get hard alone in your room and laptop bbut if a real woman is infront of you you cant hence repeat, fail and learn
Remember what the reward is:
Brain change, higher functionality, NT, no depression, unbelievable pleasure/orgasms
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