You're born as a neurotypical or you aren't. It's that simple.
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I'm neurotypical but I'm still awkward as shit because I missed out on some important life milestones I also got mercilessly bullied in school so there is also that 
That's why you dislike me :-(
Fair enough. I can find joy through videogames meanwhile.I'm neurotypical but I'm still awkward as shit because I missed out on some important life milestones I also got mercilessly bullied in school so there is also that
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The masses love the illusion of control they don't realize how little control they have.
Yup this is cope and you can tell based on immigrants, NT immigrants have no trouble fitting in even when they barely speak the language meanwhile naturalize english speaker like myself is relentless bullied, its all in the neurons its fucking ovER
And it's only going to get worse for younger generations. I don't really care about all this crap anymore.
I wish I could make a chargeback on my genetics (IQ and NTness wise).
Why do you think you are NT?
There is no such thing as "Social skills", you are either a chad (gigachad, ultrachad, godchad etc) or you are dead.
No idea. I'm just enjoying videogames (singleplayer mostly), that's all.
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It is learned behavior. That's what kindergarten, school, and society does. It all conditions you. If you can't be conditioned, then you probably have autism.
NT is life
You can learn social skills but it's like learning how to dress well. An ugly guy in a suit is still ugly.
How?
Doesn't matter nigger. You're learning the fastest way to ride a unicycle while chad is in a Ferrari.
You can learn social skills but not really social intelligence. Social skills would be skills like how to act around people, good etiquette, etc,. Social intelligence is the intelligence required to navigate social situations effectively. Social skills aren’t required to be charismatic, but social intelligence is.
Social intelligence can be improved (to some extent) but it requires a lot of practice. The main issue is that the required experience to gain social intelligence is exponential. Experience to gain social intelligence would be social situations, and the less social intelligence you have, the less people will want to include you in social situations (low experience gain, hard to level up). But people with high social intelligence will be included in a lot more social situations, which gives them a massive opportunity to hone their social intelligence (high level leads to high experience gain).
Social intelligence can be improved (to some extent) but it requires a lot of practice. The main issue is that the required experience to gain social intelligence is exponential. Experience to gain social intelligence would be social situations, and the less social intelligence you have, the less people will want to include you in social situations (low experience gain, hard to level up). But people with high social intelligence will be included in a lot more social situations, which gives them a massive opportunity to hone their social intelligence (high level leads to high experience gain).
Yeah if you have to "learn" social skills you already failed
social skills and social intelligence are cope
you're either normie or not
you're either normie or not
"social skills" is all about looks. Henry Cavill is fucking aspie but he's gl so therefore he has "social skills" and doesn't even register as an aspie to androphilic faggots normies (see: all) and toilets
I agree you can only go so far by larping or faking it once you're far out of your depth it'll be there for all to see.
Autists lack "mirror neurons" which are necessary to learn and practice social skills, which are basically cold-reading, emotional detachment and various kinds of deception.
NT people may or may not learn social skills through life, but they can, if they try. Most never learn and go through life without a clue on why they get scammed so often by coworkers, spouses, friends, telemarketers, etc.
For a sperg to say social skills don't exist is like a man born deaf saying musical skills don't exist.
Bro, social skills don't exist FOR US because our mirror neurons are too busy looking for patterns in nature to bother with normies and their inane shenanigans.
The damage that years of social isolation does to you cannot be undone either
Re-read the title: you can't truly "learn" them. I talk from experience. I've bought more than 5 books since my late teenage years; I have tried to socialize with strangers and other peers from my former high school, and I am still here after evaluating my social incompetence countless of times.
No, I do not consider myself a neurodivergent individual and that's pretty much why you are seemingly bothered by my thread. Some people find me "weird" (told by others)... I guess it's their own flawed perspective, but I'm not neurodivergent by any means.
Now, I'll be sincere with you: I do not find any meaning on having to try to socialize with people. I do not find the joy or the necessity of forming 'friendships'. It is (mainly) a mean for a relationship with the opposite gender and, ultimately, continuing my linage... that's how I see it and I guess everyone thinks the same about it.
Yes, I bought all of those books and I was bothered about it because my parents forced me to -- especially, during summer breaks.
My parents wanted me to fit in (classmates, etc): I didn't want to.
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If you were born deaf, you would read an entire bookshelf on musical theory and conclude that music is unlearnable, you're either born with hearing or deaf.
If you are neither sadistic nor masochistic you could read an entire bookshelf of shibari techniques and come to the conclusion that BDSM techniques are unlearnable since you derive no pleasure from practicing that shit.
Likewise, if you're schizoid (which I believe is likely) you derive no pleasure from the rituals of socializing, and interactions with normies are just a chore to you. That doesn't mean that social skills don't exist for other people... there are salesmen, diplomats, police interrogators, military leaders, politicians, businessmen etc. doing extraordinary feats of interpersonal communication every day.
Read:
Schizoid personality disorder - Wikipedia
The normie platitude that our inceldom is caused by a lack of "social skills" is also false. While social skills may help you socialize, if you learn those, the vast majority of normie-normie socialization doesn't involve the use of such skill. It's not like the teenagers who have girlfriends have completed a course in espionage, police interrogation techniques, business sales and international diplomacy in order to get a girlfriend. Actually very few normies study any social skills ever.
You don't need to be James Bond to get a gf
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I was diagnosed with ASD as a child. Schizoid personality disorder might be more likely.
It is likely. Check that out, it's good to know your own character sheet, y'know? It is helpful and useful knowledge.
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