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Blackpill Unattractive Men Not Viewed As ‘Dating Material,’ No Matter How Great Their Personality

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It is as I have always thought: personality means shit. I have been rejected by women all my life despite of being a good person. I have been also rejected by my extended family because of my looks. I have always been an outcast. There was a time in my life when I was an avid reader of self help books. I thought I was at fault for not being liked. So, I began to be more social and open to others but that led me nowhere. The rejections still kept coming. And I got quite a few backstabbings along the way. I am so broken and tired. I just want my eternal rest at this time. People like me weren't made for this world, maybe it is the way my brain has been wired. This crap isn't for me. I want out.
 
The ultimate blackpill has been given, nice. Isn't it then time to move on from women? I know about 20 studies now which confirm the black pill. What is next? We somehow need to start building purposes in our life. IT has been defeated, along with other enemies, now what? At this point its probably counter productive to bitch about women for the next 10 years, while a food-maxxer, it seems better to build something.

For me as an older cel im working towards becoming a local MMA champion. My looks will not stop me in this.

Same. Proud MSTOW.
 
I've known this for a long time but it's still brutal, like what am I still doing here :feelsrope:
 
I'm not unattractive. I'm downright deformed and strange-AF looking. I stand out whenever I'm outside. I look very special.
 
Agreed.

I'm a pilot since the age of 15, got into one of the best colleges in the country, now have a great job paying more than 80% of men my age. I read, exercise, cook, have different hobbies etc, but I guess I should listen to Stacy who stopped highschool to become a hairdresser and is already overweight at 20 and continue to "improve" myself whatever that may mean.
 
https://googleweblight.com/i?u=http...men-dating-material-study/&hl=pt-BR&geid=1032

It is as I have always thought: personality means shit. I have been rejected by women all my life despite of being a good person. I have been also rejected by my extended family because of my looks. I have always been an outcast. There was a time in my life when I was an avid reader of self help books. I thought I was at fault for not being liked. So, I began to be more social and open to others but that led me nowhere. The rejections still kept coming. And I got quite a few backstabbings along the way. I am so broken and tired. I just want my eternal rest at this time. People like me weren't made for this world, maybe it is the way my brain has been wired. This crap isn't for me. I want out.
High iq post
 
I am living proof that personality doesn't mater.
I have a great a personality. Women have told me that I have a great personality.
Most of my friend circle and girls.
So whats the problem
 
It's over, my friend. If you don't have looks you're worthless. Women will attempt to "fix" a good looking child rapist before even thinking about giving some incel a chance.
:cryfeels:
 
personality is nothing , your face is your personality
 
When people try to say the incels failure at getting lady’s is not because of their looks and because of their personality they don’t know what they’re talking about. What I like about being on an inceL forum is being able to talk to people who will understand the black pilled point of view most normies will not be able to understand the black pilled point of view because they’ve never suffered from how horrible it is.
 
personality means shit
Personality is important for BETA MALES.

Foids will as easily reject an Omega male (incel) as they will breed with Chad (alpha male).

When it comes to beta males, that is, 95% of the male population, having a "bad personality" (dark triad, thugs and criminals) or a "good personality" (subservient, generous, hardworking betabuxx pushovers) is a defining characteristic for sexual access.
 
If you aren't at least an 8 dating is basically impossible. You have to do so much to charm girls and they still aren't even attracted. FML im not even trying anymore
 
I think all of us know how you feel. I found something that made it worth living again. The rope was plan B of course. If you´re not about at least a 7 you can try as much as you want. Females will prefer sharing a chad before giving you a chance it´s fucking disgusting how so many woman like to date multiple men and then present it as being `free` or `modern and progressive`.
 
Blue Pill --> Red Pill --> Black Pill

First you're a bluepilled chump, you think that women just want personality, be a nice guy, get dogged on as a nice guy anyways, then you see some some Tate/Hamza Sigma Alpha Male shorts, you think women will like you if you're jacked and doing the meditation, push ups, cold approach, confidence, blablabla, so you become red pilled/self improovmax, you try to be productive and get in shape, then after a while, you get a good physique, you've meditated for a while, you look into The Male Advantage, the Unplugged Alpha, etc, all this stuff, then realize after a while "Oh shit, people still call me ugly, my face is still ugly, none of the stuff the red pillers preach is actually helping me get girls."

Realize the redpill was a scam (Not in a total sense, because it's good habits, I'm blackpilled but I still work out from time to time for example), but it's a scam in terms of women if you're sub5, because if your face is ugly, or you're short, it's not going to work out even with having a good personality or with a good physique.

I've accepted the black pill, because it's the evolution of the red pill, blue pill is completely retarded, red pill is a step above the blue pill, and probably could have worked in terms of attracting a woman if I was a normie, because a normie who works out and does good habits and works towards goals could attract a woman, but the red pill doesn't work for sub5's, because you could be productive, work hard, but if your genetics says no, your genetics say no.

So both blue pill and red pill are cope, it's neither personality or being "high value" that will attract a woman if you're a sub5.
 
Blue Pill --> Red Pill --> Black Pill

First you're a bluepilled chump, you think that women just want personality, be a nice guy, get dogged on as a nice guy anyways, then you see some some Tate/Hamza Sigma Alpha Male shorts, you think women will like you if you're jacked and doing the meditation, push ups, cold approach, confidence, blablabla, so you become red pilled/self improovmax, you try to be productive and get in shape, then after a while, you get a good physique, you've meditated for a while, you look into The Male Advantage, the Unplugged Alpha, etc, all this stuff, then realize after a while "Oh shit, people still call me ugly, my face is still ugly, none of the stuff the red pillers preach is actually helping me get girls."

Realize the redpill was a scam (Not in a total sense, because it's good habits, I'm blackpilled but I still work out from time to time for example), but it's a scam in terms of women if you're sub5, because if your face is ugly, or you're short, it's not going to work out even with having a good personality or with a good physique.

I've accepted the black pill, because it's the evolution of the red pill, blue pill is completely retarded, red pill is a step above the blue pill, and probably could have worked in terms of attracting a woman if I was a normie, because a normie who works out and does good habits and works towards goals could attract a woman, but the red pill doesn't work for sub5's, because you could be productive, work hard, but if your genetics says no, your genetics say no.

So both blue pill and red pill are cope, it's neither personality or being "high value" that will attract a woman if you're a sub5.
This is the most based post I have ever seen
 
People get personality confused with morality, when normies talk about your personality they mean how entertaining you are, not how good of a man you are. Normies can't seem to understand the difference, they think having a good personality means you are a moral man, maybe this is why so many women enter abusive relationships with charismatic thugs.

This is it! I did not understand this for a long time as for me good personality = moral.
 
I think all of us know how you feel. I found something that made it worth living again. The rope was plan B of course. If you´re not about at least a 7 you can try as much as you want. Females will prefer sharing a chad before giving you a chance it´s fucking disgusting how so many woman like to date multiple men and then present it as being `free` or `modern and progressive`.
What have you found in life?
 

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