
TheGrayWolf
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She doesn't tell me this explicitly, that sport should replace a gf. But she tries to tell me indirectly: she thinks if I do sports, that may be enough to make me happy. If I tell her this she tells me "it's one part".... that's just another expression for "sports should make you happy, and other things, but not a gf." ——— She's mad that I won't let myself be manipulated by her! 


I haven't had IRL friends since I was 13. After that age my social life was virtually non-existent.
Make no mistake. She'd be happy for me if I would have a gf. But she doesn't care that I will never have one. She tells me the following stuff bc she means well... bc she knows if I don't want a gf anymore (that's her goal: to manipulate me into thinking that), I'll be happy. Makes sense right? How can you be sad about something that you don't have and that you don't care about? But that's just a stupid thought... as if I can influence my needs and desires (wanting a gf, sex and love from that gf).
But these are NATURAL WANTS. She just think I should be happy without a gf. Any other person, she'd think differently!
- My mum says I should do more sports. She tells herself that should make me happy. She knows I'll never get a gf (I'm 26, she knows it never began, but doesn't directly admit this)
Basically my mom lies to herself that doing sports will be my life (without a gf). I've done sports in the past and told her I've "had it up here" to always do it alone, to which she responds "if I had better legs I could do it with you." (she has very bad legs)... she knows I want to do sport-activities with a foid, not her...
- It's funny how she tells herself "oh yeah, sports is what will make him happy, if he gets into it he'll forget the idea of wanting a gf."
- Basically she's angry that I can't just accept the fact that I'll never get a gf (suggested I should go make friends – again, her trying to make me cope bc I cannot get a gf)
- Tells me relationships are overrated, or "shit", and "you'll only have problems", etc.
I haven't had IRL friends since I was 13. After that age my social life was virtually non-existent.
Make no mistake. She'd be happy for me if I would have a gf. But she doesn't care that I will never have one. She tells me the following stuff bc she means well... bc she knows if I don't want a gf anymore (that's her goal: to manipulate me into thinking that), I'll be happy. Makes sense right? How can you be sad about something that you don't have and that you don't care about? But that's just a stupid thought... as if I can influence my needs and desires (wanting a gf, sex and love from that gf).
But these are NATURAL WANTS. She just think I should be happy without a gf. Any other person, she'd think differently!
- My mum says I should do more sports. She tells herself that should make me happy. She knows I'll never get a gf (I'm 26, she knows it never began, but doesn't directly admit this)
Basically my mom lies to herself that doing sports will be my life (without a gf). I've done sports in the past and told her I've "had it up here" to always do it alone, to which she responds "if I had better legs I could do it with you." (she has very bad legs)... she knows I want to do sport-activities with a foid, not her...
- It's funny how she tells herself "oh yeah, sports is what will make him happy, if he gets into it he'll forget the idea of wanting a gf."
- Basically she's angry that I can't just accept the fact that I'll never get a gf (suggested I should go make friends – again, her trying to make me cope bc I cannot get a gf)
- Tells me relationships are overrated, or "shit", and "you'll only have problems", etc.