These type of normies are trying to fool you.
They aren't being nice. They are trying to make you relax and be vulnerable to any attacks they will follow up with afterwards.
Does the following words below sound familiar to you?
When you met a supposed "nice normie" and after a few more social interactions with this normie you start to notice immediately the sudden change in the normie's attitude towards you. Now the normie starts to act hostile and cold. Maybe even starts to look at you weird and makes negative remarks towards you without a shred of empathy like this normie once pretended to show you.
You have to understand that normies don't work alone.
You see. Normies get bored from their easy going life so they tend to think of ideas together and one of them is trying to bully an ugly man. If the normie is sneaky just like these "nice normies" he will start to try to "befriend" and act pleasant all around to make you feel at ease. The best way to kill off that need to want to be validated and not falling into this trap is by cutting off everybody and to be cold to every single normie.
After the ugly incel gets fooled and opens up. Not only has the ugly incel showed his insecurities by talking about himself but also gave his trust which is only going to be broken sooner or later by the foul normies.
The normie will report back to his friends and gossip about the ugly incel.
Why do I know this? Because I saw it first hand throughout my life.
The solution to this is to destroy whatever naivety is left in you. For me I too so badly want to believe I can be accepted but it's obviously too good to be true to be validated by a normie who comes across as too nice.
You have to realise how dangerous this position is and that it's for your own self-protection.
Cut off every single person outside of the incel community. Be cold and do not trust anybody. No matter how "nice" they are you have to keep the horrible consequences in mind and never forget this. Brocels take note of this please. Don't make the same mistake.