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Trucel trait: you have nothing to say

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Normies can talk for HOURS about anything, with anyone. Put them in a blank white room with a deaf person and they’ll still find something to talk about. For us incels, there’s nothing to say. Even if you do talk, you use your brain power to find something to say, unlike normies who just do it automatically without thinking. Being NT is a blessing not everybody has.
 
They can't shut the fuck up sometimes.
 
True, when you have spent years just rotting alone, there's not much to talk about
 
thats why i act like The Driver

Gosling rayan gosling
 
I need a happy bubbly NT gf who knows how to deal with my sad autistic ass :feelsrope:
 
Well, I have plenty to say.
It's just that it's nothing normies care about or things that would make me look weird.

But talking to people is actually easy. Just ask questions and let them do the talking. You can basically never run out of questions because every answer gives opportunity for new questions. It's simple.
 
Normies can talk for HOURS about anything, with anyone. Put them in a blank white room with a deaf person and they’ll still find something to talk about. For us incels, there’s nothing to say. Even if you do talk, you use your brain power to find something to say, unlike normies who just do it automatically without thinking. Being NT is a blessing not everybody has.
there's always something to say
 
I'm a mute unless someone asks me something tbh.
 
I can't articulate my points clearly so tend to over explain like a retard.

Being less talkative is much better. Talking is exhausting af and you tend to come away wishing you didn't say anything
 
Yeah, I have witnessed it a lot of times. Whenever I talk to some normie, they give indolent replies, but when I see 2 normies talking to each other, they talk as if they will never get another chance lol.
 
Yeah, I have witnessed it a lot of times. Whenever I talk to some normie, they give indolent replies, but when I see 2 normies talking to each other, they talk as if they will never get another chance lol.
Yeah it always confused me how normies lose their ability to talk when they are talking to me
 
That's me right there, brocel. I live with my mom and never know what to say, in the past she got angry why I never say anything.

That's another reason why I can never get a gf. Apart from looks, height, and being non-NT, I'm boring and can't be funny, and I don't know what to say. Go figure!
 
I was at a wedding yesterday, and everyone were having fun chatting etc. While i was sitting there completely wordless
 
I was at a wedding yesterday, and everyone were having fun chatting etc. While i was sitting there completely wordless
i fucking hate weddings. they the most cucked thing to go to if you are an incel

JFL watching some chad settle down and starting his family :feelskek: rather LDAR at home

it's over
 
Normies can talk for HOURS about anything, with anyone. Put them in a blank white room with a deaf person and they’ll still find something to talk about. For us incels, there’s nothing to say. Even if you do talk, you use your brain power to find something to say, unlike normies who just do it automatically without thinking. Being NT is a blessing not everybody has.

I never got how NT people just talk about random subjects and find it normal, but the moment an Autist says anything it is perceived as weird.
 
Theyre seeing their friends. Coworkers that you see every day for years dont talk for hours. I can probably talk nonstop for one hour if I see my friend after like a month. Lot can happen in a month, not necessarily in your life but around the globe. I'm in trade school at the moment and even after weekends I dont talk much since we just do our assignments, people ask me "how did you do that?" When asking for help but thats not conversation.

I think op you just happened to hear some normies talk that havent met in a while. Adult normies dont hang out every day.
 
Normies also have lots of boring stories to tell while I have none
 
Normies can talk for HOURS about anything, with anyone. Put them in a blank white room with a deaf person and they’ll still find something to talk about. For us incels, there’s nothing to say. Even if you do talk, you use your brain power to find something to say, unlike normies who just do it automatically without thinking. Being NT is a blessing not everybody has.

I relate 100% to every word of this.
 
I dont think this is a truecel trait. I speak almost nothing at work since My coworkers arent based and I dont Care about normie shit. Theres just no common ground
 
They can't shut the fuck up sometimes.
I'm always amazed how there is never dead air in a fucking eating establishment, how do they eat & talk? My god, so much fucking bullshit coming outta their mouths.
 
That’s why I hate normies and find them annoying af, kek
 
saying nothing is worse
"are you okay"? - :soy:
"why dont you talk"? -:foidSoy:
"youre kinda weird bro you dont talk much" -:chad:

my family does this too
im just chilling and dont feel like talking
you guys are doing the same really so why are you fucking singling me out? :feelsree:
 
I’ve thought about this a few times before.
I’ve overheard normies talk for what seemed like as you’ve described “hours.”
They talk about some of the most mundane nonsense . Yet , they are engaged and attentive to each other .

I’ve thought of the reasons on why is it , that I have nothing to say . The points that come to mind is firstly , knowing that it’s useless to try . Our minds have become to used to such negative feedbacks from normies that we start to avoid that pain by not talking and trying to interact with them . Anyways it’s not like they want to talk to us and be nice .

Another is how we’re so burnt out . Imagine having to deal with the overbearing anxiety of being an incel in this world that hates the likes of us .
We only have so much energy and you just end up not having to motivation to bother attempting anything social .

At least that’s what I’ve observed in my life so far .

All I can say is I’m grateful for this forum being an emotional outlet . I have none in the real world . No one wants me around them even when I try my best to be polite and kind and even mindful of coming across as warm . Only to be rejected by foids and normie soyboys not wanting to associate with me at all . Even subhumans talk within themselves yet give me death stares and looks that could kill all the time and excluding me from anything social as a form of bullying .

All the best brocel .
If you've missed out on milestones you can't relate to certain things that most can, then you've got the fake it 'till you make it mob. Normies put the act of interaction first & the subject second; the goal is not the topic but charging up through interaction therefore they avoid sensitive or niche topics as it can lead to conflict or the conversation stalling so they choose safe or the most mainstream shit to keep the car rolling so to speak.

If you're ugly, express actual opinions, talk about stuff that requires time to think on, wish to stay on one thing in depth or take your time to choose your words then they don't want none.

They love to talk about whatever is currently trending, humble brags about stuff like they achieved something yet all they did was buy a ticket, find out information about you to see who mogs who on the social status ladder & piach information to see if there's anything they can benefit from.

If you're autistic then talking in a group is a fucking nightmare, you can't read when there's going to be a gap to get in or take too long to think about what to say so they've moved on to some new bs, they don't wanna hear about something for more than 2 minutes, you get accused of being quiet yet no one asks you anything or if you do start talking they just talk over you.
 
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depends, i sometimes have a lot to talk and say when subject matter is computers
 
I never got how NT people just talk about random subjects and find it normal, but the moment an Autist says anything it is perceived as weird.
I've tried emulating something I saw that was received positively yet when I did it the reactions are completely different. Looks & non NT body/facial expression/interpretation are the issue I'd say. Read somewhere that NT's communication is 70 or 80% non verbal which is confusing to I.
 
True, I can’t even make threads cuz idk what to say
 
I feel retarded with words, they feel foreign to me. I also had a language delay and have always been withdrawn and quiet. Even when someone asks me something about a topic I know a lot about, I struggle to come up with words. Unless I make a conscious effort I tend to reply yes no or I don't know to people, I've become better at being more verbose over the years but it's still a struggle especially when I'm not mentally prepared for a conversation.

Yeah, I have witnessed it a lot of times. Whenever I talk to some normie, they give indolent replies, but when I see 2 normies talking to each other, they talk as if they will never get another chance lol.
Kek same happens to me. I tend to get short replies when I initiate conversation, while when I see someone else saying the same or something similar, or not even saying anything at all, the other person will go off on a long ass tangent.

Brutal family pill. I was living with my parents recently, and they expected me to 'Just be NT' and make spontaneous conversation with them.

They refused to accept that I wanted to be left alone and cope in peace. Tensions got so high that I eventually just moved back out. Fuck mang :fuk:
Yea I hate how it's perceived as me being angry when I don't feel like talking.

Theyre seeing their friends. Coworkers that you see every day for years dont talk for hours. I can probably talk nonstop for one hour if I see my friend after like a month. Lot can happen in a month, not necessarily in your life but around the globe. I'm in trade school at the moment and even after weekends I dont talk much since we just do our assignments, people ask me "how did you do that?" When asking for help but thats not conversation.

I think op you just happened to hear some normies talk that havent met in a while. Adult normies dont hang out every day.
My coworkers certainly do. They don't talk about meaningful stuff. It's truly fascinating how they're able to talk so much without actually saying anything.
 
If you're autistic then talking in a group is a fucking nightmare, you can't read when there's going to be a gap to get in or take too long to think about what to say so they've moved on to some new bs, they don't wanna hear about something for more than 2 minutes, you get accused of being quiet yet no one asks you anything or if you do start talking they just talk over you.
 
If you're autistic then talking in a group is a fucking nightmare, you can't read when there's going to be a gap to get in or take too long to think about what to say so they've moved on to some new bs, they don't wanna hear about something for more than 2 minutes, you get accused of being quiet yet no one asks you anything or if you do start talking they just talk over you.
One of the reasons integrating into a group conversation as a non-NT is a nightmare is because it's not subconscious for you. Consciousness lags behind by about half a second. I can only participate in group conversations if I make dumb repetitive remarks like "really why" or "then what?" that don't take time to formulate. For some reason after I do this a couple of times, I tend to stop getting talked over when I try to talk.
 
I can only talk if I drink alcohol
 
:soy: "You really don't talk much... Are you alright?" :foidSoy:
 

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