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I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss

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I'm close to being a :feelsmage: and have never dated once.
I see many posts about fellowcels who had a date or two.

What kind of sorcery do you use to get a foid to accept to tag along with you ? :feelssus:

What does it feel like to be sitting next to a female with her eyes :whatfeels: on you ?

What do you talk about ?
Do you take the subway or use your car to the rendez-vous point ?
How ? What ? Who ? Whom ? Which ?

Please, tell me everything about it. Since I didn't experience this, I'm fascinated.
I'll read it all (for real). :feelsstudy:
 
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PolskiKartofel

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Perhaps it's better that you never had a date. If some girl reject suddenly after a few meetings and many hours of chatting, it would be very hurtful. I had two meetings (calling it a date would be an abuse) with some girl I met on therapy, I chatted with her very much. From day to day she wrote she doesn't want to know me and blocked me on FB - "for being obsessive". I was very fascinated with her, but I failed to tell about my feelings, perhaps she would be still my friend if she didn't have the same feelings. We had some common interests, but now it's irrelevant. I have some plan (call me simp or cuck, but it seems to be stronger than me) to ask her for another chance - irl.
 
HeroinNihilism

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I couldn't imagine sitting across the table from a foid who has to look at my face for an hour.
 
I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss

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I couldn't imagine sitting across the table from a foid who has to look at my face for an hour.
That's when you realize why the face is the most important part of the human body :feelscry:
 
BraincelsRefugee

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I don’t trust those mf. Truecels would never get to the point of a foid accepting to go on a date
 
I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss

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LeFrenchCel

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Never had any date so I can't help you boyo
 
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I don’t trust those mf. Truecels would never get to the point of a foid accepting to go on a date

the idea of going on date with foid is so above me, i can never imagine being with a foid
 
UnluckyCell

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"incels who have dated before"
you mean FAKECELS
 
Dravidiancel

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I am bad at human interactions.Even worse at female interactions
 
depressedblackcel

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Those are fakecels ofc
 
RuudVanNistelrooy

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Probably just a peer pressure so she tolerated you for an hour or two.
 
Intellau_Celistic

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I can offer a fictional story of hypergamy:

The protagonist of our story is a man named "Aspie John" and involves a woman named "Anxious Jane".

Aspie John meets Anxious Jane in "High School".

Anxious Jane is in Special Ed for severe anxiety, and so is Aspie John. Aspie John and Anxious Jane appear to have some mutual attraction at times, given Anxious Jane would always make the same "anxious" hand-fiddling gestures as Aspie John and would wear a shirt with his favorite color: "Blue". When Aspie John dropped a stack of homework sheets on one occasion, Anxious Jane wrote a "message" for him on her sheet the very next day.

Anxious Jane, however, always manages to next to the tallest kid in the room, which is odd given he sits alone in an otherwise empty row of desks. When Tall Kid helps the teacher pick up classroom litter, Anxious Jane suddenly bolts up and quickly joins them. Aspie John remains seated due to anxiety. After some time, Tall Kid starts to sit with other kids in the classroom, leaving Anxious Jane sitting alone each day. He sits across from Aspie John.

Three years later...

Aspie John and Anxious Jane are in different Special Ed classrooms. Anxious Jane speaks of wanting to be in a "relationship" with Aspie John. There is a catch, however: Anxious Jane regularly wears ponytails and make-up for the Tall Kid in her new classroom. She would flirt with this man in class(Which frustrated her teacher) and would also chat with him over text and social media, all while sometimes making friendly gestures towards Aspie John in passing through the hallway.

On a certain occasion, though, Aspie John encounters Anxious Jane in a hospital lab waiting room. Anxious Jane makes "romantic" gestures towards Aspie John. Aspie John, being a very coy man, is reluctant to approach Anxious Jane. As he prepares to approach her, he recalls her heavy flirtation with Tall Kid in her new classroom. He also remembers hearing her teacher say, "Why is Anxious Jane flirting with Tall Kid? She already has a boyfriend."

He then decides to ignore her and covers himself with a hoodie.

A few days later, Aspie John overhears a teacher speaking of himself and Anxious Jane - "He's so sensitive! Oh my goodness! They were just joking!" - Note that this is after months of flirting and closeness between Anxious Jane and Tall Kid. Shortly after that, Anxious Jane flirts with Tall Kid in her classroom, telling him "P-Please don't call my phone number".

An interesting story of "signals" and cues, yes?

Correct. Let me continue with the story of Aspie John:

In Special Ed, Aspie John was referred to the school psychologist. The school psychologist, who also saw Anxious Jane, encouraged Aspie John to speak to Anxious Jane.

"You should speak to Jane!"(S.P)

"I'm not sure..."(A.J)

"Try speaking to Anxious Jane! She would love to have someone to speak to!"(S.P)

"Okay, I think I'll try..."(A.J)

Aspie John would go home anxiously each day and think incessantly of his fellow classmates. He would feel very, depressed, jittery and uncomfortable due to a restless mind. Thinking of Anxious Jane only worsened it.

The teacher criticized Aspie John several times for his inability to socialize with Anxious Jane, who had little problem socializing with kids at social clubs she attended. She would criticize Aspie John's statements of "Managing his classroom anxiety" yet constantly gave Anxious Jane exemptions for her inability to recount her night(The teacher would ask everyone about it daily).

Furthermore, Anxious Jane was desired by nearly every male in the class. Aspie John was ignored to the extent of needing the teacher(Or, on one occasion, the Hispanic kid) to do class activities. One boy quickly sat near Anxious Jane and wrapped his arms around her during a class project.

"Jane, It's okay sweetie. Come pair with me."

As for the "speaking", Anxious Jane's hand-fiddling gestures, as well as her decision to mimic several of Aspie John's other avoidant behaviors, led to criticism from the Phys. Ed teacher, who said:

"Jane was playing with her hands instead of working on her activities. I think we have a dynamic there. Keep that in check."

Anxious Jane then frowned at Aspie John and started coming to school without her glasses(To impress Tall Kid).

Aspie John was also switched to other classroom duties after Anxious Jane wrote her "message" to him via homework.

A certain (respectable) Hispanic boy said of Jane:

"Is Jane still going to be in our classroom?"(He asked this after Aspie John was told that he would remain in the current classroom; unprovoked information)

"No. She'll be switched into the other classroom."(Teacher)

Anxious Jane stopped coming to school until she was switched into another classroom for reasons unknown to Aspie John. She was, of course, shifting to Option #1: Tall Kid.
 
AsgardTheFatcel

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