Most if not all people tend to mate with the ones sharing the same pheno as them. Some couples even look as if they could be siblings. If your pheno is globally considered attractive (North Atlantid, Nordid, bright skin Korean etc) you can even look good with very average bones. By contrast, if your pheno is not only unpleasant looking but also “unique” in the sense that it doesn’t fit into any common known phenos then it’ll be extremely hard for you to find a partner. Sadly the latter case applies to me 
