To get women, you have to get women?

[StSausageCel]

A Normie friend of mine is an extrovert who adopted me, and I was talking to him recently, then the topic of dating came up. I let him know about my struggles, then he told me something that actually made sense. "To get women you have to get women. It's confusing, I know. But after that first girl, they come flying out the woodwork."

This is also known as Preselection/Social proof. It's a fucked up Catch 22. The guys who get women, will keep getting women. The guys who don't, like me, will continue to not get any women. It's why people in relationships find it so easy to cheat. Taken men are simply more attractive.

As men, there are two sides of the coin. One side, is inhabited by men that are doing all the fucking. The other side is inhabited by men who are starving for sex. There is no middle ground.

I also remember an episode of Everybody Hates Chris, where he finally got a girlfriend and suddenly girls were chasing his ugly ass. And he said something similar about having to get a girl to get other girls.

So you're telling me, if I finally ascend, I'll be able to make up for lost time by fucking foids on the side? That's some quality motivation.

 

[micropenis29]

It's true.

But to get that first woman, you need a big dick.

 

[Ecstasy]

I got a chadlite at work who "adopted" me aswell and he told me exactly the same.
He said women know that if another woman accepted a dude as bf he is worthy material and want to get them. blackpilled af

 

[StSausageCel]

It's true.

But to get that first woman, you need a big dick.

Don't really know what constitutes a big dick. Its pretty tiny when soft, but around 6in when erect

 

[Emba]

They only want the wanted.

 

[The Cagot]

As it's hard to get this first woman, what if we temporarily lied about having one ?

 

[Ellsworth]

Maybe we should hire a woman to act as our gf in public until other women want to date us?

 

[EeEcel]

/r/IncelsWithChadFriends

 

[StSausageCel]

Maybe we should hire a woman to act as our gf in public until other women want to date us?

Could work tbh. But it could just as easily not work if the relationship between you and the girl you hire appears forced/not genuine. Another aspect of Preselection is your body language when you know you're desired by other women. You just can't fake that.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Yes. This is similar to how the rich get richer, the poor get poorer. If you get no women you only become less attractive. If you get women you become even more attractive.

They only want the wanted.

 

[Shigechi]

Same with money, friends and all the other shit that matters. The system is rigged if you are at the bottom with empty pockets.

 

[genetic_scrap]

Same with money, friends and all the other shit that matters. The system is rigged if you are at the bottom with empty pockets.

Money is a gigantic cope. Part of the red blue pill is the delusion that money actually factors into a woman's attraction.

It doesn't.

 

[LitVirgin]

I believe it they rather let someone else take the risk of dating you to see their reaction and everyone elses reaction. A foid might think a guy who is sub 6 feet is good looking but might be afraid of what her friends might think about him they are obsessed with their social image.

 

[The Cagot]

Money is a gigantic cope. Part of the red blue pill is the delusion that money actually factors into a woman's attraction.

It doesn't.

Years ago I was fooled by my brother's theory, saying I would be no longer alone once I'll get a job, money, a car and bought an appartment.
He told having a job would greatly improve my attractiveness "because women want working guys".
I did all that and nothing changed. Worse, I became a wageslave.

Money does nothing excepted to pay escorts girls.
Which is not being loved.
Money is the biggest cope and has zero impact.

 

[The Abyss]

Buy a cheap wedding ring, let us know what changes.

 

[genetic_scrap]

Years ago I was fooled by my brother's theory, saying I would be no longer alone once I'll get a job, money, a car and bought an appartment.
He told having a job would greatly improve my attractiveness "because women want working guys".
I did all that and nothing changed. Worse, I became a wageslave.

Money does nothing excepted to pay escorts girls.
Which is not being loved.
Money is the biggest cope and has zero impact.

There's this faggot on YouTube called "Alpha Male Strategies". He said that "money is the great equalizer", I stopped taking him seriously after that and never watched another one of his videos.

He was proof that the red pill = blue pill.

 

[Mecoja]

As it's hard to get this first woman, what if we temporarily lied about having one ?

you cant fake it, virginity smells like horse shit miles away.

Money is a gigantic cope. Part of the red blue pill is the delusion that money actually factors into a woman's attraction.

It doesn't.

Money is gigantic plus in 3rd and 2nd world country but for normies only, not even God can help incels.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

I have a friend who pretended to get a girlfriend to boost his lay count.

I also notice women always giggle when they call a guy a fuckboi. I did notice guys were considered more attractive when outed as cheaters.

you cant fake it, virginity smells like horse shit miles away.

 

[Cowcel]

To women the more you are rejected the less attractive you become and vice versa.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

Another aspect of Preselection is your body language when you know you're desired by other women. You just can't fake that.

Unless you're a narc and you BELIEVE you're hot shit