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Around 40% of American couples now first meet online


It is one of the most profound changes in life in the US, and in much of the rich world. Instead of meeting our partners in school, at work, or through friends and family, many of us now meet them online.

Some 39% of heterosexual couples that got together in the US in 2017 met online, according to a recently released study (pdf) by sociologists Michael Rosenfeld and Sonia Hausen of Stanford University and Reuben Thomas of University of New Mexico. This was also the case for more than 60% of same-sex couples that year. That makes online dating by far the most common way that American couples now meet. The data also show that between 1995 to 2017, meeting through friends saw the largest decline, from 33% of couples at the start of the period to just 20% at the end.

“It used to be that finding a partner is something one did with their community,” says Thomas. “Now it is basically an individual quest.” This has also created a $4 billion-plus industry to help people on that quest (paywall). Thomas and his counterparts’ research paper is currently under review for publication in an academic journal.

The data in the study come from the How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey, which is the most comprehensive data collected on romantic relationships in the US. The survey allows for multiple answers to the question about how people met, so a recent rise of people meeting at bars and restaurants is not down to serendipity but rather people who arranged to meet for dinner or a drink via online dating sites.




https://qz.com/1546677/around-40-of-us-couples-now-first-meet-online/
 
Smartphones were an error.
 
We need to create a time machine and go back to fix this mess tbh.
 
Tinder is actually real life. only cucks and copers deny it.
 
This just further proves there is enough chads out there that there will soon be no need for foids to look for betabux or settle less.
 
Tbh I know a few couples irl that met online and they’re relatively lookmatchsd. Woman use tinder to fuck up for sure but I still don’t think they want to be the less pretty one in a relationship. They still choose someone close to their looks to LTR. From what I’ve seen, at least
 
Tbh I know a few couples irl that met online and they’re relatively lookmatchsd. Woman use tinder to fuck up for sure but I still don’t think they want to be the less pretty one in a relationship. They still choose someone close to their looks to LTR. From what I’ve seen, at least
Bluepilled at best...
 
I live in a small town and any local girl I do talk to on dating apps only talks to me for a short amount of time and then ignores me or ignores me in general when I first message her. The one girl I spoke to for a short amount of time, well, I think she blocked me. Many local girls just leave my message on read though at the start and never reply.
 
question for tinder-deniers

is there anything that's real life to you?
 
Cucks in denial make me angry us fuck, there is tons of researches asking women were they prefer to find a partner, the first option, always and with a percentage similar to this one, is dating apps/sites, tinder and others dating tools are real life to the core, it can't be more real than that and I guess this frightened the little cucks minds, the blackpill is too strong for them
 
Around 40% of American couples now first meet online


It is one of the most profound changes in life in the US, and in much of the rich world. Instead of meeting our partners in school, at work, or through friends and family, many of us now meet them online.

Some 39% of heterosexual couples that got together in the US in 2017 met online, according to a recently released study (pdf) by sociologists Michael Rosenfeld and Sonia Hausen of Stanford University and Reuben Thomas of University of New Mexico. This was also the case for more than 60% of same-sex couples that year. That makes online dating by far the most common way that American couples now meet. The data also show that between 1995 to 2017, meeting through friends saw the largest decline, from 33% of couples at the start of the period to just 20% at the end.

“It used to be that finding a partner is something one did with their community,” says Thomas. “Now it is basically an individual quest.” This has also created a $4 billion-plus industry to help people on that quest (paywall). Thomas and his counterparts’ research paper is currently under review for publication in an academic journal.

The data in the study come from the How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey, which is the most comprehensive data collected on romantic relationships in the US. The survey allows for multiple answers to the question about how people met, so a recent rise of people meeting at bars and restaurants is not down to serendipity but rather people who arranged to meet for dinner or a drink via online dating sites.




https://qz.com/1546677/around-40-of-us-couples-now-first-meet-online/

Thanks man really nice find. I added it to the wiki in progress (doesn't look right yet on mobile, no TOC so be warned):

https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Bl...the_primary_way_people_meet_for_relationships

This helps to confirm in raw data that most of the changes we're seeing in the dating market are a direct result of online dating's hypergamy and superficiality both of which punish men brutally. Not to mention the financial cost to us given how these apps have been designed.

I have a long list of threads and old studies to work through. But if you see any other good new blackpill posts like this that come out and would be good to add as well, please tag me if you remember so I can grab them too. Any tiny hole that can be filled is good. This study is minor in the scheme of things but it helps support a lot of our contentions very clearly.
 
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Tbh I know a few couples irl that met online and they’re relatively lookmatchsd. Woman use tinder to fuck up for sure but I still don’t think they want to be the less pretty one in a relationship. They still choose someone close to their looks to LTR. From what I’ve seen, at least
Out of anxiety. If she knew she'd be locked with high tier chad, then she'd love to go for it.
But she can't show off if she's always worried the looks gap will make a pretty girl swirl in.
 
Around 40% of American couples now first meet online


It is one of the most profound changes in life in the US, and in much of the rich world. Instead of meeting our partners in school, at work, or through friends and family, many of us now meet them online.

Some 39% of heterosexual couples that got together in the US in 2017 met online, according to a recently released study (pdf) by sociologists Michael Rosenfeld and Sonia Hausen of Stanford University and Reuben Thomas of University of New Mexico. This was also the case for more than 60% of same-sex couples that year. That makes online dating by far the most common way that American couples now meet. The data also show that between 1995 to 2017, meeting through friends saw the largest decline, from 33% of couples at the start of the period to just 20% at the end.

“It used to be that finding a partner is something one did with their community,” says Thomas. “Now it is basically an individual quest.” This has also created a $4 billion-plus industry to help people on that quest (paywall). Thomas and his counterparts’ research paper is currently under review for publication in an academic journal.

The data in the study come from the How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey, which is the most comprehensive data collected on romantic relationships in the US. The survey allows for multiple answers to the question about how people met, so a recent rise of people meeting at bars and restaurants is not down to serendipity but rather people who arranged to meet for dinner or a drink via online dating sites.




https://qz.com/1546677/around-40-of-us-couples-now-first-meet-online/
Isn't it odd how people become shallow and entitled once they're given a device that let's them pick and choose any specific choice at their fingertips :waitwhat:

These online people don't exist in a vacuum, they're a reflection of what people would be like once they realise they can take advantage of an app that heavily favours them
 
All these inventions were by men in a foids favor. They are a betrayal.
 
Around 40% of American couples now first meet online


It is one of the most profound changes in life in the US, and in much of the rich world. Instead of meeting our partners in school, at work, or through friends and family, many of us now meet them online.

Some 39% of heterosexual couples that got together in the US in 2017 met online, according to a recently released study (pdf) by sociologists Michael Rosenfeld and Sonia Hausen of Stanford University and Reuben Thomas of University of New Mexico. This was also the case for more than 60% of same-sex couples that year. That makes online dating by far the most common way that American couples now meet. The data also show that between 1995 to 2017, meeting through friends saw the largest decline, from 33% of couples at the start of the period to just 20% at the end.

“It used to be that finding a partner is something one did with their community,” says Thomas. “Now it is basically an individual quest.” This has also created a $4 billion-plus industry to help people on that quest (paywall). Thomas and his counterparts’ research paper is currently under review for publication in an academic journal.

The data in the study come from the How Couples Meet and Stay Together survey, which is the most comprehensive data collected on romantic relationships in the US. The survey allows for multiple answers to the question about how people met, so a recent rise of people meeting at bars and restaurants is not down to serendipity but rather people who arranged to meet for dinner or a drink via online dating sites.




https://qz.com/1546677/around-40-of-us-couples-now-first-meet-online/

The cucks will deny this as they'd rope if they admit to this.

The foids will deny this as they need orbiters & betabuxxers.
Isn't it odd how people become shallow and entitled once they're given a device that let's them pick and choose any specific choice at their fingertips :waitwhat:

These online people don't exist in a vacuum, they're a reflection of what people would be like once they realise they can take advantage of an app that heavily favours them
Art imitating life.
 
This virus is rapidly spreading all over the world.

Once 5G goes mainstream and mobile internet gets even cheaper and more widespread it'll be completely over for non-Chads in every single country on the planet.
 
Cucks in denial make me angry us fuck, there is tons of researches asking women were they prefer to find a partner, the first option, always and with a percentage similar to this one, is dating apps/sites, tinder and others dating tools are real life to the core, it can't be more real than that and I guess this frightened the little cucks minds, the blackpill is too strong for them
 
I hate to say this but if that number goes up we will increase to massive numbers.
 
Isn't it odd how people become shallow and entitled once they're given a device that let's them pick and choose any specific choice at their fingertips :waitwhat:

These online people don't exist in a vacuum, they're a reflection of what people would be like once they realise they can take advantage of an app that heavily favours them
 
"Tinder is not real life" is one of the biggest copes ever conceived, it is real life only magnified massively.
This virus is rapidly spreading all over the world.
 
It will stop when ISIS starts using Tinder to organize kidnaps or some shit. And you heard it from me first
 
It's over

Online dating is the most brutal method for men to find a gf on.

It's so one sided in the favor of foids your odds as a man of finding a steady gf on there are slim to none.

It's 40% now but in the future it will likely rise to 70% - 90% once the boomers start dying off.

Only Chadites and Chad thrive using online dating every other man is screwed once those apps become the new norm for meeting people, Harem society here we come.
 

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