How many of you growing up had your family feeding you the 
when it came to talking about future girlfriend/wife?
Growing up, whenever I was talking about my future with my family (when I was younger obviously) they would always tell me that at some point they would meet a beautiful amazing girl to make memories with, marry, grow old with, maybe have children etc. and of course, being the young naive soul, I believed every word of it.
When I got to my senior year of high school in 2017 and I was obese as fuck (I weighed over 300 lbs that year, and yes ofc I was getting ruthlessly bullied for it) I was out at a restaurant with my family one night and for whatever reason, I opened up to them about my longing for a girlfriend. Once again, they kept feeding me the saying that the one for me was just still out there in the world somewhere and all I needed to do was wait until it was time for us to meet. JFL they told me that at that time in 2027, I would very likely be out with them for dinner with my new wife and yet here I am now in 2025, just 2 years away, and my prospects of that happening are no closer to that as they were that evening back in 2017.
That same evening they also told me that for all I know this “girl” could be right around the corner from me. Of course back then as I was still largely bluepilled myself, I believed all this back then and it genuinely made me feel good for the rest of that night. I remembered my mood increased significantly at the thought of that. The truly is one hell of a drug.
About a year later I was taking a bus with my father into the city, and I can’t remember what we were talking about, but we once again got back to the topic of me longing for a girlfriend in my life, and my father told me “you’re such a nice person. Just wait until this girl meets you, she will surely be happy to have you,” once again, I got a hit of dopamine and my mood greatly increased for the rest of the day.
And yeah, I never really found out how bullshit the was until a year after that, and here I am now LMAO.
when it came to talking about future girlfriend/wife?Growing up, whenever I was talking about my future with my family (when I was younger obviously) they would always tell me that at some point they would meet a beautiful amazing girl to make memories with, marry, grow old with, maybe have children etc. and of course, being the young naive soul, I believed every word of it.
When I got to my senior year of high school in 2017 and I was obese as fuck (I weighed over 300 lbs that year, and yes ofc I was getting ruthlessly bullied for it) I was out at a restaurant with my family one night and for whatever reason, I opened up to them about my longing for a girlfriend. Once again, they kept feeding me the
saying that the one for me was just still out there in the world somewhere and all I needed to do was wait until it was time for us to meet. JFL they told me that at that time in 2027, I would very likely be out with them for dinner with my new wife and yet here I am now in 2025, just 2 years away, and my prospects of that happening are no closer to that as they were that evening back in 2017.That same evening they also told me that for all I know this “girl” could be right around the corner from me. Of course back then as I was still largely bluepilled myself, I believed all this back then and it genuinely made me feel good for the rest of that night. I remembered my mood increased significantly at the thought of that. The
truly is one hell of a drug.About a year later I was taking a bus with my father into the city, and I can’t remember what we were talking about, but we once again got back to the topic of me longing for a girlfriend in my life, and my father told me “you’re such a nice person. Just wait until this girl meets you, she will surely be happy to have you,” once again, I got a hit of dopamine and my mood greatly increased for the rest of the day.
And yeah, I never really found out how bullshit the
was until a year after that, and here I am now LMAO.
