fOreVER
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He is subhuman. Lack of forward growth, balding and weak frame
He is subhuman. Lack of forward growth, balding and weak frame
This is one of the most difficult blackpills for people. Most women would rather become celibate, fuck a dog or become lesbian than have sex with an unattractive or even average man.They only need 1 or 2 chads to permanently inflate their ego. After a pump and dump, they feel entitled to what they have had.
Which is why alot of subpar foids would rather be single catladies or hookup with dykes.
Maybe back then standards were a lot lower but let lookism rate him.Never used to be this way man. If you're too young to know, ask anyone over 30 whether they think a guy like this should be struggling to get dates or if he would have even 10-20 years ago. This is seriously not normal.
Cope.He's not bad looking, just his lower third is too weak. Also a bit too much on the feminine side, otherwise he could pass as a young Morrissey.
He would likely get more matches if trying on another dating site/app.
Cope.
This is why i think this site is filled with6/10+ people. If you really think this guy is ugly, then you're not truly ugly and looking for an excuses.Youre the one whos coping if you think this guy is truly ugly. From his pics he appears to have a decent social life and I bet he isnt a virgin anymore.
He just lose out on Tinder because of the mentioned flaws (which bring him down to a 5 or 6) but he definitely wont stay single for the remainder of his life, at least if hes willing to betabux/ lower his standards.
Ps: jaw surgery/fillers might be the path to ascension for him.
26/M
I modified profile based on feedback. No luck.
If people could take some time to help me out, it would be greatly appreciated. I've never had luck on here and not dated in quite some time. If it's my appearance or something else, I'd like to know. What "league" should I be going for? How do I rate? etc etc.
If I may ask; how attractive am I? Cause I get no attention OLD or in real life.
I do a lot with my life but never are not interested at these events, classes etc either.
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So let's see. We have a 26 year old man who has a proper job (teacher) and is well styled with semi-professional pictures and a totally normal/average face, and he is incel in 2019 posting on a Tinder feedback forum looking for help to figure out what he can do differently.
If there's any point to this, it's that we probably shouldn't really feel that bad about being incel or take it too personally. We're actually probably not monsters or even that horrifying looking. Standards are just going higher and higher every year at an incredible rate. If I saw this guy on the street I would never guess he is incel. His biggest flaws are an early receding hairline, mild facial asymmetry, and a bit of weak jawline, but I'd say he's completely normal and very average looking. 20 years ago he would certainly have a committed girlfriend by now who loved him and they might even be planning a family by now.
It should be at least somewhat reassuring to know that if normal guys are becoming incel too then maybe we're actually more normal than we think and we shouldn't be so hard on ourselves.
Women are the biggest hate group on earth
He's not bad looking, just his lower third is too weak. Also a bit too much on the feminine side, otherwise he could pass as a young Morrissey.
He would likely get more matches if trying on another dating site/app.
Youre the one whos coping if you think this guy is truly ugly. From his pics he appears to have a decent social life and I bet he isnt a virgin anymore.
many many men
many many men
many many men
LMAO what, riding a jetski with what looks like his brother? He looks lonely and sad as fuck, he is not good looking enough to get away with lack of social proof of the highest order. He is 5/10 at best.From his pics he appears to have a decent social life
All pics consist of hairstylemaxxing and fashionmaxxing. He should be gigachad according to bluepilled advices
Easy answer, smartphones. Instant access to every Chad in a 500 mile radius, being showered with admiration and attention 24/7, every woman is a celebrity with Instagram. It’s almost satirical how bad the situation became because of smartphones.
Women would rather drop out of the dating pool than date a guy like this. Their circuits are totally fried and men are becoming doomed because of it. Women weren't built to process tens of thousands of applications from men at a time. Their nature causes them to always only want the best of what they see. The more they see, the more they want. It's a downward spiral.
Sticky this thread tbh
LMAO what, riding a jetski with what looks like his brother? He looks lonely and sad as fuck, he is not good looking enough to get away with lack of social proof of the highest order. He is 5/10 at best.
That guy is a solid 4/10.
In Brasil he would be able to not be incel if he runned JBW on some 4-5/10 non white female or accepted to date a fat girl.
No man, the guy is ugly in fact. That lack of jaw kills him. He could stop being ugly with only one surgery, that already would save him.
He is not UGLY AS FUCK, not sub4, but he is bellow average.
No, but It doesnt make me feel bad either.Does it make you feel more normal?
He is BELLOW average, not above.This guy is slightly above average unless turbomanlet. @RageAgainstTDL Is it possible to find out about his height somehow?
This guy is slightly above average unless turbomanlet. @RageAgainstTDL Is it possible to find out about his height somehow?
This situation is so fucked up it's almost beyond comprehension. I have been seeing lots of Tinder/dating advice posts over the past few months and I have seen numerous just like this. It's not an isolated case. Average men are entering the border of inceldom.
I wouldn't say he's truly a permanent incel yet. Maybe he'll get lucky in a few months and he can hold onto his landwhale for dear life. But the fact that he's struggling like this does not bode well for anyone. It shows there is almost no limit to how bad things will get.
We may sincerely reach a point where 6/10 men are getting laid sporadically and only 7+/10 men are getting laid consistently. I mean, based on this, we're probably already there.
Many, many, many men. It's fucking over. For what it's worth, at least we're not alone. Does it make you feel more normal?
Not really lol not sure where you guys live that everyone looks better than this.He is BELLOW average, not above.
I can't tell it from the pictures.I mean his height doesn't even matter since you can't see his height in the pictures. He looks like totally normal height. But that's not good enough either.
He has a decent face but he looks short and has narrow shoulders.
lol still a lot bigger than meHe has a decent face but he looks short and has narrow shoulders.
thats if he has a stable careerOnly after they turn 30 and are ready to settle down.
See this is the issue guys. Among whites, I can agree maybe this guy is a 4-4.5/10 (ie. slightly below average but still normal). Among a mixed ethnicity crowd, he's a solid 5/10, since he'll MOG shorter/uglier curries/ricecels/blacks easily.
So in a big multicultural city, he's pretty much gonna represent the textbook average.
Plus he did everything everyone says to maximize his looks and photos (except that he fucked up his beard shaving in some pics - minor issue). He got a reliable professional job. He lists himself as an "extrovert" so he likely has a normal social life.
People say "he just needs to get off online dating" but he already says he tried that - he says he got no interest from women in classes or his life activities.
See here's what I think happened from his post and his age - this guy just graduated from teacher's college. And he hasn't been able to get any dates in a while in school. But now he thinks "I've graduated - I've got a job - I'm a professional now - girls will like me! I'm gonna make the best OLD profile and then things will start picking up! This is my new life!"
And so he took a semi-professional photo shoot. He collected all the types of photos you're supposed to get. And then ... NOTHING.
This is what's fucked up - at least 40% of the male population can do no better than this. Many of us will always be shorter, uglier, more ethnic, or more mentally fucked and less professionally successful. By definition that will always be the case.
Someone ITT said, to paraphrase: "Women now expect men like this to get facial surgery before they will date them." That's not a fucking joke but it should be. The only thing he has left to do is jaw/chin surgeries and hair transplants. And then what? He goes up another point in looks? Will that save him? For how long?
The problem with trying to self improve or surgery your way out of this issue is the standards keep going up annually. So if you get surgery and go from a 3/10 to a 4/10? Too bad. You're still below the cutoff. You go from a 4/10 to a 5/10? Maybe you can get by for now ... but what about in another 2-3 years?
Not to mention the Norwood reaper has marked him and unless he gets on hair meds ASAP and has a good response, this is his peak adult attractiveness right now. It will not get any better than this.
This situation is so fucked up it's almost beyond comprehension. I have been seeing lots of Tinder/dating advice posts over the past few months and I have seen numerous just like this. It's not an isolated case. Average men are entering the border of inceldom.
I wouldn't say he's truly a permanent incel yet. Maybe he'll get lucky in a few months and he can hold onto his landwhale for dear life. But the fact that he's struggling like this does not bode well for anyone. It shows there is almost no limit to how bad things will get.
We may sincerely reach a point where 6/10 men are getting laid sporadically and only 7+/10 men are getting laid consistently. I mean, based on this, we're probably already there.
Many, many, many men. It's fucking over. For what it's worth, at least we're not alone. Does it make you feel more normal?
I live in Brasil and most white guys i knew IRL during all my life looks better than this one.Not really lol not sure where you guys live that everyone looks better than this.
Coping like a true master.he might get lucky with some prime student with daddy issues
over for sub-6 men theory is legit tbh
How do you "look short" without a reference point or at least full body shot?????????He has a decent face but he looks short and has narrow shoulders.