You don't always choose to be femboy
and being femboy can still screw you over in the straight game depending on where you live.
As for serge, okay yeah the first image is somewhat Low IQ, and saying "who cares" if someone wasn't really an Incel probably isn't good optics, but it's true that "Fakecel" persecution can be Low IQ witch hunt. Sexual markets differ. Someone who might be volcel where you live, might be Incel where I live. It's all contextual, there isn't this magic truecel. Incel simply means, involuntarily celibate, you have to be a straight male, actively looking for sex/a life parter, etc. You might not find one because of where you live, because you're ugly, a mental condition, etc.