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Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.
 
Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.
You shouldn't be blackpilled until like the final years of college if not ever.

If you want to blame anyone for ending up on this site, blame the stupid pieces of shit that keep invading discussions where men/boys vent about their lives and hurling shaming tactics at them and not allowing them to fully speak their mind to other like minded men/boys without mocking them.
 
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I'm quite sure on most of your threads you get support and likeminded discussion, don't let the few bitter ones ruin it for you
 
Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.

That is exactly why youngcels shouldn't be here. You are doing yourself a huge disservice wasting your time here and deluding your mind with blackpill when you are so young.
 
I'm quite sure on most of your threads you get support and likeminded discussion, don't let the few bitter ones ruin it for you
I meant on venting threads. Outside of when I wouldn't shut up about suicide plans, I've never really opened up about my bad experiences with women because I know people will say "oh well your young so it's not bad for you yet" or "your larping".
 
members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.
a lot of people here seem to be in a "bitter mood" 24/7, do you expect them to fake politeness just for the sake of it?
 
That is exactly why youngcels shouldn't be here. You are doing yourself a huge disservice wasting your time here and deluding your mind with blackpill when you are so young.
I think I belong here, if I never came back I'd still be seen as hideous by women and have no guy want to be my friend. It's just the bitterness of this place gets to me.
a lot of people here seem to be in a "bitter mood" 24/7, do you expect them to fake politeness just for the sake of it?
Did I say that?
You shouldn't be blackpilled until like the final years of college if not ever.

If you want to blame anyone for ending up on this site, blame the stupid pieces of shit that keep invading discussions where men/boys vent about their lives and hurling shaming tactics at them and not allowing them to fully speak their mind to other like minded men/boys without mocking them.
If I wasn't I'd keep wasting my time trying to get girls who are disgusted by me, who have been giving it up since 13. The blackpill isn't the problem.
 
Every time I click on a SuicideFuel thread, I know I'll become a bit more insane, but it's a drug and I like it.
 
Every time I click on a SuicideFuel thread, I know I'll become a bit more insane, but it's a drug and I like it.
Those threads are stupid. The only point is to make other members miserable.
 
Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.
I'm going to give you the real reason of your experience here:

Most forum users are teenagers and most teenagers are just obnoxious and try to bully other people you don't know their age and that's why you take their comments as if they are relevant and from actual adults
 
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I think I belong here, if I never came back I'd still be seen as hideous by women and have no guy want to be my friend. It's just the bitterness of this place gets to me.

Did I say that?

If I wasn't I'd keep wasting my time trying to get girls who are disgusted by me, who have been giving it up since 13. The blackpill isn't the problem.

The thing is... You don't even know if you belong here yet. You have not even fully developed yet and until you graduate college you will have a steady supply of women that you can socialize with. I only have 2 old women at my work that I can socialize with that is the extend of my options in the west.

It's good that you are learning blackpill but blackpill was never meant to be a defeatist philosophy. You supposed to take what you know from the blackpill and apply it to your life to try to ascend. I don't think this forum suits you tbh it will probably bring you down.

Tbh I don't care what you do you think I am being mean to you but if I was really mean I would just tell you to rot on this forum like the rest of us all day if that is what you want to do with your teen years when you have the BEST possible chance of ascending then go ahead but don't complain about it later.
 
Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.
You've let the bad ones consume your mind. I can understand how it must feel, since I usually would get upset from a single person that ends up getting on my nerves or discards me on what I would have to say.

Also if you feel like not posting threads about anything you want to talk about, you are free to dm me anything on your mind.

Likewise, I don't know how long you browse forum but do take breaks and relax by going outside or something for some time before you decide to come back, though I will admit coming back would only bring back the same moods again, unless you alter your frame on viewing this without letting the opinions affect you.
 
Take a break, nigga.
 
That is exactly why youngcels shouldn't be here. You are doing yourself a huge disservice wasting your time here and deluding your mind with blackpill when you are so young.

I wish I would've had a place like this to visit as a youngcel.

It would've saved me an awful lot of time and energy that I wasted in fruitless pursuit of foids.
 
The thing is... You don't even know if you belong here yet. You have not even fully developed yet and until you graduate college you will have a steady supply of women that you can socialize with. I only have 2 old women at my work that I can socialize with that is the extend of my options in the west.

It's good that you are learning blackpill but blackpill was never meant to be a defeatist philosophy. You supposed to take what you know from the blackpill and apply it to your life to try to ascend. I don't think this forum suits you tbh it will probably bring you down.

Tbh I don't care what you do you think I am being mean to you but if I was really mean I would just tell you to rot on this forum like the rest of us all day if that is what you want to do with your teen years when you have the BEST possible chance of ascending then go ahead but don't complain about it later.
Hard to socialize with women when they won't let me near them. And I understand why members don't want me here because of my age, but if I didn't think it was over for me, I wouldn't rot here in the first place.
I'm going to give you the real reason of your experience here:
- Most forum users are teenagers and most teenagers are just obnoxious and try to bully other people you don't know their age and that's why you take their comments as if they are relevant and from actual adults
Well I'm a teenager, and most members seem to be in their early 20's from what they say.
 
I blame how quickly people think someone is praising, bragging, or worshipping on here.
 
I'm quite sure on most of your threads you get support and likeminded discussion, don't let the few bitter ones ruin it for you

Thanks for putting one of most absolutely based posts in your sig. That shit needs to be saved.
 
You are young. And your life has just begun. But that doesn't mean your sadness isn't real.
 
If I wasn't I'd keep wasting my time trying to get girls who are disgusted by me, who have been giving it up since 13. The blackpill isn't the problem.
Well even if that is so do you still feel motivated to anything after being exposed to the blackpill? That's one of the most damaging long term effects of realizing the blackpill imo and interferes with your studymaxxing and careermaxxing because you realize how hard work doesn't necessarily always pay off and looks are more important in everything while even working hard is unlikely to help you attract a woman or social circle of any kind.
 
Late college/early adulthood is the best time to discover the blackpill. By then you’ll have a solid base for money/careermaxxing and you’ll be able to ascend with surgeries and whatever means necessary. Being blackpilled while young is a path for destruction
 
Hello fellow youngcel. I expected a more welcoming community for us youngcels, considering they're oldcels in the past, but it is what it is. We're in this together, youngcel brother.
 
Well even if that is so do you still feel motivated to anything after being exposed to the blackpill? That's one of the most damaging long term effects of realizing the blackpill imo and interferes with your studymaxxing and careermaxxing because you realize how hard work doesn't necessarily always pay off and looks are more important in everything while even working hard is unlikely to help you attract a woman or social circle of any kind.
No, that's why I have suicide plans, so I don't have to wageslave what's left of my youth away.
 
Maybe it's because I came here thinking I'd be able to make friends and talk about my experiences, but my time here has been kind of crappy. I've never felt like I could genuinely talk about my experiences here without getting mocked or insulted. That's one of my problems with this forum, members rightfully criticize women and society for shaming men for opening up, but if guys do it here they have a genuine risk of it happening to them because a few members were just in a bitter mood.

Making IRL friends is hard enough. Making them online is harder, since trust is real issue. You have to learn to grow callouses on your skin and take the heat. Most of the shit you receive here is tough love, like a big brother being mean to a little brother. A tiny percentage of it is legitimately malcious. If you can't take some mean words by your own peers being thrown your way, you'll have a snowflake's chance in hell of surviving in the real world.

Yes, there are a shit load of bitter fucks here. That's part and parcel of "the incel experience". That is, the constant rejection, social and sexual failure, and overall built up misery from years of chronic socio-psychological trauma. Lack of friends, humiliation, ostracization, a complete feeling of loneliness and feeling hated by the world. You can't rightly expect a cheery, happy-go-lucky motherfucker to come out of the end of that kind ordeal with all smiles and shit. Most people will be, as you would expect, BITTER AS FUCK. And this is from YEARS upon YEARS of that. I got lucky in the sense that my experiences with people of all kinds made me extremely jaded and attuned with the human condition, but not bitter. I learned from all of the chaos and found a way I could work with it and cope harmoniously.

What I suggest is to put the shotgun down again and try to expand the horizon of your viewpoint. If someone is being mean to you, the last thing you should do is to take it personally. You should be asking why they're being like that. Try to see it from their point of view. You don't have to agree in order to understand and empathize. I get into some heated discussions here, but my heart rate and stress levels are as if I were ready to sleep, and I take none of it to heart (I mean, I certainly think about what's being said, but don't let my emotions get in the way). You gotta use the online space to grow thick skin. The alternative is people getting up to your face and insulting everything about you, like in boot camp. Speaking of which, the army is probably a good place to steel you.

So stop being a sissy fucking faggot and keep your head high.
 
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Making IRL friends is hard enough. Making them online is harder, since trust is real issue. You have to learn to grow callouses on your skin and take the heat. Most of the shit you receive here is tough love, like a big brother being mean to a little brother. A tiny percentage of it is legitimately malcious. If you can't take some mean words by your own peers being thrown your way, you'll have a snowflake's chance in hell of surviving in the real world.

Yes, there are a shit load of bitter fucks here. That's part and parcel of "the incel experience". That is, the constant rejection, social and sexual failure, and overall built up misery from years of chronic socio-psychological trauma. Lack of friends, humiliation, ostracization, a complete feeling of loneliness and feeling hated by the world. You can't rightly expect a cheery, happy-go-lucky motherfucker to come out of the end of that kind ordeal with all smiles and shit. Most people will be, as you would expect, BITTER AS FUCK. And this is from YEARS upon YEARS of that. I got lucky in the sense that my experiences with people of all kinds made me extremely jaded and attuned with the human condition, but not bitter. I learned from all of the chaos and found a way I could work with it and cope harmoniously.

What I suggest is to put the shotgun down again and try to expand the horizon of your viewpoint. If someone is being mean to you, the last thing you should do is to take it personally. You should be asking why they're being like that. Try to see it from their point of view. You don't have to agree in order to understand and empathize. I get into some heated discussions here, but my heart rate and stress levels are as if I were ready to sleep, and I take none of it to heart (I mean, I certainly think about what's being said, but don't let my emotions get in the way). You gotta use the online space to grow thick skin. The alternative is people getting up to your face and insulting everything about you, like in boot camp. Speaking of which, the army is probably a good place to steel you.

So stop being a sissy fucking faggot and keep your head high.
Yeah I know that. But it isn't "tough love" it's just members taking their bitterness out on me. It's not callousness I can't build up, it's just tiring to see it both offline and online every single day. Calling me a sissy faggot won't do anything to "toughen" me it's stupid to say to begin with.
 
:feelsautistic: Here’s a hug
 
Making IRL friends is hard enough. Making them online is harder, since trust is real issue. You have to learn to grow callouses on your skin and take the heat. Most of the shit you receive here is tough love, like a big brother being mean to a little brother. A tiny percentage of it is legitimately malcious. If you can't take some mean words by your own peers being thrown your way, you'll have a snowflake's chance in hell of surviving in the real world.

Yes, there are a shit load of bitter fucks here. That's part and parcel of "the incel experience". That is, the constant rejection, social and sexual failure, and overall built up misery from years of chronic socio-psychological trauma. Lack of friends, humiliation, ostracization, a complete feeling of loneliness and feeling hated by the world. You can't rightly expect a cheery, happy-go-lucky motherfucker to come out of the end of that kind ordeal with all smiles and shit. Most people will be, as you would expect, BITTER AS FUCK. And this is from YEARS upon YEARS of that. I got lucky in the sense that my experiences with people of all kinds made me extremely jaded and attuned with the human condition, but not bitter. I learned from all of the chaos and found a way I could work with it and cope harmoniously.

What I suggest is to put the shotgun down again and try to expand the horizon of your viewpoint. If someone is being mean to you, the last thing you should do is to take it personally. You should be asking why they're being like that. Try to see it from their point of view. You don't have to agree in order to understand and empathize. I get into some heated discussions here, but my heart rate and stress levels are as if I were ready to sleep, and I take none of it to heart (I mean, I certainly think about what's being said, but don't let my emotions get in the way). You gotta use the online space to grow thick skin. The alternative is people getting up to your face and insulting everything about you, like in boot camp. Speaking of which, the army is probably a good place to steel you.

So stop being a sissy fucking faggot and keep your head high.
And I understand their point of view, I'm not expecting them to be extremely calm and polite.
 
Yeah I know that. But it isn't "tough love" it's just members taking their bitterness out on me. It's not callousness I can't build up, it's just tiring to see it both offline and online every single day. Calling me a sissy faggot won't do anything to "toughen" me it's stupid to say to begin with.

Perhaps not. I could have been far harsher and meaner, and you've probably habituated to being called a faggot on the forum anyway. Call it a misfire on my part.

Why does it bother you that they're taking out their bitterness on you? That negative energy they've stored in their daily and weekly lives is being jettisoned onto a forum post. It has to go somewhere. You're failing to depersonalize their words and you're letting it affect you. That much is evident by this whole fucking thread. You tried killing yourself before, because girls made fun of you? Are you fucking kidding me? That is absolutely pathetic bro. If girls make fun of me right now, this is what I'd be doing:

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You, on the other hand, would be doing this (before your mom walked in):

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Perhaps not. I could have been far harsher and meaner, and you've probably habituated to being called a faggot on the forum anyway. Call it a misfire on my part.

Why does it bother you that they're taking out their bitterness on you? That negative energy they've stored in their daily and weekly lives is being jettisoned onto a forum post. It has to go somewhere. You're failing to depersonalize their words and you're letting it affect you. That much is evident by this whole fucking thread. You tried killing yourself before, because girls made fun of you? Are you fucking kidding me? That is absolutely pathetic bro. If girls make fun of me right now, this is what I'd be doing:

ConfusedSoulfulAracari-size_restricted.gif


You, on the other hand, would be doing this (before your mom walked in):

tenor.gif
Now your just straight up making fun of me. And I didn't try to kill myself because girls made fun of me, I tried for various reasons. And because I'm tired of being insulted near daily.
 
Now your just straight up making fun of me. And I didn't try to kill myself because girls made fun of me, I tried for various reasons. And because I'm tired of being insulted near daily.

YES, THAT'S RIGHT. I AM. YOU GOT IT.

Now this is the part where you don't give a fuck.
 
I don't but I just think it's stupid.

Stupid or not, it's affecting you when it shouldn't be. I imagine you're the kind of person who would unironically kill himself if the person on the other end of the suicide hotline told you to just end it.
 
That is exactly why youngcels shouldn't be here. You are doing yourself a huge disservice wasting your time here and deluding your mind with blackpill when you are so young.
Yeah if it's not actually over for you, and you're still a teenager or in your early 20s, then you really should not be here. Come back in your late 20s when you've totally exhausted every possible gymmaxxing, fashionmaxxing and statusmaxxing option available to you.
 
Stupid or not, it's affecting you when it shouldn't be. I imagine you're the kind of person who would unironically kill himself if the person on the other end of the suicide hotline told you to just end it.
OK? This is what I mean, your acting like your "helping" me but your just being really petty.
 
OK? This is what I mean, your acting like your "helping" me but your just being really petty.

Do you not see why I keep telling you to change your perspective or broaden it? Your mind has always been wearing the same outfit: that of the victim where you're the underdog protagonist against all of the villains. It's a very self-absorbed mindset.

I'm not being friendly, petty, supportive, hateful or anything. I'm being real with you. You're viewing things in one particular way: antagonistic. That's why everything people post you seem to view as against you somehow. This mindset, while being black pilled, is a recipe for disaster.

As some might say, you need to chill the fuck out.
 
so why are you here at 15? Are you ethnic and a turbo-manlet?
 
Life as a short ugly ethnic has been terrible for my mental health. If it weren't for incel forums, I'd feel like the only blackpilled man on the planet, which would make me even more pissed.
 
No wonder you feel that way if you make comments like this in threads about incels being friends.
None of us here are friends. You'll save yourself some pain by accepting that.
 
Do you not see why I keep telling you to change your perspective or broaden it? Your mind has always been wearing the same outfit: that of the victim where you're the underdog protagonist against all of the villains. It's a very self-absorbed mindset.

I'm not being friendly, petty, supportive, hateful or anything. I'm being real with you. You're viewing things in one particular way: antagonistic. That's why everything people post you seem to view as against you somehow. This mindset, while being black pilled, is a recipe for disaster.

As some might say, you need to chill the fuck out.
I only think that way because I've seen multiple posts and replies specificly insulting me. I don't see myself as some underdog or whatever.
Also I just feel like adding these because they're funny. :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
This place has helped my mental health immensely despite it sill being garbage because there are people here that sometimes understand and actually discuss problems that I try to convey. You have to understand, a lot of what we deal with mentally is completely foreign to most people, so trying to find solace in normville is like fighting a losing battle.
 
This place has helped my mental health immensely despite it sill being garbage because there are people here that sometimes understand and actually discuss problems that I try to convey. You have to understand, a lot of what we deal with mentally is completely foreign to most people, so trying to find solace in normville is like fighting a losing battle.
I understand why some users are like this, but it's tiring to see it constantly here and in real life.
 
Thanks for putting one of most absolutely based posts in your sig. That shit needs to be saved.

@SchrodingersDick doesn't get the credit he deserves
 
I’m guessing the reason people react this way towards you is because of your age. Anytime you vent the people who criticize you bring up your age. And you also made fake threads about walking into gangbangs that made people lose their trust in you. This place is just fine for me and is the only place on the internet where people can relate to me
 
The problem with you is your username and avatar failo
 
Can’t relate
 

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