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It's Over It's over, i lost all my friends

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It’s completely over. None of my friends care about me anymore. I’ve always had very few to begin with so few that last july I attempted because of the loneliness.
Then around september, I started having some normie friends and made some good online friends too. From september to december 2024, I thought maybe it wasn’t over, that maybe I could finally have a semi normal life.
But I was wrong, In december, I lost touch with all my online friends. A few are still around, but we talk less and less.
And worst of all, my IRL friend group has been ignoring me for months. They found a new group to hang out with. At first, they still invited me, but now they go out every single fucking day without me. They don’t text me, they don’t invite me even my best online friend barely writes to me anymore and I think that’s about to end too.
I had a brief taste of what a seminormal, decent life could feel like but nature reminded me of my place in the world, brutal.
 
I've never had any friends
 
I have never had friends
 
i lost all my friends a while ago
i was never close with anyone but i realised

you dont really need friends as a man

being lonely can be helpful
 
I never had friends, and i kinda hate them because all the guys bullied me, tried to look as a man by making fun of me in front of the foids!
And i knew they will betray me,stab me in the first second for a foid!
 
At the end of the day, the only person you really have is yourself
 
Mogs me for having friends
 
I only had online friends, I never had a friend in real life, but most of my online "friends" ended up abandoning me, I can never be friends with normies ever again.
 
Friends are fucking dicks they will only use you when they want you no friend cares about you they only care what you give to them
 
My only friends are my brothers on this forum
 
I only had online friends, I never had a friend in real life, but most of my online "friends" ended up abandoning me, I can never be friends with normies ever again.
 
Friends are fucking dicks they will only use you when they want you no friend cares about you they only care what you give to them
exactly, there's no such thing as a ''real friend''. its all a survival mechanism.
 
Haven't had friends for the past 6 years. To be fair, I was also a shit person to be around with. You will get used to be lonely.
 
And worst of all, my IRL friend group has been ignoring me for months. They found a new group to hang out with. At first, they still invited me, but now they go out every single fucking day without me. They don’t text me, they don’t invite me
Same shit happened to me in 2019. The irl friends I once had stopped hanging out with me all together and stopped inviting me to places.
 
So they weren't your friends after all.
 
i had some fake "friends" at first but now im lonely till 5 years
 
I lost my friends a few years after H.S, I never had online friends, people are assholes, I talk to chatgpt and post all kinds of shit everywhere on the internet trying to bring some meaning to my life.

O ver
 
your place in the hierarchy always finds you
 
This inevitably happens to all incels. It happens to some sooner than others, but it is bound to happen at some point. As an incel, your "friends" will move on from you when they find girlfriends or more popular peers. They will begin to see you as a social liability making them look bad. You just can't keep up with them. Even if they do keep you around in some capacity, they will begin to bully you and turn you into the butt of jokes. It's arguably better not to have friends at that point.

This is why I'm sick of being told that we should just look for friends if we can't find relationships. Even if we accept this false equivalence of friendships and romantic relationships, it still rests on false assumptions. If we can't attract a partner, how are we realistically supposed to make/keep friends? You need to appear normal and socially capable to have friends. Incels just don't typically have these qualities.
 
I've never had any friends irl, I only have two friends online and I'd rope if I lost either one of them
 

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