Blackpill This is what happens when you rely on personality to get a gf (blackpill reddit thread reminder)

[Total Imbecile]

I'm a therapist and in my late 30's. I'm starting to see more of my female friends and clients being described as "low libido" because they have no desire to have sex with their husband. Often I hear them say things like, "I wouldn't care if we never had sex again," or “I just never feel like having sex.” However, these same women either get into affairs and can't get enough of their AP, or they get divorced and then can’t get enough of their new boyfriend. That’s not really “low libido.”

Man here. One who recently had his wife say the exact phrases "I wouldn't care if we never had sex again." and “I just never feel like having sex.”. I can tell you that is one of the most painful things my wife has ever said to me. We've had our issues like all marriages but I didn't think it'd come to that.

My husband isn't perfect but i'm pretty lucky. He's a great guy, great father. Been married for 13 years. No sexual attraction to him at all even though he is handsome and fit. I don't think this can be fixed. I know I'm not LL, just no libido with him.

Absolutely 100%. My husband is kind, sweet, funny. Not without his faults like all of us. But I have ZERO physical attraction to him.
I thought I could be happy being with a man who was friendly, made me giggle and would never hurt me. I was wrong.

He is a good man and father. I just don't want him.

I thought I was alone in this. I see I am wrong. Yes, this is me. So much me. My husband is wonderful. Great partner, friend, father, provider. We never fight, we agree 100% on how to manage our finances, raise our children and always discuss big decisions together. My family loves him. My friends love him, many have told me that they would snatch him up in a second if he was free. But I have zero physical attraction for him. Zero. He was a safe rebound after a very rocky relationship. When we married he was what I needed - I felt safe, loved, stable. I needed that after my previous relationship.

REMINDER THAT EVERY TIME YOU SEE SOMEONE ON REDDIT BRAGGING ABOUT HAVING A GF DESPITE BEING SUB8 BECAUSE "THEY ARE FUNNY AND HAVE IT TOGETHER" THIS IS HOW THEIR RELATIONSHIP WILL ACTUALLY END

Source: reddit.com/r/adultery/comments/3mydvq/women_how_many_of_you_have_pretty_decent_husbands/

 

[acnescarcel]

jfl @ interpersonal relationships so flimsy

 

[ordinaryotaku]

Fucking potent suicide fuel. Jesus Christ. This is probably one of the most brutal things I've ever read.

 

[jerrycan dan]

marital rape wasn't a crime for most of history

 

[starystulejarz]

i need to start hookermaxxxing and stop worrying about retarded relationships. It's obvious if you study about arousal and dopamine it's bland as day that after every sex you will keep losing interest and pleasure from sex with the same person will be lesser and lesser, that's a way of nature to stop wasting your time with same mate and have sex with new temporary partner. So in the end relationships are not natural and never will be.

 

[Joelossus]

Imagine, escaping inceldom, just to end up in a relationship like this.

 

[lurker45]

Stuff like this makes me feel like a fucking idiot for having a libido. It's worthless.

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

It never vegan

 

[voiceoftreason]

-Brags about every positive trait her spouse has
BUT
-He doesn't give her the puss tingles.

This is what happens in a world where your primary instincts do not go unpunished! These whores can write walls of text dedicated to how they're turned off by their husbands and you'll have similar whores/cucks sympathising with them as if her spouse doesn't provide for her, as if her spouse doesn't protect her!

Tbh a little marital rape never hurt anyone....


Unless they deserved it.

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

Sounds like females cannot get oneitis.

Or if they do, it goes away quickly.

 

[LordDylan]

Wow, just the fact they admit he's a good man and father yet they'd leave him for chad. JFL

 

[ordinaryotaku]

bring it back tbh

 

[michael2222]

Imagine, escaping inceldom, just to end up in a relationship like this.

This is why no matter how desperate we may be as incels, we cannot simply accept whatever comes our way. I'll get called a fakecel, but getting nothing is better then being in a hellacious relationship like the ones described in the OP. I feel so bad for those normies.

Foids are such shit judges at choosing a partner. This has been proven over and over again. The guys are being used by these women as beta providers and emotional tampons.

Is there a single foid in existence that can rationally choose a good match for herself? I have my doubts. Bring back arranged marriages. Let the father of the foid choose if the guy should be with her. Foids should have no say. Neither the mother or possible bride

 

[Terranigma]

Remember that this is the ultimate outcome for lots and lots of betabuxing normies and every incel who somehow manage to ascend. Being in a dead bedroom relationship with a foid you are sexually attracted to while she is getting it on the side sounds like hell on earth.

Considering the ongoing feminization of society I wouldn't be surprised if this kind of model will be seen as ideal in a few decades.

Is there a single foid in existence that can rationally choose a good match for herself? I have my doubts. Bring back arranged marriages. Let the father of the foid choose if the guy should be with her. Foids should have no say. Neither the mother or possible bride

Also this.

 

[TheGambler2]

Reading stuff like this is lifefuel to me,knowing that a lot of men have pretty pathetic lives despite what they say

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Fucking potent suicide fuel. Jesus Christ. This is probably one of the most brutal things I've ever read.

It's over for gfcels

 

[CopeToNotRope]

(PDF) Sexual motivation and duration of partnership

PDF | The variation of sexual motivation with duration of partnership is analyzed in data from a survey of German students. The sample of 1865 includes only students aged 19-32 who reported to be heterosexual and to live in a steady partnership. Main results are (1) sexual activity...

www.researchgate.net

• Study shows that once a women 'bonds' or knows she has fully secured her mates commitment she will lose interest in sex. But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner. But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines, he added.

Women Struggle with Monogamy More Than Men

Since its beginnings, when it was called "sociobiology," evolutionary psychology has been wed to the theory that women are monogamous and men are...

www.slate.com

Women get tired of monogamy faster than men do.

 

[BlackpilledTruecel]

the copers on r/deadbedrooms always mention "low libido" for the foid not fucking them, but theres no such thing as that

 

[Mephisto]

It pains me just to read this. Quality suicide fuel.

 

[FinnCel]

Women are monsters

 

[StaroRavager]

SUB8

You were so close

 

[Hate_my_life]

(PDF) Sexual motivation and duration of partnership

PDF | The variation of sexual motivation with duration of partnership is analyzed in data from a survey of German students. The sample of 1865 includes only students aged 19-32 who reported to be heterosexual and to live in a steady partnership. Main results are (1) sexual activity...

www.researchgate.net

• Study shows that once a women 'bonds' or knows she has fully secured her mates commitment she will lose interest in sex. But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner. But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines, he added.

Women Struggle with Monogamy More Than Men

Since its beginnings, when it was called "sociobiology," evolutionary psychology has been wed to the theory that women are monogamous and men are...

www.slate.com

Women get tired of monogamy faster than men do.

It would make sense.
It's their nature to sleep around with as many men as possible, loyalty and foids do not go in sync.
It's like expecting a Lion to go vegetarian.

 

[The Abyss]

This is what happens when you give them endless rights & validation, like a junky that needs more & more then the harder stuff until they feel nothing or OD. The bar will go to 11.

 

[TheReaper]

muslims are allowed to beat their wives if they refuse to have sex. just saying...

 

[oldcel75]

Lifefuel. It means that I did not miss anything good.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

There's nothing that makes me feel more suicidal than reading about the state of marriage in the modern west. If I was married and my wife was "low libido" I'd either "rape" her or just divorce her because a marriage like that has no fucking point.

 

[Izayacel]

just persnalty br0

 

[Modus Coperandi]

SUB8

this bro.
it's over if you don't look sexually arousing. it won't matter how good you act.
why the fuck so many fags here still don't understand sub 8

 

[Johny.speiz]

Thanks to the Blackpill, it made myself aware, I will never fall in the trap of being an emotional tampon for foids (I was rarely, even before).

I'm just curious to know what these therapists have to offer to cure those women who have low libido with their husbands?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Women are monsters

 

[Michael15651]

Imagine, escaping inceldom, just to end up in a relationship like this.

No, I can't. I'd rather rope and set myself on fire.

 

[Insomniac]

marital rape wasn't a crime for most of history

marital rape is an oxymoron

 

[Macrocephalus]

Even if we do ascend we'll never get the romantic/affectionate/highly - sexual love of teenhood and early 20s. By the time we managed to ascend we'll only get the boring/disenchanted/asexual love of couples in their 40s

Stuff like this makes me feel like a fucking idiot for having a libido. It's worthless.

JFL at having a libido as a sub8 male

 

[Deleted member 16455]

So i guess this is what people mean by sub 8 theory

 

[BlackpillMafia]

marital rape wasn't a crime for most of history

And it shouldnt be a crime.

Also this is what happens when women have a choice to date and mess around with men before they marry someone. There is a reason why throughout most of human history women didnt have a choice on who they could marry. The reason why should be more obvious now than ever before.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Fucking potent suicide fuel. Jesus Christ. This is probably one of the most brutal things I've ever read.

marital rape wasn't a crime for most of history

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Reading stuff like this is lifefuel to me,knowing that a lot of men have pretty pathetic lives despite what they say

Why do you think they try to deny the blackpill at any costs? They would rope or er if they accepted the truth