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I Should KMS
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One of the phrases that helped me leave Lookism was: "Being 6-7/10 is worse than being 3/10 because if I were a 3/10, I would know it's over and be okay with it, but being a 6-7/10, I am so close but so far"
This is like saying: "Being nearsighted is worse than being an acidfaced tetraplegic because at least if I were one...".
No. Let me tell you, being a 2 or 3 out of 10, you aren't OKAY with it. You still want to improve or cling to some hope that some foid might find you attractive, but your ceiling for improvement is far lower. Being average-looking or just above is leagues better than being BELOW THE AVERAGE of what a human generally looks like! Telegraphing that your genetics are below average (which is what the face, height, hair, etc, does, rightly or wrongly) is not something you can just be OKAY with. It will always be something you wish you could change, even if it doesn't sting so much after a while.
@TheRealChincel you said something similar to this today (not exactly the same) and it triggered me. I'd kill to be average and have to """""""""""put up with""""""""""""" obese landwhales approaching me. Cuz then at least a human female would see me as a human man. And there are two things going on here.
- 5+ guys complaining that landwhales hit on them.
- sub5 guys upset that the landwhales/uglies/beckys that we approach reject us.
You 5+ guys are doing the rejecting. We sub5s are not. There is a difference.
This is like saying: "Being nearsighted is worse than being an acidfaced tetraplegic because at least if I were one...".
No. Let me tell you, being a 2 or 3 out of 10, you aren't OKAY with it. You still want to improve or cling to some hope that some foid might find you attractive, but your ceiling for improvement is far lower. Being average-looking or just above is leagues better than being BELOW THE AVERAGE of what a human generally looks like! Telegraphing that your genetics are below average (which is what the face, height, hair, etc, does, rightly or wrongly) is not something you can just be OKAY with. It will always be something you wish you could change, even if it doesn't sting so much after a while.
@TheRealChincel you said something similar to this today (not exactly the same) and it triggered me. I'd kill to be average and have to """""""""""put up with""""""""""""" obese landwhales approaching me. Cuz then at least a human female would see me as a human man. And there are two things going on here.
- 5+ guys complaining that landwhales hit on them.
- sub5 guys upset that the landwhales/uglies/beckys that we approach reject us.
You 5+ guys are doing the rejecting. We sub5s are not. There is a difference.