It's Over There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense

[The Darkcel]

Yes. I was never good socially and always came up short, especially around groups.. and if those groups involved females and my fellow brethren, I was easily mogged and excluded. With that said...

When I was 16 years old and despite having to learn how to "put myself out there" at work, my first and only job I've ever had, since I worked at a restaurant for over a decade, that shit teaches you a lesson or two about socializing, but... with foids? Hell no. And I can tell you... like a muscle, if you don't exercise it - it ceases to exist and you'll be weak (again). I noticed that as soon as I quit and sat around in my room being unemployed for the first couple of months, that shit hits you harder than a fucking rock. You feel like a retard all over again, as if you never learned to speak in the first place, as if all that experience you gained meant absolutely fucking nothing.

The fact of the matter is, anything can be learned and then unlearned as soon as there's a gap or some sort of hiatus in your stride, therefore, it's come to my attention... that life is meaningless because it all can be undone whenever the fuck "it" decides to. Nuff said.

 

[The Darkcel]

I'd say my main issues are having no social filter, randomly smiling/laughing, having a monotone voice and having views/interests that are not compatible with the normie hivemind

Having no filter has gotten me in trouble in the past, more than several times. I don't want to have to conform / change the way I talk nor my talking points, therefore, I resigned myself from any social traps (bars, restaurants, parks, etc.) I hate having to censor myself just because everyone around me is either a sheltered pussy or doesn't like me. Realizing you're the social pariah in a room is the best way to let yourself out the door without anyone having to kick you out otherwise. Just fuck 'em all.

 

[Friezacel]

Good face will bring people to you like a magnet. While incel is a magnet that is working in reverse it's making people to go away from you all thanks to the hideous face.

The reason most people here dont have friends is because they are non NT, not because of their face, unless they are deformed

 

[Friezacel]

Having no filter has gotten me in trouble in the past, more than several times. I don't want to have to conform / change the way I talk nor my talking points, therefore, I resigned myself from any social traps (bars, restaurants, parks, etc.) I hate having to censor myself just because everyone around me is either a sheltered pussy or doesn't like me. Realizing you're the social pariah in a room is the best way to let yourself out the door without anyone having to kick you out otherwise. Just fuck 'em all.

Same for me. I did and said some very low inhib things back in the day where im surprised nowadays how i didnt get beat up for that. NTs expect you to be fake and sugarcoat everything, they hate honest people

 

[Namtriz912]

You can pretty much socialise online now the same way you don't need to go go the store to buy some items.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

This is why we need a cure for autism.

 

[Cobscell]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

Use others to your advantage.

 

[Friezacel]

You can pretty much socialise online now the same way you don't need to go go the store to buy some items.

copium

 

[Namtriz912]

copium

You'll still gain the same feeling of socialising even if in small doses however not enjoying your time eats at you.

 

[nystagmuscel]

It means you have autism. They don't cure that shit they just let you suffER