It's Over There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense

[Friezacel]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

 

[Biowaste Removal]

It means you have autism. They don't cure that shit they just let you suffER

 

[Friezacel]

It means you have autism. They don't cure that shit they just let you suffER

Most people on this forum are incel because they are either autistic or have other non NT disabilities

 

[Kamanbert]

Yeah if i dont feel that natural flow then i dont bother. Tryharding is cringe. But as a lifelong loner you pretty much never feel it, past a certain age.

 

[Biowaste Removal]

TBH I've heard stories of former incels who managed to cure their mentalceldom via masking techniques, and training their mind. It's worth a try if you're really trying to ascend, but if you're physically deformed as well then yeah just rot.

 

[Thaway]

You are still coping about " muhsocializing skills"? Long way to go, young one.

 

[Friezacel]

TBH I've heard stories of former incels who managed to cure their mentalceldom via masking techniques, and training their mind. It's worth a try if you're really trying to ascend, but if you're physically deformed as well then yeah just rot.

Outliers will always exist, the majority of users here tried everything to ascend but still couldnt succeed

 

[Friezacel]

You are still coping about " muhsocializing skills"? Long way to go, young one.

NT is law

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

no one accepts how much fun and degenerate shit kids do at early ages nowadays, especially dumbass parents/teachers/etc who give advice like 'just be friendly and play together with the ball brooo' meanwhile the other kids are laughing at you because they're already getting laid and you aren't
from there it gets much worse because the gap only gets bigger and the cope from boomers only gets more intense to compensate

 

[Friezacel]

no one accepts how much fun and degenerate shit kids do at early ages nowadays, especially dumbass parents/teachers/etc who give advice like 'just be friendly and play together with the ball brooo' meanwhile the other kids are laughing at you because they're already getting laid and you aren't
from there it gets much worse because the gap only gets bigger and the cope from boomers only gets more intense to compensate

I fucking hate parents and relatives, they always pretend like its your active choice to be a KHHV subhuman without any friends and life experience

 

[Only In Death]

Only men are expected to have "socializing skills". Chadfishing has taught me that you don't need a persoynality as a femoid.

 

[Friezacel]

Only men are expected to have "socializing skills". Chadfishing has taught me that you don't need a persoynality as a femoid.

True, foids dont need to be NT to find a partner. But non NT foids usually have no friends

 

[InceldianWarrior]

What's the main problem for you frieza-chan ?
Is it that you have nothing to talk about ? Or is it about your manneurisms, speech patterns ect ? or both

I remember reading that 70% of NT communication is non-verbal. I think you could probably still learn it after adolescence, but nobody will have enough patience to help you learn properly.

For me I have absolutely nothing to talk about with normies, so I get very nervous trying to find something to say and it makes my body language even worse.

 

[Vlarke]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

Yes i accept i'm superior to cha dand normies

 

[Thaway]

NT is law

low IQ

 

[Thaway]

What's the main problem for you frieza-chan ?
Is it that you have nothing to talk about ? Or is it about your manneurisms, speech patterns ect ? or both

I remember reading that 70% of NT communication is non-verbal. I think you could probably still learn it after adolescence, but nobody will have enough patience to help you learn properly.

For me I have absolutely nothing to talk about with normies, so I get very nervous trying to find something to say and it makes my body language even worse.

100 percent of NT communication is height and bone structure.

 

[Freixel]

I learned to socialize and put on a normie mask when I was 14 and look at where I'm posting now, appearance is everything in today's society, don't burn your brain thinking about the "what if"

I'm not NT, but I can pretend to be, it doesn't mean anything if you're not HTN+

 

[InceldianWarrior]

100 percent of NT communication is height and bone structure.

true

 

[Friezacel]

What's the main problem for you frieza-chan ?
Is it that you have nothing to talk about ? Or is it about your manneurisms, speech patterns ect ? or both

I remember reading that 70% of NT communication is non-verbal. I think you could probably still learn it after adolescence, but nobody will have enough patience to help you learn properly.

For me I have absolutely nothing to talk about with normies, so I get very nervous trying to find something to say and it makes my body language even worse.

I'd say my main issues are having no social filter, randomly smiling/laughing, having a monotone voice and having views/interests that are not compatible with the normie hivemind

 

[Friezacel]

low IQ

NT pill deniers = foid worshippers

Nt pill denial just all ends up being a cope about muh ur ugly and not attractive to women. Yea bro totally the definition of things like autism, schizophrenia, adhd, OCD, etc all boil down to u supposedly being ugly & not getting pussy. Yea I was diagnosed (ASD + adhd) at 8 because I wasn’t...

incels.is

 

[Friezacel]

true

NT pill deniers = foid worshippers

Nt pill denial just all ends up being a cope about muh ur ugly and not attractive to women. Yea bro totally the definition of things like autism, schizophrenia, adhd, OCD, etc all boil down to u supposedly being ugly & not getting pussy. Yea I was diagnosed (ASD + adhd) at 8 because I wasn’t...

incels.is

 

[Friezacel]

I learned to socialize and put on a normie mask when I was 14 and look at where I'm posting now, appearance is everything in today's society, don't burn your brain thinking about the "what if"

I'm not NT, but I can pretend to be, it doesn't mean anything if you're not HTN+

then apparently you werent as good as masking as you think you are

 

[KillNiggers]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

Over for you if you need to learn that. Never even began I'd say.

 

[Fifita]

A grasshopper has better social skills than me

 

[Freixel]

then apparently you werent as good as masking as you think you are

Enough to have normie friends, not enough to attract a woman

 

[InceldianWarrior]

I'd say my main issues are having no social filter, randomly smiling/laughing, having a monotone voice and having views/interests that are not compatible with the normie hivemind

Filter, interests and maybe voice can be changed.
Random laughter/smiling and views can be masked.

Hypothetically, if a normie was patient enough to teach you, I think those could mostly be fixed.

I'm absolutely not a proponent of therapy, but in some specific cases I think it has potential to help. In your case some sort of social therapy group might be the best you can get, cause I doubt you will find a normie who likes you enough to help.
Of course it has potential to backfire if the therapist isn't professional or if the other group members are shit.

Idk if this counts as bluepilled drivel or not, I just don't like defeatism.

 

[Friezacel]

Enough to have normie friends, not enough to attract a woman

Were you a fully worth member of the friend group who was actually included in conversations and respected or were you the third wheel and the butt of the joke ?

 

[Friezacel]

Over for you if you need to learn that. Never even began I'd say.

true

 

[Freixel]

Were you a fully worth member of the friend group who was actually included in conversations and respected or were you the third wheel and the butt of the joke ?

I have a lasting friendship with my normi friends, they tell me their emotional problems (and also with women), I talk to them little and nothing about blackpill issues, although I have the freedom to criticize feminism all I want in front of them.

This group of friends never judged me.

Another group of ex-friends regularly asked me if I had had sex, ironically they are bigger losers than the first group. I don't hang out with these anymore.

 

[Friezacel]

Filter, interests and maybe voice can be changed.
Random laughter/smiling and views can be masked

Voice tone cant be changed to a noticable difference. And with interests: i would have to pretend to like something i dont like, which would make me unhappy in the long term. I managed to improve my social filter but its still terrible compared to NT fags.

Hypothetically, if a normie was patient enough to teach you, I think those could mostly be fixed.

Good luck finding the needle in the haystack

I'm absolutely not a proponent of therapy, but in some specific cases I think it has potential to help. In your case some sort of social therapy group might be the best you can get, cause I doubt you will find a normie who likes you enough to help.
Of course it has potential to backfire if the therapist isn't professional or if the other group members are shit.

I was forced to go to therapy as kid and it didnt do dogshit. A privileged NT will NEVER know how its like to be an autistic man, especially if the therapist in question is a foid

Idk if this counts as bluepilled drivel or not, I just don't like defeatism.

Oh i was also like that when joining this site, but over time you will realise that there is no hope left. Just give it some time...

 

[Friezacel]

I have a lasting friendship with my normi friends, they tell me their emotional problems (and also with women), I talk to them little and nothing about blackpill issues, although I have the freedom to criticize feminism all I want in front of them.

This group of friends never judged me.

Another group of ex-friends regularly asked me if I had had sex, ironically they are bigger losers than the first group. I don't hang out with these anymore.

mogs 90% of .is

 

[Freixel]

mogs 90% of .is

I know that my situation is not the worst, I also know that if I had been born in the USA or in any country in northern Europe with my exact appearance, my life would be hell on earth.

But I really empathize with extremely lonely incels who don't know what it's like to have a friend, I was in that situation too.

 

[InceldianWarrior]

I was forced to go to therapy as kid and it didnt do dogshit.

What kind of therapy ? Just the classic 1 on 1 with the therapist or did you do other stuff ?

 

[gymcel122]

It means you have autism. They don't cure that shit they just let you suffER

I kinda cured mine ngl atleast can make friends and not be treated like shit

 

[turbosperg]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

This is the arrested development pill.

You need experience to get experience.

Lonely childhood entails lonely adolescence

Which entails zero social skills with which to build a social circle in adulthood.

And it only snowballs from there.

 

[Friezacel]

What kind of therapy ? Just the classic 1 on 1 with the therapist or did you do other stuff ?

Mostly 1 on 1, but also with another Aspie a few times

 

[Friezacel]

I kinda cured mine ngl atleast can make friends and not be treated like shit

Then your autism was likely very mild

 

[Friezacel]

This is the arrested development pill.

You need experience to get experience.

Lonely childhood entails lonely adolescence

Which entails zero social skills with which to build a social circle in adulthood.

And it only snowballs from there.

 

[InceldianWarrior]

This is the arrested development pill.

You need experience to get experience.

Lonely childhood entails lonely adolescence

Which entails zero social skills with which to build a social circle in adulthood.

And it only snowballs from there.

it's over

 

[Puer aeternus]

There is no point in trying to socialise after adolescense. Socilaising is something you are supposed to learn naturally, like learning to walk, speak or eat is learnt naturally. Nobody is watching videos on how to eat or how to walk. If you watch videos on how to socialise with people then its over for you and there isnt much you can do about it.

I agree, with its natural to being human, but socialisation and adolescense go hand in hand, unless you want to be an old grumpy man by 30

 

[Puer aeternus]

This is the arrested development pill.

You need experience to get experience.

Lonely childhood entails lonely adolescence

Which entails zero social skills with which to build a social circle in adulthood.

And it only snowballs from there.

The nearest socialisation i got outside of family was talking about crypto with forklifters.

 

[InceldianWarrior]

Mostly 1 on 1, but also with another Aspie a few times

Well, if you ever feel like trying again maybe you can focus on working on social skills.
I'm assuming when you went as a child it was mostly just talking about your autism and how you felt (this is useless).

 

[Friezacel]

Well, if you ever feel like trying again maybe you can focus on working on social skills.
I'm assuming when you went as a child it was mostly just talking about your autism and how you felt (this is useless).

Like i said, no point in doing so. I take every chance i get at socializing and i always end up getting ignored, no matter what i do, say or how i act

 

[InceldianWarrior]

Like i said, no point in doing so. I take every chance i get at socializing and i always end up getting ignored, no matter what i do, say or how i act

the entire point of paying the therapist is so he can't ignore you.
You know yourself best so I will stop insisting for now.

 

[Friezacel]

the entire point of paying the therapist is so he can't ignore you.
You know yourself best so I will stop insisting for now.

We didnt pay, insurance did

 

[caineturbat2003]

having views/interests that are not compatible with the normie hivemind

usually normie opinions are retarded and bluepilled af, i wouldn't bother trying to make friends with a bunch of cucks that dont have anything of value besides their delusional bluepilled thinking. i mostly hang out with either redpilled guys (even tho some of their beliefs are stupid, but at least they also acknowledge that having a bluepilled mindset will get you nowhere, and that feminism is a cancer) or some blackpilled guys such as yourselves

 

[InceldianWarrior]

i wouldn't bother trying to make friends with a bunch of cucks that dont have anything of value besides their delusional bluepilled thinking

Just have no friends theory