therapy is a fucking joke its so stupid why would anyone willingly decide to go to a stupid asshole who doesn't really care and will shame you if they view you as dangerous I think only stupid fucks enjoy therapy
tbh
You pay them btw
Therapists act like they care but they’re really only in it for the money. “I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, but please come back next session, I want more money”
they dont even understand you, it's so fucking useless
Always get a male therapist. That's my rule. Preferably someone around your age instead of a bluepilled Boomer. A female therapist won't understand inceldom or male issues. Also make sure the therapist you go to has a lot of experience treating the specific condition you have (like OCD or whatever).
Therapy, specially with medication, is a fast lane to suicide.
Most of these medications have suicidal tendencies as a side effect.
Dont take it.
Most of these medications have suicidal tendencies as a side effect.
Dont take it.
I think that the idea of therapy is evil. Because 1) I am Human, not a set of stories, and not a "patient" who needs a cure.I am completely sovereign with a mind thats private. The boundaries I build around it are not symptoms or defenses, they are what lets me exist as an individual. My problem with therapy or how most people think of the mind is that it introduces the belief of MY internal reality being up for debate. if a therapist or stranger looks at me says "You're not x, you're y"(eg: You're not independent, you're avoidant) they take my own understanding of MY life and REPLACE it with a label that fits their textbook. This isnt really helping?
2) If I define myself as independent, then that is the truth of my existence. Someone else having authority over my feelings and claiming they have a more honest or rational view of MY life than I do is peak arrogance. They are completely guessing. This is called expertise but is basically just a couple educated guesses. You dont see this anywhere else: If a doctor guesses wrong about a physical ailment, they could create a scar, and if a therapist guesses wrong about who I am, they could decrease my stability.
3) Most things therapists call trauma are the very things that hold you together. Your pain is a signal and the ways you adapted it are there for a reason(imagine an incel who keeps trying to talk to people even though they openly mock him). I would much rather live with MY issues than to be part of someone elses solution. The second you let someone else define YOUR "root causes" or explain YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR to you, you give up your sovereignity and let them be the author of your identity.
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I want to be able to look at MY thoughts and know they are MINE, nothing installed by a third party. MY identity is not a public project to WORK ON, it is mine. I want to define myself and wont give that up for "healing" .
2) If I define myself as independent, then that is the truth of my existence. Someone else having authority over my feelings and claiming they have a more honest or rational view of MY life than I do is peak arrogance. They are completely guessing. This is called expertise but is basically just a couple educated guesses. You dont see this anywhere else: If a doctor guesses wrong about a physical ailment, they could create a scar, and if a therapist guesses wrong about who I am, they could decrease my stability.
3) Most things therapists call trauma are the very things that hold you together. Your pain is a signal and the ways you adapted it are there for a reason(imagine an incel who keeps trying to talk to people even though they openly mock him). I would much rather live with MY issues than to be part of someone elses solution. The second you let someone else define YOUR "root causes" or explain YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR to you, you give up your sovereignity and let them be the author of your identity.
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I want to be able to look at MY thoughts and know they are MINE, nothing installed by a third party. MY identity is not a public project to WORK ON, it is mine. I want to define myself and wont give that up for "healing" .
Therapists aren't judged by real objective criteria. They can always blame you for lack of progress so they aren't really responsible for anything. Can you imagine if a car mechanic didn't fix a car? Or a surgeon didn't repair your heart? They would be fired... but therapists never have to fix any of your issues and they actually prolong your issues to keep you as a patient longer. They are mostly unproductive social parasites. It's just rent extraction for women who want to be told they are right about everything. I know I am mentally fucked and yet there is nothing a therapist can do to fix it. I guess i am just retarded
Have you ever been able to find a therapist who specializes in inceldom? I've never heard of one yet supposedly we are so problematic and need to fixed
Therapy reinforces wishful thinking. Basically, they tell you the "problem" and how to cope with it, but never how to solve it which makes it useless.
tbhngl
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