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I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
 
Why do you keep doing the therapy? Just quit it.
 
Why do you keep doing the therapy? Just quit it.
I shit you not they kicked me out because im incurable. They gaslit me tho and made me think im better off now jfl.
 
just suicide already. life has no value. you don't have to accept it.
 
Im gonna try therapy soon. But dunno about medication
 
Im gonna try therapy soon. But dunno about medication
I’ve been doing therapy it’s so fucking shit it makes me want to kill myself even more but def don’t go for medication it’s even worse
 
Im gonna try therapy soon
You shouldn't. Even if it's paid for by the government, it's just a waste of time. There really isn't anything that anyone can tell you that will make your situation better. They won't share with you some secret strategy or piece of advice that will make your life better in any way.
 
I’ve been doing therapy it’s so fucking shit it makes me want to kill myself even more but def don’t go for medication it’s even worse
Medication will ruin you and your life.
 
You shouldn't. Even if it's paid for by the government, it's just a waste of time. There really isn't anything that anyone can tell you that will make your situation better. They won't share with you some secret strategy or piece of advice that will make your life better in any way.
Nothing can be done if the damage has been done during your childhood and formative years.

Such has happened to me. I did not even notice it but it has actually caused my burnout and from what I understood it will never go away.

I may recover a bit to get back to normal for a while, but because of my past I am prone to burning out fast.

Thanks to my idiotic parents.

This has already been explained and confirmed by psychologists.

I will not take their medications though. They fon't make the problems go away.
 
I know it's not the same thing but I'm thinking about going to a psychiatrist. I have social anxiety and suffer from post event rumination all my life. I don't trust those faggots but a friend online suggested it to me after I told him about my rumination. He said it never really goes away but his rumination and anxiety is a lot better now that he's medicated. So I'll see. Sorry to hear that therapy hasn't worked, I hate people who push it like if it's some miracle that will cure you.
 
Too fucking pussy to do it. Don't have access to a firearm. Asphyxiation requires insane determination.
Understandable. But don't suggest brocels to kill themselves, man.
We are all in this shit together. At least show some empathy towards your bros here.

I too did therapy. Never believed in it. I know the causes / roots for my problems, but those cannot be fixed anymore.

The things I could do to make myself feel somewhat better would land me in jail.

There really is no way out for me.

I cannot even talk about the obvious with therapista as they will immediately call the cops on me.

None of them genuinely care, or else they would ACTUALLY listen to you and take you seriousely.

Like, one psychologist even told me that I did not need meds and should just go back to work. Work would heal me.

Fucking boomer scum, ngl.
 
No, it does not work...

I had a few different therapists between my years in high school and 2015... I am still a kissless virgin. Society does not want to admit that therapy won't solve foids not wanting to have sex with a heterosexual male.
 
Therapy is a bastardization of psychology. Back in the day psychologists used to be some of the coolest scientists—they would take retards and insane freaks and mentally torture them for hours just to gauge their response and form a theory about the human mind from it.
 
I only ever found one therapist that I liked, and even he wasn't ultimately that helpful, because it didn't really change the way my life is going. he just made my day better sometimes. but of course he got really popular and it would take months to get an appointment with him, so it just became pointless. therapy is overrated and just a suggestion normies like to throw around anytime they don't agree with/understand someone.
 
I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
Mine told me "I'm not a dating coach bro" and "it doesn't matter what people think"
 
Why can't you just not ruminate desu?
It's involuntarily. It's comes and agos and it hits pretty hard sometimes. I feel like I've admitted defeat to myself by even considering going to a psychiatrist. It's never been so over.
 
I imagine it works case to case. One of my therapist was an inexperienced female tadpole, so I didnt get much out of it, though if it was an old Jew, maybe I would've gotten much more out of it.
 
I remember when I thought that therapy could have helped me, I was so off the mark thinking that the problem was inside instead of outside; therapy is meant for people who already have okay lives and struggle with psychological issues, but I am not like that, if I was normally integrated in society, if I had friends, a girlfriend, and the possibility to get a job, I would be much happier and most of my problems would be fixed.

Going to therapy as an incel is victim blaming.
 
no therapy for ur face
 
Waste of time, there's a reason why foids love therapy
 
I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
It's never going to work
Psychologists just sit there doing long sessions of gaslighting without caring about you, that's not the solution
 
Therapy is a bastardization of psychology. Back in the day psychologists used to be some of the coolest scientists—they would take retards and insane freaks and mentally torture them for hours just to gauge their response and form a theory about the human mind from it.
Yeah therapy is just a global psyop that normies fall prey to. Carl Jung was based though he thought outside the box and tried to understand the human mind in every way imaginable unlike every foid/normie who becomes a psychology major because they're "empaths and love people" jfl
 
I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
Same i even got put in some extreme therapy programs but all they do is try and give you meds to mind control you and say stuff like “so when someones beating u up how does that make u feel” and its like obviously really shitty u retarded bitch
 
Why can't you just not ruminate desu?
I have rumination with OCD. The thing is you can't control the rumination. The only thing that helps much is a benzo like clonazepam although I guess SSRIs help some people. You're supposed to just let the thoughts come and go with rumination and not fight them but it's hard.
 
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Yeah therapy is just a global psyop that normies fall prey to. Carl Jung was based though he thought outside the box and tried to understand the human mind in every way imaginable unlike every foid/normie who becomes a psychology major because they're "empaths and love people" jfl
yeah, it shows how psychotic and grandiose people are. They don't actually care about other people; they just want to feel special.
 
I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
Instead of wasting money on therapy.
You could have got a decent surgery to fix your falios
 
You shouldn't. Even if it's paid for by the government, it's just a waste of time. There really isn't anything that anyone can tell you that will make your situation better. They won't share with you some secret strategy or piece of advice that will make your life better in any way.
 
therapy is ASS its total shit for dumb cucks who are low iq only female blue haird sluts believe in that bullshit
 
I went to a therapist for 4 years it never worked. Since day 1 i told them that im depressed and chronically lonely every day and i want a girlfriend. 4 years later im still a unlovable loser whos barely even spoke to any females in real life and i have to start to accept that im gonna die lonely. I dont think my therapists ever once helped me out at all. Im more miserable today than i was 4 years ago when i started, ive become extremely blackpilled and i lost all hope of ever ascending.
therapy is cope ngl
 

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