I might just have been extremly lucky. Btw it's my therapist, not psychiatrist, psychiatrist are the ones perscribing all the risky medication and they have a very surface level picture of you, I see that one like once every 2 months and she knows very little about me.
Things going as well with my therapist as they did also I think (maybe arrogantly so) had to do with me being a high IQ autist and approaching the whole thing very seriously:
a) I waited till he got to know me as an extremly rational autist capable of cognitive decoupling on even very traumatic topics. Think it was 5 months into therapy I started talking about difficult topics like Incels.
b) Brought a whole folder with printed out studies, quotes, surveys, etc. to the session. I would basically only show provable facts for a bit while being conservative with how I interpreted them and slowly get to the punch line. Also intermixxed some more funny / entertaining elements like the old tinder experiments to keep him interested.
c) Got a 2 hour session and still was mostly done showing how men are innately "poor" on the dating market, dating apps make the competition global, what women care about seems to be mostly hard to fake signals of genetic fitness, race differences in attraction, dark triad stuff and then slowly started talking about how miserable many young men were and what was going on in incel circles. Obviously no slurs + no losing control and getting emotional.
d) In later sessions we talked about more and more stuff and after he had learned that I could be relied on to be reasonable and could back up my claims I started getting to more subjective stuff, how much pain it was causing me both being alone and also seeing other men abandoned like this in a society proclaiming to prioritize fairness and equality, etc. It basically went more easily from there, with him just trusting me and being understanding and us talking about possible solutions like prostituion or trying specific type of dating apps for autists and all that he could think off. I told him how humiliating dating apps would be for me but I also didn't want to appear uncooperative and one more bad experience wasn't gonna change much anyways.
I have another plan laid out if I ever need to convince someone of race realism:
1. show pitbull / dog stats about how 2 breeds dominate all dog attacks on humans ->
2. show stats about how men are 95% of shot by cop victims & dominate violent crime stats in every country ever all throughout time -> people intuitvely know that these dog breeds and men are more violent innately, which means they already subconciously accept the possibility of genes affecting aggression, and then I would start with ->
3. showing stats about how blacks are more violent (without yet mentioning my proposed explanation), I would preemptively counter all the excuses usually made by ->
4. showing stats about how rich blacks more violent than poor whites, high IQ blacks more violent than low IQ whites, etc. ->
5. at some point comes the stat that compares blacks in USA with all the blacks around the world in differend countries and shows they fit right in in terms of crimes commited with blacks in 3rd world countries, from which follows ->
6. that any enviormental explanation proposes blacks have as bad an enviorment in a first world country (USA) as in the thrid world countries around the world.
Well, this got a bit longer than intended, but I think you can see I invested quite a bit of effort into making my chances at success as high as possible. I enjoyed it as well, since I could finally use all the studies and graphs and arguments my autistic ass had collected all throughout my time online.
