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Therapists don’t actually do anything

khdude

khdude

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I have tried like 7 therapists and basically all of them even refused to acknowledge my problems. These people are not supportive and are some of the most mentally ill people I’ve ever met. 3 of them talked more about themselves than about me. I’m pretty sure they don’t get any practical experience in school and just finish tests or something because this is ridiculous.

And you’re beyond screwed if this guy doesn’t personally like you. He will avoid talking about actual issues like the plague. He just wants to get paid for you talking about your day and mentioning that you stubbed your toe. They don’t actually do anything if you’re very mentally ill. This is for people who are already neurotypical, at which point, why are you on there??

With one of them I was talking about my relationship issues and negative thoughts, and the guy straight up said there are people with limbs missing. Like dude, do you only help people who are actually mutilated?

The only good experience I’ve had has been with a private life coach, I think since insurance covers therapy they don’t try and people just keep coming to therapy because it’s free. I got some good advice from the life coach since he seemed to speak from experience but he was more productivity oriented than mental health.

What are your experiences like?
What are better alternatives to therapy?
 
same i just finished 12 sessions with one and i'm starting a new one but its litch not gonna fix anything
 
Their job is to create working work force, not make you happy
 
therapy is a scam, none of those retards actually know anything about mental health, they dont really understand what it means to suffer and be hopeless, its not something you just get because you read a book on it. you might find a good one that seem like they care but at the end of the day they just have a job to do. once you understand that, all their words seem like bullshit pandering. ive never being satisfied talking to these people and ultimately feels like a waste of time.
 
One of these fags called me autistic multiple times to my face. Like once maybe, multiple times the guy is just insulting me and getting paid for it.
 
therapy is a scam, none of those retards actually know anything about mental health, they dont really understand what it means to suffer and be hopeless, its not something you just get because you read a book on it. you might find a good one that seem like they care but at the end of the day they just have a job to do. once you understand that, all their words seem like bullshit pandering. ive never being satisfied talking to these people and ultimately feels like a waste of time.
 
I have tried like 7 therapists and basically all of them even refused to acknowledge my problems. These people are not supportive and are some of the most mentally ill people I’ve ever met. 3 of them talked more about themselves than about me. I’m pretty sure they don’t get any practical experience in school and just finish tests or something because this is ridiculous.

And you’re beyond screwed if this guy doesn’t personally like you. He will avoid talking about actual issues like the plague. He just wants to get paid for you talking about your day and mentioning that you stubbed your toe. They don’t actually do anything if you’re very mentally ill. This is for people who are already neurotypical, at which point, why are you on there??

With one of them I was talking about my relationship issues and negative thoughts, and the guy straight up said there are people with limbs missing. Like dude, do you only help people who are actually mutilated?

The only good experience I’ve had has been with a private life coach, I think since insurance covers therapy they don’t try and people just keep coming to therapy because it’s free. I got some good advice from the life coach since he seemed to speak from experience but he was more productivity oriented than mental health.

What are your experiences like?
What are better alternatives to therapy?
drugs
 
I mean they tell me to kill myself sometimes id say thats something
 
Which ones
none, they dont help in the long run. some of them ironically made shit worse, or create a dependency that makes living normal life without them impossible
 
got some good advice from the life coach since he seemed to speak from experience but he was more productivity oriented than mental health.
What good advice did you get from him?

I can only confirm your observations about therapy. My therapist just gave me the most milktoast advice and went on odd tangents all the time. She was not really interested in me or she did not know how to solve my problems. Probably both.
 
Eat less go gym NO SURRENDER
 
Therapy is just a feel-good scam for people with nonissues like foids. They can't relate, they can't help, and most of them will pathologize you just for being honest about how bad things really are. Complete waste of time and money.
 
What good advice did you get from him?

I can only confirm your observations about therapy. My therapist just gave me the most milktoast advice and went on odd tangents all the time. She was not really interested in me or she did not know how to solve my problems. Probably both.
This is gonna sound gay and basic, but he basically told me to take some time for myself and think about life, where I am right now, why I’m doing what I’m doing etc. I sent him my notes and he gave me some feedback which did open my eyes a bit. I’m too ND to actually do the productivity stuff he told me about tho. I’d like to keep it at that and not make it too personal.
 
Therapists are all scammers, they are paid to do litteraly nothing
 
Therapy is just a feel-good scam for people with nonissues like foids. They can't relate, they can't help, and most of them will pathologize you just for being honest about how bad things really are. Complete waste of time and money.
 
you fell for the therapy scam 7... times...? At some point you got to admit you're a dumbass, I thought it was common knowledge therapy is bullshit, I mean on an instinctual level everyone over the age of 10 should know this.
 
This forum is the best Therapy for incels like us
 
Found out water is H₂O
 
Water Douse GIF
 
you fell for the therapy scam 7... times...? At some point you got to admit you're a dumbass, I thought it was common knowledge therapy is bullshit, I mean on an instinctual level everyone over the age of 10 should know this.
Yeah I’m a dumbass, you must be too if you assumed I didn’t know. Like I said, it’s free so I tried different ways of presenting myself to see if I could get anything out of it. They do have resources as social workers that they could refer me to even if they don’t actually do their job. I’ve gotten help regarding employment from them.
 
Yeah I’m a dumbass, you must be too if you assumed I didn’t know. Like I said, it’s free so I tried different ways of presenting myself to see if I could get anything out of it. They do have resources as social workers that they could refer me to even if they don’t actually do their job. I’ve gotten help regarding employment from them.
So you knew it was a scam? What do you mean you got help with employment. What resources did she refer you to, like cooking classes?
 
So you knew it was a scam? What do you mean you got help with employment. What resources did she refer you to, like cooking classes?
Why tf would you get a female therapist? He referred me to a service that helped me find a suitable job and some pay and transportation help in the meantime.
 
therapy is a scam, none of those retards actually know anything about mental health, they dont really understand what it means to suffer and be hopeless, its not something you just get because you read a book on it. you might find a good one that seem like they care but at the end of the day they just have a job to do. once you understand that, all their words seem like bullshit pandering. ive never being satisfied talking to these people and ultimately feels like a waste of time.
 
i can't believe people are actually blackpilled and going to therapists

they literally give you scripted answers. this has been known knowledge for years. They're good if you're a bluepilled cuck but they aint gonna do anything once you realize your life was determined at birth
 
>I have tried like 7 therapists and basically all of them even refused to acknowledge my problems

Welcome to therapy lmao. It's pretty much their job to deny everything you say, force you to jump through insane hoops to prove your situation then once you do that they just say "nah, didn't count, you need to do it again or try this different thing, I know you didn't do it right because it didn't work out the way I said it would so clearly that means you're the problem and it isn't my advice that doesn't work".

It's the fucking normie effort treadmill that everyone tries to put you on only now you're paying for it and the person wasting your time is financially incentivized to keep wasting it and denying your experiences.

you fell for the therapy scam 7... times...? At some point you got to admit you're a dumbass, I thought it was common knowledge therapy is bullshit, I mean on an instinctual level everyone over the age of 10 should know this.

Often therapy is forced, it doesn't matter if it's a scame because we're forced to go along with it.
 
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Therapy is for cucks
 
These people are some of the most mentally ill people I’ve ever met.
talked more about themselves than about me.
truly it seems like this is the only time they get to do so and they don’t want to help me get better but rather to have a conversation they think is interesting
 
I have tried like 7 therapists and basically all of them even refused to acknowledge my problems. These people are not supportive and are some of the most mentally ill people I’ve ever met. 3 of them talked more about themselves than about me. I’m pretty sure they don’t get any practical experience in school and just finish tests or something because this is ridiculous.

And you’re beyond screwed if this guy doesn’t personally like you. He will avoid talking about actual issues like the plague. He just wants to get paid for you talking about your day and mentioning that you stubbed your toe. They don’t actually do anything if you’re very mentally ill. This is for people who are already neurotypical, at which point, why are you on there??

With one of them I was talking about my relationship issues and negative thoughts, and the guy straight up said there are people with limbs missing. Like dude, do you only help people who are actually mutilated?

The only good experience I’ve had has been with a private life coach, I think since insurance covers therapy they don’t try and people just keep coming to therapy because it’s free. I got some good advice from the life coach since he seemed to speak from experience but he was more productivity oriented than mental health.

What are your experiences like?
What are better alternatives to therapy?

I went to therapy for a year but it was basically useless. After a while I kept wondering why there weren't any goals we were working toward? There were no goals. It was just come in and talk about whatever you want for an hour. But I'll admit it was nice being able to open up to someone about things. I couldn't talk to my mom, she just didn't understand, wasn't helpful and it was awkward.

I think talk therapy can be good if you have nobody else to talk to and you need to confide in someone.
 
Welcome to therapy lmao. It's pretty much their job to deny everything you say, force you to jump through insane hoops to prove your situation then once you do that they just say "nah, didn't count, you need to do it again or try this different thing, I know you didn't do it right because it didn't work out the way I said it would so clearly that means you're the problem and it isn't my advice that doesn't work".

As they say on Reddit, the gaslighting and gatekeeping is crazy.
 
I got some good advice from the life coach since he seemed to speak from experience but he was more productivity oriented than mental health.
Being productive is good for your mental health.
 
I went to therapy for a year but it was basically useless. After a while I kept wondering why there weren't any goals we were working toward? There were no goals. It was just come in and talk about whatever you want for an hour. But I'll admit it was nice being able to open up to someone about things. I couldn't talk to my mom, she just didn't understand, wasn't helpful and it was awkward.

I think talk therapy can be good if you have nobody else to talk to and you need to confide in someone.
I wish I had that experience tbh, therapists have been ruder to me than the people I know irl. They didn’t wanna handle my emotional baggage
 
The last foid "therapist" I had almost a decade ago was highly unprofessional and useless. I was more mature than her. I cringe at the thought of being associated with that but I did it for the NEETBUX
 
I’m pretty sure they don’t get any practical experience in school and just finish tests or something because this is ridiculous.
They have sex and fun in college and just learn what they need to learn to get the degree, i wish i had understood that sooner, i think therapist / psychiatrist are scammers and now i would love to be one of them.

All you have to do is fake listen to your client about their life problem, it's litteraly a fake job made up by jews to lay down and make money listening to goy poor life.
 
They have sex and fun in college and just learn what they need to learn to get the degree, i wish i had understood that sooner, i think therapist / psychiatrist are scammers and now i would love to be one of them.

All you have to do is fake listen to your client about their life problem, it's litteraly a fake job made up by jews to lay down and make money listening to goy poor life.
 
Therapy is a joke.
It only works for retarded foids and normfags who lack thinking skills.
Any intelligent, self-sufficient incel will not benefit from therapy.
 
Thats how i become cbt therapist meme
I will post the classic why foids are becoming theRAPISTS they really think they have suffered worse than us, while in reality it's less than 0.00000001% of our daily suffering, those worthles bitches think they know everything about mental illness just because they got slightly nervous once in their life :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy:
 
View attachment 1513010I will post the classic why foids are becoming theRAPISTS they really think they have suffered worse than us, while in reality it's less than 0.00000001% of our daily suffering, those worthles bitches think they know everything about mental illness just because they got slightly nervous once in their life :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelskek: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy: :foidSoy:
 
Yeah, most of this community has been a better therapist to me than those retards. I’m happy these circles exist so I can actually vent and talk about my problems.
 
Of course it is. Vent to chatgpt instead.
 

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