Experiment [Theory][Encore]You have your perfect, idealized woman who's loyal and loves you for life, but...

[TBlast]

You essentially described the modern woman.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Not even sexual to you?

Correct.

I don't see how not being sexual whatsoever is idyllic. The ideal is to have the sexual desires you presumably have fulfilled with an attractive woman who wants to have sex with you, and for that to be possible she has to be sexual. Assuming you'd want to have sex with her, wouldn't you want her to have sexual inclination provided that this was directed to you? The alternative is she's just a passive actor during sex, right?

My Idea of idyllic love doesn't involve sex, I'd prefer things to be innocent and pure, I don't know how else to explain it. While I no longer really have a libido since upgrading my hair loss to dutasteride and spiro 9 years ago, even back when I had a libido, if I had a huge crash on a girl I wouldn't think about her sexually. This is a more common thing than you think and there's even a name for it, it's called madonna-whore complex.

I don't want to assume anything about you, but I would be curious to hear your thoughts on asexuality. I don't even know if mods have a position on this forum as to whether self-identified asexual men are allowed here, provided they are 18 or over and aren't something other than heterosexual. I think this should be allowed, it doesn't break the LGBT rule (which I completely agree with) because asexuality need not be associated with LGBT, it's just that certain LGBTists decided to do that. I don't agree with their framing of asexuality, for reasons I can explain later.

To be clear in no uncertain terms, I'm not asexual. While the drugs I'm on nuked my sex drive, considering the large amount of hentai I consumed throughout my teenage years, it would be absurd to claim such an identity.

That out of the way, I don't see "heteroromantic asexual men" any differently from just regular "heterosexual men". If a heteroromantic asexual man is an ugly guy who wants a gf but can't get one, he belongs here just as much as anyone else (provided he's also blackpilled). You could argue he wouldn't fit the very literal definition of "incel" ("involuntarily celibate"), but we allow escortcels here. And think of it this way, would you want a KHHV with an online gf here? I sure as hell wouldn't and would ban him. Inceldom is about a lack of validation above anything else.

So while it's true that the rules page technically says "This is a heterosexual male-only forum", an adult heteroromantic asexual would be allowed under the spirit of the rule.

Personally I've always believed in enforcing the spirit of the rule, rather than following the rules to the letter. If you do the latter, it just gives ammo to bad faith users to play "rules lawyer" and be as disruptive as humanly possible with without ACKSHUALLE breaking the rules.

 

[guitarcel]

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I'd rather keep my dignity.

 

[Eremetic]

do i have to date her for life or can she be in love can i date her then break up on the last day or can i only go through the experience once

 

[based_meme]

do i have to date her for life or can she be in love can i date her then break up on the last day or can i only go through the experience once

FOR LIFE

 

[Mecoja]

Not a chance. Even without the extreme degeneracy, one cheating is one too many.

 

[Eremetic]

@based_meme it says love not date for life

 

[based_meme]

@based_meme it says love not date for life

OK, lawyerbro, you're right. It should be understood to mean that this is a lifetime arrangement.

 

[Eremetic]

OK, lawyerbro, you're right. It should be understood to mean that this is a lifetime arrangement.

Bro I can't cope with the fact that a fucking Abo foid humiliated me and I did nothing about it. Idk why I let that slide, if some foid acted that way now she'd be die. I can't cope with the fact that a foid I was attracted to made me her cuck.

I can't cope. I was a cuck