Is that one never gets the chance to understand how meaningless sex is/relationships are.
An incel, reading this sentence has an automatic reaction, an unreflective, pre-linguistic reaction, like a hiccup, his mind automatically jumps to : Cope, GiGacope, sex is the most important thing in the world, it gives you unqualified happiness, permanent felicity, total ecstasy, maybe even Nirvana, if you have sex a sudden caption appears "Life Won" and you never get sick again, never die, your chance of having cancer or a testicular torsion is nill (i had a testicular torsion, wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy).
He doesn't even take a moment to reflect on the fact that it keeps you enslaved, an orgasm lasts 1 second, what a joke, there is pressure before the orgasm, you strive like a monkey, enslaved to animal pulsions and instincts you had no say in, untill you release that pressure. And there is of course the ego boost.
It's like those of us who never had money to buy alcohol when they were young, they fantasized about how amazing, great, fantastic it would be if they just had enough money to buy alcohol, and maybe coke.
But those of us who had that money, what did they get for the alcoholic out cocked out nights ? Addiction ? Fleeting memories ? Running after a chimera ?
The Buddha talked about the allure and the danger of sensuality. The allure is that you see a beautiful girl, a young girl, and it's mesmerizing, enticing, it gets you hooked. It gives you a fleeting pleasure.
The danger ? By getting hooked, you become enslaved to your instincts, focused on the body, on youth, on a fleeting moment, so - for a normie - you become fearful of death, fearful of aging, addicted to salivating after/grasping/running after, you stress yourself about illness, about death, about losing that access. For an incel you become stressfull, agitated, depressed about never having that access to begin with.
You are like the person who salivates after alcohol but never have the money to buy it.
Of course sex gives immense pleasure, huge ego boost, no denying that.
But few of us can understand that pleasure and ego boosts just keep us enslaved, hooked, fearful and agitated.
That was the buddha message. Or what most of people here would consider as "Cope".
This topic is best contemplated directly after an orgasm, once the pressure has been relieved.
An incel, reading this sentence has an automatic reaction, an unreflective, pre-linguistic reaction, like a hiccup, his mind automatically jumps to : Cope, GiGacope, sex is the most important thing in the world, it gives you unqualified happiness, permanent felicity, total ecstasy, maybe even Nirvana, if you have sex a sudden caption appears "Life Won" and you never get sick again, never die, your chance of having cancer or a testicular torsion is nill (i had a testicular torsion, wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy).
He doesn't even take a moment to reflect on the fact that it keeps you enslaved, an orgasm lasts 1 second, what a joke, there is pressure before the orgasm, you strive like a monkey, enslaved to animal pulsions and instincts you had no say in, untill you release that pressure. And there is of course the ego boost.
It's like those of us who never had money to buy alcohol when they were young, they fantasized about how amazing, great, fantastic it would be if they just had enough money to buy alcohol, and maybe coke.
But those of us who had that money, what did they get for the alcoholic out cocked out nights ? Addiction ? Fleeting memories ? Running after a chimera ?
The Buddha talked about the allure and the danger of sensuality. The allure is that you see a beautiful girl, a young girl, and it's mesmerizing, enticing, it gets you hooked. It gives you a fleeting pleasure.
The danger ? By getting hooked, you become enslaved to your instincts, focused on the body, on youth, on a fleeting moment, so - for a normie - you become fearful of death, fearful of aging, addicted to salivating after/grasping/running after, you stress yourself about illness, about death, about losing that access. For an incel you become stressfull, agitated, depressed about never having that access to begin with.
You are like the person who salivates after alcohol but never have the money to buy it.
Of course sex gives immense pleasure, huge ego boost, no denying that.
But few of us can understand that pleasure and ego boosts just keep us enslaved, hooked, fearful and agitated.
That was the buddha message. Or what most of people here would consider as "Cope".
This topic is best contemplated directly after an orgasm, once the pressure has been relieved.
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