Based on talking to several users on here and reading the biographies of famous incels such as elliot rodger, as well as polls and surveys conducted on this forum this past months I have noticed a pattern which just happens to correlate with my personal experience
Almost all incels- actual incels, not fakefags or larpers, have certain traits and shared/common experiences
I will start off with listing them
Height: Most incels tend to be between 5'7 (170cm) to 5'11 (180cm) in height, either that or slightly below the average in the country they are living in. However, extremely short incels are uncommon.
Body: Most incels tend to have been very skinny, weak and unathletic in their childhood, but get fat when they get older, either due to gymcelling done improperly or stress eating from depression
Face: Most incels tend to be genuinely unattractive, either that or they have several key features that distort their otherwise normal face. They aren't necessarily deformed in the literal since, or extremely ugly, but rather just a few points uglier than a low-tier normie. This is emphasized by the fact that almost all incels tend to have receding hairlines or just high hairlines in the first place, which can only be fixed with a hair transplant or invasive medications.
NT: This is the most homogenous statistic for incels. In a recent poll it seemed like there were a cluster of users on here who fell between the 35-39 scores on the Autism Quotient, with almost everyone falling between 30-45.
This indicates that the majority of incels are more autistic than someone who has Asperger's, but slightly, not yet low-functioning. This is reinforced by my personal experience
Experience growing up: This part is the most interesting, almost all incels tend to have the following pattern
Abusive parents in some way shape or form. Whether psychological verbal or physical. Often helicopter parents too. These parents tend to be inept at raising children in a healthy way, and morph everything about the child according to their own worldview, hindering the childs development. These parents always become gaslighting towards the child when they get older, while simultaneously "wishing the child had never been born".
As a child, incels may have some true friends. But upon growing older, everyone develops their own intentions, while incels who have autism are left in the dark and still believe the world is a good place.
In fact, incels may start off with too much empathy or sympathy, which leads to them getting taking advantage of.
They can get up to severely bullied until late high school, or ostracized since middle school. Humans have an innate repulsion towards other humans that are non-NT, exhibiting traits such as introversion, and this is worse for men than for women. In fact I even have a theory that autistic and mentally ill people are part of the uncanny valley theory, but that's something for another thread. This is why incels who are often autistic are the victims coupled with the fact that they are well below average in appearance or "funny-looking".
Every child needs attention, so incels almost always have a jestermaxxing phase. However, they don't realize that the others are laughing AT them intsead of WITH them, until it's too late and they become an abused dog. This is because they never learned how to socialize properly because of their abusive or helicopter family, and was mostly ostracized after childhood missing developmental milestones, so when they try to be funny, they become the butt of the joke itself, not to mention autism comes into play
After this experience, we tend to become withdrawn and antisocial. Then these normie fucks have the AUDACITY to ask us "why is he so weird/awkward/quiet/rude?"
Because we are withdrawn and antisocial after these negative experiences we tend to develop extremist views, hell we try to find anything that's counter-culture so that we can fit in. Because the majority of society has stomped on us over and over again, telling us we can't fit in, that we must be the butt of every joke, without every telling us the reason.
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And with these negative experiences and views we get demonized even more by society.
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Upon entering college we become stressed at life, mostly ignored because of all the reasons stated above, more and more ostracized and we fall deeper and deeper into a spiral as we hopelessly reflect on our past
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What are the implications of this? Maybe it means we are very alike. Maybe it means god made us as a group to suffer. Maybe we are victims of natural selection so we all have undesirable traits in common. You can have your own interpretation. At the end of the day, it's the objective truth.
Almost all incels- actual incels, not fakefags or larpers, have certain traits and shared/common experiences
I will start off with listing them
Height: Most incels tend to be between 5'7 (170cm) to 5'11 (180cm) in height, either that or slightly below the average in the country they are living in. However, extremely short incels are uncommon.
Body: Most incels tend to have been very skinny, weak and unathletic in their childhood, but get fat when they get older, either due to gymcelling done improperly or stress eating from depression
Face: Most incels tend to be genuinely unattractive, either that or they have several key features that distort their otherwise normal face. They aren't necessarily deformed in the literal since, or extremely ugly, but rather just a few points uglier than a low-tier normie. This is emphasized by the fact that almost all incels tend to have receding hairlines or just high hairlines in the first place, which can only be fixed with a hair transplant or invasive medications.
NT: This is the most homogenous statistic for incels. In a recent poll it seemed like there were a cluster of users on here who fell between the 35-39 scores on the Autism Quotient, with almost everyone falling between 30-45.
This indicates that the majority of incels are more autistic than someone who has Asperger's, but slightly, not yet low-functioning. This is reinforced by my personal experience
Experience growing up: This part is the most interesting, almost all incels tend to have the following pattern
Abusive parents in some way shape or form. Whether psychological verbal or physical. Often helicopter parents too. These parents tend to be inept at raising children in a healthy way, and morph everything about the child according to their own worldview, hindering the childs development. These parents always become gaslighting towards the child when they get older, while simultaneously "wishing the child had never been born".
As a child, incels may have some true friends. But upon growing older, everyone develops their own intentions, while incels who have autism are left in the dark and still believe the world is a good place.
In fact, incels may start off with too much empathy or sympathy, which leads to them getting taking advantage of.
They can get up to severely bullied until late high school, or ostracized since middle school. Humans have an innate repulsion towards other humans that are non-NT, exhibiting traits such as introversion, and this is worse for men than for women. In fact I even have a theory that autistic and mentally ill people are part of the uncanny valley theory, but that's something for another thread. This is why incels who are often autistic are the victims coupled with the fact that they are well below average in appearance or "funny-looking".
Every child needs attention, so incels almost always have a jestermaxxing phase. However, they don't realize that the others are laughing AT them intsead of WITH them, until it's too late and they become an abused dog. This is because they never learned how to socialize properly because of their abusive or helicopter family, and was mostly ostracized after childhood missing developmental milestones, so when they try to be funny, they become the butt of the joke itself, not to mention autism comes into play
After this experience, we tend to become withdrawn and antisocial. Then these normie fucks have the AUDACITY to ask us "why is he so weird/awkward/quiet/rude?"
Because we are withdrawn and antisocial after these negative experiences we tend to develop extremist views, hell we try to find anything that's counter-culture so that we can fit in. Because the majority of society has stomped on us over and over again, telling us we can't fit in, that we must be the butt of every joke, without every telling us the reason.
.
And with these negative experiences and views we get demonized even more by society.
.
Upon entering college we become stressed at life, mostly ignored because of all the reasons stated above, more and more ostracized and we fall deeper and deeper into a spiral as we hopelessly reflect on our past
.
What are the implications of this? Maybe it means we are very alike. Maybe it means god made us as a group to suffer. Maybe we are victims of natural selection so we all have undesirable traits in common. You can have your own interpretation. At the end of the day, it's the objective truth.
