actually yeah this is a great cover story, it’s probably the best one for someone with a dark incel past
yep bro, or even worse you let your guard down (like an idiot) and she sees right through you and laughs at you for your fucked past
"Dark incel past", "fucked past", bruh, you can't convince me or expect me to believe that you wrote those with a straight face
. Either you are trolling, or you genuinely don't understand how insignificant this site is in the lives of most guys here. Just the number of people who will be here just for a month or two and them disappear forever is proof of that.
99% of the people here are absolutely nothing like they are on this site when interating with people IRL. Venting on an obscure forum for lonely men is not having a "dark" or "fucked" past
. If anything, the guys here are less likely to have an
actual dark or fucked past, involving bullying people to near suicide, humiliating people weaker than them, abusing relatives or girlfriends, abusing or killing animals, et cetera, if only because most of the guys here have been on the receiving end of those things and have never had the power to do such things to others.
exactly and you have no shared common experiences with her, you don’t have anything to bond with her over so the relationship is built on nothing
And what would stop me from building such experiences with her? That's the entire point of dating, hanging out and getting to know each other, to get some shared experiences as a couple, to build trust together, to get to know each other and so on.
alright so trust, compatibility, and mutual attraction are all things that are useless for a relationship that is supposed to last for years? stop coping with this retarded shit bro, get ur head out of the gutter
And why, exactly, should the usage of an obscure incel forum be what decides whether you can build trust or are compatible with a girl who would be interested in you
? I wouldn't know which random websites or forums she uses to vent or do whatever either and if I spent a couple of weeks hanging out with her and deciding that she's a pretty great chick who I'd definitely like a relationship with, why should I care about her using some weird website from time to time? Especially since I'd actually know er personally instead of only from behind a screen, which is an environment where people tend to pretend that they are something they are not quite commonly. And if it wouldn't matter to me, why should it matter to her that I sometimes vented on an obscure incel forum, especially if she'd get to know me as an actual person IRL?
And this applies in general lol
. I have no real idea what websites my family members, coworkers, or other people I know browse or use. That doesn't change a thing about my relationships with any of them, because I, to varying degrees of course, actually know them as people. I don't need to have obsessive, detailed knowledge of their digital footprint to know that I can trust my parents or that the guys I've known for years are relatively normal people who I don't need to feel threatened around, and the same applies to hypothetical romantic relationships I'd have as well.
You're never going to completely know another person.
Gnossienne and
amicy are very much things everyone has felt at least once, and there's a good reason for it. That doesn't mean you can't build a relationship, of any type, with them, build trust and find out if you're compatible (unfortunately, mutual attraction is something that either is here or isn't, you can't really effect that one
).
ah yeah forgot your a genetic determinism retard who believes everything is determined from birth, since this applies to you don’t bother reading my thread tbh
I originally wanted to joke about how brutal this reply is and how all of my arguments have just been completely refuted
, but I think I'll just point out that this is a surprisingly personal comment considering that, to my knowledge at least, we've never interacted before
. However, although this is the first time I'm seeing your profile, this thread is actually surprisingly similar to this one by a guy who got banned months ago:
contrary to popular normie belief the ability to love is not one that is inherent in all people and given from birth, but instead expanded upon by your environment and the people you interact with. many of you here talk about wanting love, affection, romance from the opposite gender without...
incels.is
I'd never accuse somebody of being a sockpuppet account used to evade a ban or anything, especially with absolutely no proof. However, that doesn't change the fact that, some slight differences in the way the argument is presented aside, the arguments in both of those threads are overall very similar, consisting of claims that our experiences and environments have turned us into people unable of love. Given how similar they are, I think that
@OutcompetedByRoomba's pretty good reply in that other thread is definitely quotable here:
Nah, one more piece of hate-fuelled black and white nonsense. For most of us, a girl being meaningfully kind and honestly affectionate towards us would have our hearts bursting with love almost instantly.
The unpleasant truths about the world we got to see and the intense misery we experienced shaped us and create a chasm between us and most normies. And we won't ever be the people we were when we were young and didn't know how terrible things could be (for those of us lucky enough to have a period like that early on). But our brains didn't suddenly forget how to feel a baseline human emotion or became incapable of bonding.
You are simply abusing the general hopelessness, self-hate and low self-esteem present in this user base to twist the knife a bit in their open wounds. People on here are prone to believe your garbage because they can't remember the last time they felt loved or unreservedly gave their love to someone else. Which is to be expected on an incel forum ffs.
To make the point with an hypothetical:
If you feel confident that you as an incel can no longer feel love, how would you test that?
Like, what would be solid evidence for that theory?
Probably something like "there are multiple people, at least one of them a girl you end up sleeping with, who are spending a lot of time with me, who clearly like me and whom I can relate to + enjoy being around. And yet, despite having all of this over a prolonged period of time, I still can't feel any love or affection for them growing inside myself".
Well, if you were able to test that theory than you probably would no longer be an incel on here, would you?
Most people on here barely have any irl friends.
How would you know if you could love someone if you rarely have any opportunity or reason to do so?
How would you know that you are no longer capable of love without first having an experience that should have made you love someone, which would probably include you getting laid?
How would you know that you can no longer bond with people when there aren't any people like you around to bond with?
Some incels ascend without falling in love, but so do many normies every day. That you found a girl willing to fuck you might just have been not quite enough to make you love her or get you over a lifetime of misery and lonelyness... what a suprise.
People on here are so defeated, they can't allow any hope for a better future in their life but mindlessly accept the most horrible perspectives and ideas as facts because why not?
At least apply an equally strict standart of proof to both sides.
Actually, after reading the responses, I am pleasently suprised how clearly people told this faggot to fuck off. Good on you guys.
