The Truth About Being "NEEDY"

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Femshits, dating coaches a.k.a. faggots, TRPers a.k.a. mega fags and other "seduction" experts want to shame men who show the so-called "NEEDY" behavior.

But is it really that bad to be needy?

Not really. Do you feel guilty that you are hungry? Do you feel guilty when you crave sleep?

I guess no. Then why do we shame "neediness". What is shameful about looking for love? What is the problem?

There is no problem but those nasty fuckers want you to feel that way.

The reason is simple:

When you are needy, you feel too "ez". Like you would love just about anyone. Therefore, those experts advise you to hold back and "create interest" through "dread".

The truth, however, is that this is pure bullshit.

Being needy does not put a femshit off if she is ATTRACTED TO YOU.

Delaying your responses, leaving her on seen and all that bullshido will NOT do effectively anything.

Sure, she may wonder "why is this incel not blowing up my phone anymore" but that interest will quickly die off.

A few days later, she is already swimming in messages from other guys. You are forgotten.

Ultimately, you could tell if a girl is going to meet you during your first day of communicating.

If she is not responding in a timely manner, it's not because you're needy. It's because she is either dead/injured or simply not attracted....

P.S. Chad's can't be needy.

 

[VisVoi]

Indeed, attraction is a very natural and physical thing. Running game or holding frame will not help anyone unless the girl is already physically attracted.

 

[Enigmatic93]

Legit. I shook my head at that cope thread the other day about replying quickly.

Between all the PUA-esque copes and NoFap shilling, it's clear that most people here aren't truly blackpilled. Truly blackpilled people are like maybe 15-20% of the forum. Like Ryo said, this place is full of people who are taking the black pill but are trying to throw it up.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

You can't fake being non needy. You either are, or you arent'. If you are, it means you're not having enough sex. If you aren't, it means you are.

 

[uglyinkel]

man are suppose to be ''needy'' just the fact you started talking to a girl already signals it

 

[Minjaze]

If anything, I constantly see femoids act needy and desperate around Chad.

 

[Its_OVER]

High Iq post.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

i would love to slit those fuckers throats then they will be NEEDY for proper airflow from choking on their own blood.

 

[incel scum]

Legit. I shook my head at that cope thread the other day about replying quickly.

Between all the PUA-esque copes and NoFap shilling, it's clear that most people here aren't truly blackpilled. Truly blackpilled people are like maybe 15-20% of the forum. Like Ryo said, this place is full of people who are taking the black pill but are trying to throw it up.

Lookism is more blackpilled than here but it also has a bunch of non-incel types unfortunately.

 

[catfishman23]

Ok. You should not feel guilty for wanting sex. At the same time, neediness isn’t a cute look on anyone. Even if girls put up with it for a guy they are attached to (which btw is the reason for putting up with it, not because they are attracted to them, there are plenty of attractive non needy men). Human nature and desiring sex is normal. Neediness is annoying. It’s true that no one wants to feel like someone wants to be with them simply because they are the persons only option. Woman want to be with someone who wants to be with them. Being aloof will often put a woman off. Especially a good woman. We want you to respond to our texts. We want you to text us. Otherwise we wouldn’t have given you our phone numbers. When I am ignored by a guy I was interested in, who I thought was interested in me, I am not swimming in new guys a few days later. I’m depressed and thinking they lost interest and trying to figure out why.

reply to my thread roastie, before you get banned.

 

[catfishman23]

I agree if you are chad, female will disregard your neediness.
because she is in love with "chad's" looks.
unlike a beta male, she will find it annoying and desperate. This is common logic and female nature.

 

[Enigmatic93]

Lookism is more blackpilled than here but it also has a bunch of non-incel types unfortunately.

Not really tbh. Lookism has a lot of people throwing up the blackpill too. Only difference between this site and lookism is that their userbase is better looking

r/incels in its prime was the most blackpilled, particularly when we went private.

 

[Redpill Robert]

Idk. I've seen Chads get dumped for being too clingy even when the femoid was obsessed at first. Of course it's true that if you're ugly "not being needy" won't do much for you as you were fucked before you even had a chance, but still.

Chad is of course generally independent, confident, and aloof (but not in an autist way). TRP copers see that and think "if I just act like that, I can be Chad too!" Doesn't quite work like that, buddy. The reason Chad is like that is BECAUSE he's Chad. Not the other way around.